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Kidney Failure: Patient’s Mother Greedy, Took N3.9m, Says NGO by Islie: 7:28am On Dec 06, 2017
Samson Folarin


The owner of a non -governmental organisation , Dignity for the Helpless Foundation (DHF) , Pastor Samuel Brown , has said the mother of Tochi , a kidney failure patient, Ndidi Mbonu, is using her to make money .

Brown , in a 12- page document , explained that his organisation had already given the family about N 3 . 9 m as against the N 1 . 4 m Ndidi said she collected.

He said the NGO later realised that the family , while getting money from the group , was also raising money through some other platforms.

Our correspondent had reported that Tochi , a graduate of the Benue State University , became deaf in India after being on dialysis for two years in the country .

She was on dialysis in Nigeria for one year before being flown out in 2015 .

Her mother , Ndidi, said she was stranded with her daughter in India due to lack of funds for her kidney transplant , adding that she had resorted to selling beans cake (moin - moin) for survival .

She had said her family was introduced to Brown ’ s NGO in 2015 and an agreement was reached to raise N 11 m for Tochi ’ s operation .

She explained that Brown also agreed to open a joint account with the family to ensure transparency and accountability.
Tochi ’ s mother said she was surprised when the NGO opened an account without involving any member of the family .

Ndidi said Brown had only given them N 1 . 4 m , adding that he paid N 30 , 000 every two weeks to reach the sum about a year ago .

Tochi , who chatted with our correspondent on WhatsApp , had begged for help from Nigerians, saying her condition was becoming critical .

The NGO , however, said Ndidi was blackmailing the organisation after she had threatened to deal with the owner if she didn’ t get N 6 m .

Brown said during the first meeting between the NGO and the family in September 2015 , the widow said the family needed about N 4 m for regular dialysis and treatment of her daughter.

Ndidi was alleged to have authorised the organisation to raise funds with the girl ’ s name in October 2015 , just as DHF increased the target to N 6 m to enable the victim to be on dialysis for at least one year.

In October 14, 2015, it was reportedly agreed that Tochi , Brown and the group ’ s manager, Shallom Ufforth , would be co- signatories to the account .

Brown said the group placed adverts and ran stories in media houses to start the campaign .

He said Ndidi later called to inform them that the family had decided to move Tochi to India for a kidney transplant , adding that she demanded that N 6 m be raised for the operation .

“ Right there in the office , we started discussing our experiences concerning the matter. Since she was spending N 27, 100 per session for dialysis in the hospital , that means if we want to go by doctor ’ s advice , three times a week will be N 81, 300 . That was how we raised the amount to N 11. 5 m . The hospital documents in her hands and our inquiries suggested that some people may go through dialysis for two to three years before the transplant is carried out, ” Brown added .

He said the group had paid Ndidi about N 2 m , which were not documented, adding that sometime in January 2016 , based on her instruction , the NGO sent N 50, 000 and N 200 , 000 to the account of one Oluwafemi Bukola .

Brown said sometime in June 2016 , Tochi ’ s mother started making unfounded claims about the amount raised by his organisation with a threat to blackmail him if she didn’ t get N 6 m .

“ I called her on September 11 , 2016 , and asked her to check her record; that only that year alone , she had collected N 1 , 150 , 000 . She said , ‘ Are you not making money too ?’ This was when it dawned on me that this woman was up to something .

“ When I asked her if she recalled that she had collected N 2 m from us before the N 1 , 150 , 000 , she said she thanked God that the money was not paid into her account and that she would deny it .

“At some point , we started begging her that we wanted to use her Indian line to campaign so that when people called , she would give them situation reports . She said she would deny that she was aware of the campaign if anyone should call her .

She said she would be happy with us if we give her N 6 m cash, ” Brown added .

He noted that the NGO later learnt that Ndidi had earlier raised N 10 m through two media houses before she approached them , adding that he was disappointed that the family never mentioned that to them .

Brown said while he was planning another round of campaign to raise funds , he saw a publication on Tochi ’ s condition and her mother ’ s allegations against the group.

He said , “ This woman has collected money from us to the tune of N 2 m without record . We told her that she should have told us that she had already gone far with the media (in raising funds); if we knew, we would not have involved ourselves .

“ Since then, she had been threatening that if I didn’ t give her the family ’ s share of the money , she would rubbish me and my foundation . She said I should remember that I am a pastor and she is a widow; that people will believe her more than me . ”

He said with payment for adverts, the organisation had spent a total of N 4 , 727 , 611 , adding that he had yet to raise up to N 5 m .



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Re: Kidney Failure: Patient’s Mother Greedy, Took N3.9m, Says NGO by Niyinficient(m): 9:37am On Dec 06, 2017
nawa...even at the face of death...a mother could still steal from her own ward.

This one weak me

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Re: Kidney Failure: Patient’s Mother Greedy, Took N3.9m, Says NGO by TheHistorian(m): 9:37am On Dec 06, 2017
Nigerians will take advantage of any situation. undecided

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Re: Kidney Failure: Patient’s Mother Greedy, Took N3.9m, Says NGO by bettercreature(m): 9:38am On Dec 06, 2017
grin grin grin grin
Re: Kidney Failure: Patient’s Mother Greedy, Took N3.9m, Says NGO by asdfjklhaha(f): 9:38am On Dec 06, 2017
So who is telling the truth na

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Re: Kidney Failure: Patient’s Mother Greedy, Took N3.9m, Says NGO by DLondonboiy: 9:38am On Dec 06, 2017
The pastor is a liar...

