I was filling a form online and user my younger brother as next of kin. He by chance saw the form and raised hell. Scolding everyone and everything. What I did, was it wrong?


Edit January, 2019: Learning to live with the things you can't change is a much better route to peace of mind.

he wanted u to use him? am lost, find me

Hmm

yes. saying I regard my brother more than him.

Sleekydee:
he wanted u to use him? am lost, find me

Sleekydee:
he wanted u to use him? am lost, find me

use him for?

Xamie271:
yes. saying I regard my brother more than him.

No problem wen u grow up u will know wat being a dad is like.

I use to be in ur shoes till I became my own man....and now I bow down to my dad even as he RIP.

loneatar:
use him for?

Probably money making rituals....

Not too bad though...

Seems petty to me though. Trying to figure out why i will get mad if my son uses my other son as next of kin?

Next of kin should be your siblings. Period

If you go somewhere, say school or bank, him go gree leave him work and follow you?

loneatar:
use him for?

Ritual

But some dads can escalate issues sha

as the next of kin

loneatar:
use him for?

yomi007k:


No problem wen u grow up u will know wat being a dad is like.

I use to be in ur shoes till I became my own man....and now I bow down to my dad even as he RIP.

so you're insinuating? that my brother isn't good enough as a next of kin?

Xamie271:
yes. saying I regard my brother more than him.

now that's just some petty shit

Xamie271:

so you're insinuating? that my brother isn't good enough as a next of kin?

Nope...im saying u will understand in the future.

Please explain to your dad that your next of kin is "expected" to out live you so a sibling, spouse or child is most appropriate choice

Have you ever heard the term "patricide"?

Na question ooo....

Ranchhoddas:
Have you ever heard the term "patricide"?

Na question ooo....

And what has murdering someone's got to do with next of kin?

babythug:
Please explain to your dad that your next of kin is "expected" to out live you so a sibling, spouse or child is most appropriate choice

that's what I thought ooh. now I don't even know again.

Very funny

Xamie271:
And what has murdering someone's got to do with next of kin?

Na question na.

I was thinking you were looking for a solution.

It is better to use your siblings as NOK instead of your dad. Your dad is technically meant to die before you.

But hating your dad is too much energy. Respect him, live your life and be happy.

Try not to expect too mich when you relate with him since he abuses you mentally. Just take the negative things he says with a pinch of salt.

nok are supposed to be ppl in your generation or younger thsn you not some old person biko.
As it is my small son will be my nok

if i am your dad, and you still live under my roof, i will quickly ask you to go live at your next f kin place....since they matter more than me who is feeding/housing you

babythug:
Please explain to your dad that your next of kin is "expected" to out live you so a sibling, spouse or child is most appropriate choice

Yes & No it's a matter of choice though

ImaIma1:
It is better to use your siblings as NOK instead of your dad. Your dad is technically meant to die before you.

But hating your dad is too much energy. Respect him, live your life and be happy.

Try not to expect too mich when you relate with him since he abuses you mentally. Just take the negative things he says with a pinch of salt.

I love this

Sleekydee:
he wanted u to use him? am lost, find me

This got me cracked up!

ImaIma1:
It is better to use your siblings as NOK instead of your dad. Your dad is technically meant to die before you.

But hating your dad is too much energy. Respect him, live your life and be happy.

Try not to expect too mich when you relate with him since he abuses you mentally. Just take the negative things he says with a pinch of salt.

thank you

ImaIma1:
It is better to use your siblings as NOK instead of your dad. Your dad is technically meant to die before you.

But hating your dad is too much energy. Respect him, live your life and be happy.

Try not to expect too mich when you relate with him since he abuses you mentally. Just take the negative things he says with a pinch of salt.

thank you very much

ImaIma1:
It is better to use your siblings as NOK instead of your dad. Your dad is technically meant to die before you.

But hating your dad is too much energy. Respect him, live your life and be happy.

Try not to expect too mich when you relate with him since he abuses you mentally. Just take the negative things he says with a pinch of salt.

thank you very much!

MrBrownJay1:
if i am your dad, and you still live under my roof, i will quickly ask you to go live at your next f kin place....since they matter more than me who is feeding/housing you

let's say there was property at stake, I should die before him and he'll inherit them all while I have a brother? How does that even resound in your mind? I'm glad most father's are more enlightened to not reason this backwardly.

Ranchhoddas:
Na question na.

I was thinking you were looking for a solution.

You no well.
Long time how far.