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Woman Celebrates Husband’s 40th Posthumous Birthday With Touching Photos & Msg by Heartpure: 3:06pm On Dec 02, 2017
This have got me all teary. Nigerian woman, Funmi Afolarin has written a heart touching message to her late husband to celebrate his Posthumous 40th birthday.

This was shared by eloPhotos on Facebook who created the beautiful photos.

Read the story below;

A Tribute To YOU: CELEBRATING MUYIWA AT 40

I remember waking you up that Monday morning to share with you the dream I just had about you passing on. I remember being upset with you that we did not pray long enough to reject the dream from becoming a reality. I remember you telling me it’s not the length of a prayer that determines whether our FATHER will answer. I remember your calmness amidst my worry.

I remember getting the call few hours later that morning. I remember sitting by your side around 11am with oxygen tank and drips attached to you. I remember you telling me that you came back momentarily to tell me to let you go because your time was up. I remember being too shocked to cry and I am yet to cry the way the world expects. I remember that Monday morning was not the most prophetic and exciting way to start the week. I remember the criticisms, feedbacks, rebukes and advice I received all because I didn’t cry or react the way normal people react when things like this happen. I remember the counsels of psychanalysts, the admonitions of psychologists, the analysis of psychiatrists, and the gossips & gists of every other unqualified ‘gists’. But all the talk was said either because they didn’t know you the way I did or they didn’t understand this perspective of the God we serve.

You’ve been gone 996 days (not that I’ve been counting). You passed the torch to me with 3 angels to care for. Your departure gave me enough reasons to ask HIM why HE took you so soon yet I’ve refused to ask HIM those dreaded-but-well-deserved questions that start with WHY… You’ve been gone but yet I’ve been comforted knowing very well you’re in HEAVEN.

Since you’ve been gone, my relationship with the FATHER has gotten to another level for good. Since you’ve been gone, my understanding of your unconditional LOVE has been clearer. Since you’ve been gone, my definition of WORSHIP has been redefined. Since you’ve been gone, the revelation of what Mary felt when her firstborn was being crucified…. Forgive me, let me get a tissue, I’m getting a little emotional here. Since you’ve been gone, my LOVE for you has grown exponentially.

Sometimes your youngest son, Murewa, asks after his dad and I don’t know what to tell him. Sometimes your firstborn, Fiiresayemi, says he can’t remember your voice anymore and I try to play our wedding video for him. Sometimes your only daughter, Foyinsayemi, just wants to go for a walk down the street to buy groceries with her father but I’m left to be your representative.

Though it’s been 2 years, 8 months, and 10 days (really, I’m not counting) you’ve been on your vacation, I remember today – November 29, 2017 – as the day you would have turned 40 years old. I had planned this day years ago and never envisaged I would witness it in your absence, but then again you’re still present. I would have almost given up, had God not sent an enigmatic photographer my way to celebrate our family in pictures. The ONE that told me He had a hand in all that happened also told me your LIFE WAS A SEED that needed to die so that many will come to the consciousness of HEAVEN.

My prayer is that many will be encouraged to remain in the KINGDOM of this FATHER that makes all things work together for the good of them that love and seek him. My prayer is that many who have lost loved ones will find unexplainable comfort and undeniable peace like I found in the arms of the one I call OLUTUNU. My prayer is that many that see these HEAVENLY pictures that we took together will be reminded of the FACT that there is a place of peace, rest, and joy where those that pass on (I still don’t believe you’re DEAD) abide if they had a relationship with JESUS on this side of eternity.

As you celebrate your 40th birthday in HEAVEN and as we remember today the time you spent with us in years past, may God use these pictures and the blessed memory of you to heal the millions of hearts that see this. Like the unremovable birthmark we all have on our bodies, the memory of YOU & the God we serve will forever be engraved on our hearts. With TEARS in my eyes and joy in my heart, knowing very well that you’re reading this, I want you to know from the depths of my being that I LOVE YOU…. I ALWAYS HAVE AND ALWAYS WILL

Happy Birthday SWEETHEART. Keep resting in the bosom of your LORD.