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Re: Kidney Failure: Patient’s Mother Greedy, Took N3.9m, Says NGO by oneda(m): 9:38am On Dec 06, 2017
Hian
A Pastor is involved... Freeze right now

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Re: Kidney Failure: Patient’s Mother Greedy, Took N3.9m, Says NGO by bolt000(m): 9:39am On Dec 06, 2017
The woman is Nigerian.. Pffft
I'm not even surprised.
Re: Kidney Failure: Patient’s Mother Greedy, Took N3.9m, Says NGO by Dutchey(m): 9:39am On Dec 06, 2017
i guess, ki emi sati lowo.....is the woman's ringtone
Re: Kidney Failure: Patient’s Mother Greedy, Took N3.9m, Says NGO by RIPEnglish: 9:39am On Dec 06, 2017
Stupid family are want to use the boy illness to became wealth.

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Re: Kidney Failure: Patient’s Mother Greedy, Took N3.9m, Says NGO by Harbeyg09(m): 9:40am On Dec 06, 2017
The love of money

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Re: Kidney Failure: Patient’s Mother Greedy, Took N3.9m, Says NGO by awesomesossy(f): 9:40am On Dec 06, 2017
Hmmmmmm..... Only in Nigeria....

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Re: Kidney Failure: Patient’s Mother Greedy, Took N3.9m, Says NGO by HumbleGee(f): 9:40am On Dec 06, 2017
Later they will say they are not been assisted..they are just destroying the images of the real ones in need of assistance

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Re: Kidney Failure: Patient’s Mother Greedy, Took N3.9m, Says NGO by maamisco(f): 9:40am On Dec 06, 2017
Hmmm this life! wetin person no go see embarassed

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Re: Kidney Failure: Patient’s Mother Greedy, Took N3.9m, Says NGO by Wishaky(f): 9:40am On Dec 06, 2017
Uuuuuhhh!!! Eleyi Gidigan oooh
Re: Kidney Failure: Patient’s Mother Greedy, Took N3.9m, Says NGO by sgtponzihater1(m): 9:41am On Dec 06, 2017
speechless for now.
Re: Kidney Failure: Patient’s Mother Greedy, Took N3.9m, Says NGO by 9jatatafo(m): 9:41am On Dec 06, 2017
Naija sef
Re: Kidney Failure: Patient’s Mother Greedy, Took N3.9m, Says NGO by Nobody: 9:42am On Dec 06, 2017
salvation101:
Pastor is the owner of the ngo and is touching lives, freeze wont see it

Why call out freeze? One pastor amongts thousands of them. Is he a pastor? Whom should he chill out with? You?

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Re: Kidney Failure: Patient’s Mother Greedy, Took N3.9m, Says NGO by bright007(f): 9:42am On Dec 06, 2017
OK
Re: Kidney Failure: Patient’s Mother Greedy, Took N3.9m, Says NGO by wellmax(m): 9:43am On Dec 06, 2017
Hungry people.
Re: Kidney Failure: Patient’s Mother Greedy, Took N3.9m, Says NGO by mamaafrik(m): 9:43am On Dec 06, 2017
Hmmm,someone is eventually not going to be happy when her daughter recovers,she has turned it into business,olorikori beeja ko'ko.
Re: Kidney Failure: Patient’s Mother Greedy, Took N3.9m, Says NGO by Nobody: 9:45am On Dec 06, 2017
ollah1:


Why call out freeze? One pastor amongts thousands of them. Is he a pastor? Whom should he chill out with? You?
and wat has freeze done undecided
Re: Kidney Failure: Patient’s Mother Greedy, Took N3.9m, Says NGO by nerodenero: 9:45am On Dec 06, 2017
So Tochi be the ATM now!!! By the time Tochi dies, everybody go rest. Wicked people everywhere. If this story is true, Ndidi deserves to be charged for murder if Tochi dies.

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Re: Kidney Failure: Patient’s Mother Greedy, Took N3.9m, Says NGO by Livefreeordieha(m): 9:48am On Dec 06, 2017
Niyinficient:
nawa...even at the face of death...a mother could still steal from her own ward.

This one weak me
in as much as we could deliberate on this from a distance but we could apply all societal values and scientific values our conclusions might shock our guts..Trust me she might be telling the truth...Moreover you need to also understand if a woman can sell her own kids,trade them for slavery and prostitution..Etc, then it's only advisable to be wary of both parties...Since the birth of millennium the Glory of Mama Africa of the 60s had depreciated.

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Re: Kidney Failure: Patient’s Mother Greedy, Took N3.9m, Says NGO by Bibors(m): 9:48am On Dec 06, 2017
Business in everything on earth.
Business in sex, conception, delivery, vaccination, feeing, .....sickness...death, burial .

Selfless service is lip service.

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Re: Kidney Failure: Patient’s Mother Greedy, Took N3.9m, Says NGO by Sirheny007(m): 9:51am On Dec 06, 2017
sad sad
This matter get as e be.
I honestly do not know which party to believe.

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Re: Kidney Failure: Patient’s Mother Greedy, Took N3.9m, Says NGO by free2ryhme: 9:51am On Dec 06, 2017
Islie:






http://punchng.com/kidney-failure-patients-mother-greedy-took-n3-9m-says-ngo/





Even at life threatening points Nigerians can be greedy not minding the consequences
Re: Kidney Failure: Patient’s Mother Greedy, Took N3.9m, Says NGO by jamace(m): 9:54am On Dec 06, 2017
Who is lying here?

Why did the pastor exclude the family from being part of the signatory to the bank account as agreed earlier?

Hmm. Both seizing the opportunity to make money.

Greed!!

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Re: Kidney Failure: Patient’s Mother Greedy, Took N3.9m, Says NGO by kay29000(m): 10:03am On Dec 06, 2017
Hmm

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