I am a very private person.

It makes me feel uncomfortable for people to know my personal deetz.

It is uncomfortable for me when people - "aunties" (they are not blood related to me but I call them aunties because they are old enough to be my mother/grandmother), I find it uncomfortable when they ask me what I am doing with my life, school/work wise, when I am getting married and so on..

I feel uncomfortable because I am 100% sure only 1% are asking because they actually care.. the other 99% are just asking to collect gossip OR to compare their/ their children's lives with mine and see who is doing better / or worse...

I perfectly agree with you bro...

Have learnt to be evasive in my answers when asked questions about my life. But, if it's a question that seems the evasiveness approach might not work on like‘ what do you plan to do with yourself now?, I give them answers like ‘ It's all in GOD's hands, I believe he has great plans for me’