aunties who are family friends and church members

they ask me everything about my life
they want to know when im getting married, when i will graduate, where i work, every detail about my life (to gossip and compare my own progress to theirs or their childrens progress)

how do i deal with them? without being rude?

thanks
im 25

Are u a boy or a girl? Let's start from there.

a woman thank you sir

Iruobean:
Are u a boy or a girl? Let's start from there.

findingmyself18:
a woman thank you sir

where do you stay

You are jobless that is why you have time to answer them

the uk

answer my q

dingbang:
where do you stay

im enjoying uk life whilst u r suffering under buhari, you obwanjay

youngest85:
You are jobless that is why you have time to answer them

This kind of people the best thing to do is give them a one word answer and avoid smiling with dem



Since u don't wanna be rude,the only reason they kip asking u those questions is bcuz they know u are friendly and wud answer....start giving dem attitude and see how dey will develop brain

thanks!! good advice eheennn keep it comin

what if i tell them dont worry about it?

Abbeysunday:
This kind of people the best thing to do is give them a one word answer and avoid smiling with dem



Since u don't wanna be rude,the only reason they kip asking u those questions is bcuz they know u are friendly and wud answer....start giving dem attitude and see how dey will develop brain

findingmyself18:
im enjoying uk life whilst u r suffering under buhari, you obwanjay

But you are still jobless....

findingmyself18:
aunties who are family friends and church members

they ask me everything about my life
they want to know when im getting married, when i will graduate, where i work, every detail about my life (to gossip and compare my own progress to theirs or their childrens progress)

how do i deal with them? without being rude?

thanks
im 25

Just if I could add my 2 cents...
Over the years of my existence, I tend to think that people just don't really know how to converse with each other.
Perhaps all the "aunties" know what to say is to ask those questions.
Maybe they really don't mean any harm and don't know what else to say to you.
I totally get where you're coming from cause I've experienced and still experience it to this day.
I used to get bothered by those questions..but there is a way to politely steer the conversation in another direction if you feel uncomfortable answering. Or you could answer maybe (1-2) of the questions and then reverse the conversation over to them.
Hug them, tell them "I'm blessed," and keep it moving
don't think saying, "Don't worry about it," is the best approach...lol.