Eternally Yours,
Your Beautiful Wife,
Funmi Afolari

#feelfreetoshare

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Re: Woman Celebrates Husband’s 40th Posthumous Birthday With Touching Photos & Msg by ClitoPen: 3:09pm On Dec 02, 2017
So touching....nice work of the photographer....
Re: Woman Celebrates Husband’s 40th Posthumous Birthday With Touching Photos & Msg by AK6464(m): 3:23pm On Dec 02, 2017
Touching
Re: Woman Celebrates Husband’s 40th Posthumous Birthday With Touching Photos & Msg by Nobody: 3:25pm On Dec 02, 2017
Ohhhh cry cry cry

I'm sure his spirit is very much around them. They did a great job inserting him into the photos, though it's so sad to see.
Re: Woman Celebrates Husband’s 40th Posthumous Birthday With Touching Photos & Msg by jdluv(f): 3:32pm On Dec 02, 2017
so touchin.....Miss my dad too
Re: Woman Celebrates Husband’s 40th Posthumous Birthday With Touching Photos & Msg by IamPatriotic(m): 3:52pm On Dec 02, 2017
Sorry madam, may your husband's soul find a peaceful abode to rest, but you should have known that it's "unyoruba" for a wife not to grieve at the demise of her husband. You would be definitely called names.
Re: Woman Celebrates Husband’s 40th Posthumous Birthday With Touching Photos & Msg by Partnerbiz(f): 4:09pm On Dec 02, 2017
Life is difficult. At times I wonder why we are here.
It's all good.

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Re: Woman Celebrates Husband’s 40th Posthumous Birthday With Touching Photos & Msg by PresVA: 4:38pm On Dec 02, 2017
ohhh God cry cry cry cry
Rest on sir.

It's well ma....May God give you all you need to raise your three angels to be the very best!
Re: Woman Celebrates Husband’s 40th Posthumous Birthday With Touching Photos & Msg by Katier00(f): 5:45pm On Dec 02, 2017
O dear God. Please comfort her and give her the Grace to care for her children
Re: Woman Celebrates Husband’s 40th Posthumous Birthday With Touching Photos & Msg by lamideee(f): 7:26pm On Dec 02, 2017
sooooo touching,cant hold back tears cry cry cry cry cry cry. may his soul continue to rip
Re: Woman Celebrates Husband’s 40th Posthumous Birthday With Touching Photos & Msg by Ishilove: 9:04pm On Dec 02, 2017
This is deep and very touching
Re: Woman Celebrates Husband’s 40th Posthumous Birthday With Touching Photos & Msg by eyinjuege: 9:39pm On Dec 02, 2017
Goodness

I know this woman.

Didn't hear about his death.

She's an amazing singer in her church..

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Re: Woman Celebrates Husband’s 40th Posthumous Birthday With Touching Photos & Msg by NwaAmaikpe: 10:16pm On Dec 02, 2017
shocked

Story for the gods.

Madam,
Swear to me that in this 2 years, 8 months and 10 days you have not tasted preek.

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Re: Woman Celebrates Husband’s 40th Posthumous Birthday With Touching Photos & Msg by obaataaokpaewu: 10:50pm On Dec 02, 2017
Scary cry
Re: Woman Celebrates Husband’s 40th Posthumous Birthday With Touching Photos & Msg by rennylaw(m): 10:48am On Dec 03, 2017
So sad. May the good Lord continue to uphold you, the children and every other person he left behind. Happy post humours birthday to him.
Re: Woman Celebrates Husband’s 40th Posthumous Birthday With Touching Photos & Msg by Vyolet(f): 11:01am On Dec 03, 2017
NwaAmaikpe:
shocked

Story for the gods.

Madam,
Swear to me that in this 2 years, 8 months and 10 days you have not tasted preek.
May sense fall on you, she's grieving while all you could think of is rubbishh,You are pathetic.

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Re: Woman Celebrates Husband’s 40th Posthumous Birthday With Touching Photos & Msg by emmanuel1990(m): 12:57pm On Dec 03, 2017
Heartpure:

This have got me all teary. Nigerian woman, Funmi Afolarin has written a heart touching message to her late husband to celebrate his Posthumous 40th birthday.

This was shared by eloPhotos on Facebook who created the beautiful photos.

Read the story below;

A Tribute To YOU: CELEBRATING MUYIWA AT 40

I remember waking you up that Monday morning to share with you the dream I just had about you passing on. I remember being upset with you that we did not pray long enough to reject the dream from becoming a reality. I remember you telling me it’s not the length of a prayer that determines whether our FATHER will answer. I remember your calmness amidst my worry.

