ramzythecoder:
Please i don't uderstand your question, kindly expantiate. Mind you i am hale and hearty, a complete man with no issues

sisisioge:


Thanks alarinna. I meant, what's he bringing to the table? Why doesn't any girl want him before? Who & what is he? He should sha show me his card . I am serious about checking him out.

If anyone were to have asked me what I'm bringing to the table...na write an essay about yourself be that.

@ OP, send me a mail. Email is on my profile. We will just do a quick one-over of each other. I've got time today

cruchenutii:


Always the funny part. Women don't want Men that other ladies don't want.

ramzythecoder:


Thanks for the advice .
The thing is Deeper Life is a good Church, but some of our women don't dress well and they are dirty. So the point is that picking a woman from that church is NO.

sisisioge:




Ok, I believe you. Now that I have helped your ministry by taking the focus of your thread away from the expected insults to interests, I'm sure other girls would love to learn about you too. Tell us about yourself. Why should any girl have the hots for you? Education, ideologies, physical attributes, and whatever you are comfy sharing.

Let us year am

excanny:


You can easily correct these. Seems you prefer a bad girl type.

Some of them might be pretending holy holy. Flirt with more or them, test them after some rapport, you would like them to visit.

Dont disappoint tho if anyone of them agrees to come, get prepared to shag.

You might incur wrath if you dont.

ramzythecoder:
Okay thanks. I am a graduate, a software Engineer ,average hight, yeah i have me lots of ladies in the past but i was not ready for marriage then, so i did not show interest and was not interested in furnication. I actually set some goals for myself before marriage and before i could achieve them it was already late. Thats all i can say now, feel free to ask any question.

Perspectives:
See interview o

sisisioge:


Good.

So what's your definition of average height? If you don't mind be specific. Height and weight...no vex, na you say make we ask

alexialin:
Op lemme give u a few tips.

Take a picture, side view, full length of your height or take a pic with a cool face cap, let part of your face show and pose swaggilicious
Then post it on your profile. At least a lady will have an idea of how u look like. That's if you want a lady from Nairaland.

Then second advice, choosing a bride from your church is good, if bn dirty looking is what's putting u off? U can teach her how to dress trendy and neat.

Or tell your family to help look for a bride for u.

Also in buses or bus stops, or even banks or office environment, u could sight someone u like and see as a wife material. But her check her fingers, if no wedding ring before striking a conversation.

Then facebook as well, look at ladies profile and chat with the ones u like.

It's that easy
Life is not that hard.

ramzythecoder:
lols hight(5.6 ft) weight(45)

nigeriancritic1:

Don't thank me. Human life is finite. You allowed the church to do your thinking for you.

Chascop:
Lol.. sisioge your interview eeeH...


Please I'm also interested but my own requirement is just the issue here..

supersystemsnig:



What are you looking for ?

Chascop:


supersystemsnig I actually want to get married, to be sincere. I have seen a whole lot of ladies but they don't match my taste

ramzythecoder:


Thanks

Chascop:
Lol.. sisisioge your interview eeeH...


Please I'm also interested but my own requirement is just the issue here..

alexialin:





Lol

On top say he wan marry

Hahaha , una wan kee person with laughter this afternoon.

BTW, I dey trip for your sense of humour sisisioge. You seem very intelligent. I pray this Engineer guy go fit sharp up and act like a man he is. This go be good catch in d making.

alexialin:




You are welcome

Well I grudgingly agree with sisisioge on what she said Nw.

Op you need to add some weight. U can't look frail at that age.
I have a male friend who wants to get married badly but the kind of ladies he desires do not desire him, infact no lady is saying yes to his marriage proposal, why? Because he looks frail. And he dresses OK, but that low weight alone has spoilt everything. He joined my tutorial class and virtually proposed privately to 4girls he fancied. He's a banker and the four ladies he proposed to are :

A Doctor Who is slender, tall and pretty, she categorically begged him not to propose to her and she doesn't fancy him.

The second one is a Lawyer, slim and average height, that one said No!.

The 3rd one, a unilag student, average shape, average height and pretty, she said No

The 4the one, a marketer, slim , dark looks like Kate henshaw replica. This one also said No.

He was heartbroken and he came to meet me very early in the morning as I arrived in the office and he said with a sober look, Alexy please can I talk to u about a private issue?
I looked at him and I said come in.
He walked in and we sat down.

He said please Alexy look at me, if a woman sees me what do you think goes on in her mind.

I said hmmmm. Why do u ask?

sisisioge:


Wetin be your requirements? We are all allowed to want what we want. I once met a guy who says my small behind is exactly how he likes it, I thought he was joking. When God blessed me small and I moved from size 8 to 10 like this, na so Bobo begin dey fume . Imagine, this is something I tucked perfectly into the 10 o.

supersystemsnig:



We're in the same boat oh... Taste matters... There are clean ladies, intelligent and all that...finding them is what baffles me... I found one by luck.. Lost it so cheaply recently, i'm still annoyed at how i lost out

Chascop:


OK sisisioge, for easy communication, I need someone who's based in the US or perhaps has plans of emigrating.

Though I have some ladies on my list but I'm now searching for the best.

sisisioge:


Ntor at the bolded My headyheadyquickdeyvex!

alexialin:
He said, just tell me first and I will explain why am asking this question.
I said OK, hmm if am a lady and u woo me? I wouldn't want to go out with u. He sighed and said why?
I said because u are too frail and u don't look appealing.
He said how should he look, with sad eyes.
I felt bad immediately, I said OK u know what? Do u eat 3times daily ?
If no? Please try eat well.
Your skin is OK, your outfit is OK and neat but the only thing lacking is your weight. You need to eat well.
He laughed and he said but thats how his size is from birth. And do I know he has proposed marriage to even 4ladies in this class and they all. Turned him down.
I was like you see? You don't look healthy. See your cheekbones!

If u eat healthy and we'll, your slim frail look, will be slim and fit look.

Hewas still arguing with me. I then said just try and eat well.

He said OK, Alex let's do it this way. Can u ask those girls why they said no to me?
Because if it's money to marry, I have it already. If it's a flat, am. Ready to rent a nice two bedroom flat. Please ask them why?
Lemme know the real reason.
I looked at him again, heaved a sigh and said OK, I will ask them. Give me two days. He said OK.

sisisioge:


Amelian, your gist too dey long. Anyways, I forgive you .

This dude needs to add weight like kilode.

alexialin:
He said, just tell me first and I will explain why am asking this question.
I said OK, hmm if am a lady and u woo me? I wouldn't want to go out with u. He sighed and said why?
I said because u are too frail and u don't look appealing.
He said how should he look, with sad eyes.
I felt bad immediately, I said OK u know what? Do u eat 3times daily ?
If no? Please try eat well.

supersystemsnig:



We're in the same boat oh... Taste matters... There are clean ladies, intelligent and all that...finding them is what baffles me... I found one by luck.. Lost it so cheaply recently, i'm still annoyed at how i lost out

alexialin:





Eeyah, don't worry. Other pretty ladies of your spec will come your way again