I remember getting the call few hours later that morning. I remember sitting by your side around 11am with oxygen tank and drips attached to you. I remember you telling me that you came back momentarily to tell me to let you go because your time was up. I remember being too shocked to cry and I am yet to cry the way the world expects. I remember that Monday morning was not the most prophetic and exciting way to start the week. I remember the criticisms, feedbacks, rebukes and advice I received all because I didn’t cry or react the way normal people react when things like this happen. I remember the counsels of psychanalysts, the admonitions of psychologists, the analysis of psychiatrists, and the gossips & gists of every other unqualified ‘gists’. But all the talk was said either because they didn’t know you the way I did or they didn’t understand this perspective of the God we serve.

You’ve been gone 996 days (not that I’ve been counting). You passed the torch to me with 3 angels to care for. Your departure gave me enough reasons to ask HIM why HE took you so soon yet I’ve refused to ask HIM those dreaded-but-well-deserved questions that start with WHY… You’ve been gone but yet I’ve been comforted knowing very well you’re in HEAVEN.

Since you’ve been gone, my relationship with the FATHER has gotten to another level for good. Since you’ve been gone, my understanding of your unconditional LOVE has been clearer. Since you’ve been gone, my definition of WORSHIP has been redefined. Since you’ve been gone, the revelation of what Mary felt when her firstborn was being crucified…. Forgive me, let me get a tissue, I’m getting a little emotional here. Since you’ve been gone, my LOVE for you has grown exponentially.

Sometimes your youngest son, Murewa, asks after his dad and I don’t know what to tell him. Sometimes your firstborn, Fiiresayemi, says he can’t remember your voice anymore and I try to play our wedding video for him. Sometimes your only daughter, Foyinsayemi, just wants to go for a walk down the street to buy groceries with her father but I’m left to be your representative.

Though it’s been 2 years, 8 months, and 10 days (really, I’m not counting) you’ve been on your vacation, I remember today – November 29, 2017 – as the day you would have turned 40 years old. I had planned this day years ago and never envisaged I would witness it in your absence, but then again you’re still present. I would have almost given up, had God not sent an enigmatic photographer my way to celebrate our family in pictures. The ONE that told me He had a hand in all that happened also told me your LIFE WAS A SEED that needed to die so that many will come to the consciousness of HEAVEN.

My prayer is that many will be encouraged to remain in the KINGDOM of this FATHER that makes all things work together for the good of them that love and seek him. My prayer is that many who have lost loved ones will find unexplainable comfort and undeniable peace like I found in the arms of the one I call OLUTUNU. My prayer is that many that see these HEAVENLY pictures that we took together will be reminded of the FACT that there is a place of peace, rest, and joy where those that pass on (I still don’t believe you’re DEAD) abide if they had a relationship with JESUS on this side of eternity.

As you celebrate your 40th birthday in HEAVEN and as we remember today the time you spent with us in years past, may God use these pictures and the blessed memory of you to heal the millions of hearts that see this. Like the unremovable birthmark we all have on our bodies, the memory of YOU & the God we serve will forever be engraved on our hearts. With TEARS in my eyes and joy in my heart, knowing very well that you’re reading this, I want you to know from the depths of my being that I LOVE YOU…. I ALWAYS HAVE AND ALWAYS WILL

Happy Birthday SWEETHEART. Keep resting in the bosom of your LORD.

Eternally Yours,
Your Beautiful Wife,
Funmi Afolari

#feelfreetoshare

More on � http://www.richizhub.com/gists/nigerian-woman-celebrates-husbands-40th-posthumous-birthday-touching-message-photos/
so sad i am already crying, my dad died when i was only 7 and my mum died 3 yrs later, and to make matter worse those 7yrs that my father was alive, he hardly visit home, i can't really tell how he looks.. pls my fellow nairalanders if ur mum and dad are alive, pls and pls love and cherish them and always spend some quality time with them.

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Re: Woman Celebrates Husband’s 40th Posthumous Birthday With Touching Photos & Msg by Nathseun(m): 2:48pm On Dec 03, 2017
May God grant you fortitude to bear the loss my dear sister. Remain bless
Re: Woman Celebrates Husband’s 40th Posthumous Birthday With Touching Photos & Msg by delikay4luv: 1:33pm On Dec 04, 2017
NwaAmaikpe:
shocked

Story for the gods.

Madam,
Swear to me that in this 2 years, 8 months and 10 days you have not tasted preek.

Lukaku's heavy leg fall on you
Re: Woman Celebrates Husband’s 40th Posthumous Birthday With Touching Photos & Msg by abimbawealth(f): 5:18pm On Dec 05, 2017
Saw this post somewhere few days ago, and couldn't help but shed a tear...so unfortunate

May the LORD continue to uphold the family

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