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Re: Ruling On Speaking To One's Fiancee by Nobody: 3:24pm On Jan 05, 2018
Lukgaf:
Praise be to Allaah.

It is not permissible except in a case where both parties trust one another and where the parents agree to the marriage and have no objections. In this case it is acceptable for them to speak to one another in a normal manner, discussing matters of life that concern them. But if they know that their parents do not agree to that, then it is not permissible for them to speak to one another in this case.

Shaykh ‘Abd-Allaah ibn Jibreen.

The fiancée is still a non-mahram woman and speaking to her is still speaking to a non-mahram woman, so it must be done properly and only as much as is necessary, such as agreeing on specific matters to do with after they get married. Attention must also be paid to the following:

1 – It must be done with the agreement of the woman’s guardian and with no objection on his part to the marriage.

2 – The talk should not involve anything that may provoke desire or cause temptation.

3 – There should be no other way of telling her what he wants to say, such as through his sister or her brother, or by letter.

4 – It should not go beyond what is essential.

And Allaah is the Source of strength.

https://islamqa.info/en/13704



hmmm that. Go mean say over 50% are doing it wrong
Re: Ruling On Speaking To One's Fiancee by Newnas(m): 3:25pm On Jan 05, 2018
marvin902:
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who you shut that black hole you call a mouth..
you stupid terrorist are the same peeps that will still come and bash Christians on their thread..
if you don't like my words go hug transformer..
like i said i blame your father not you..
he would have prevented bringing a terrorist into this world buh he refused... [/s]

Good riddance of bad nuisance!

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Re: Ruling On Speaking To One's Fiancee by marvin902(m): 3:26pm On Jan 05, 2018
Newnas:


Good riddance of bad nuisance!


the bastard is pained...
hahhahhahhahha..
useless nobody tongue tongue
Re: Ruling On Speaking To One's Fiancee by Newnas(m): 3:27pm On Jan 05, 2018
marvin902:

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hahhahahhaha pained ke...
i laugh you in swahali..
please go and find a bomb vest and wear and do us a favour and delete yourself..
that's what your religion is good for right [/s]
Re: Ruling On Speaking To One's Fiancee by marvin902(m): 3:31pm On Jan 05, 2018
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pained mo.ron tongue tongue
Re: Ruling On Speaking To One's Fiancee by Situation001(m): 3:45pm On Jan 05, 2018
Newnas:

Good riddance of bad nuisance!
pls just ignore him..

he's just some insignificant troll..
I don't think he's tameable in such a condition..
guess he's an escapee of a lunatic asylum.. just leave him be..
Re: Ruling On Speaking To One's Fiancee by greatjoey: 9:36pm On Jan 05, 2018
Newnas:


Psychopaths like you should be behind bars at the asylum

Typical of the killer Muhammedians. So intolerant and blood thirsty.
Re: Ruling On Speaking To One's Fiancee by MrHiiRO: 10:04pm On Jan 05, 2018
greatjoey:
This is total rubbish. Did Muhammad seek the consent of the women she forcefully seized and converted to slave wives? Do the emirs and northern Muslims seek the consent of the parents of the little christian teenagers they forcefully adopted and made wives?

it would be wise to keep shut when you don't have something meaningful to say
Re: Ruling On Speaking To One's Fiancee by chuose2: 12:49am On Jan 06, 2018
BenzEne1:



So according to your analogy. Christian girls who put on make up do it to enable them read the bible better?

Don't ask questions you have answers to.....

The question is why wrap up like a gift to put on makeup? angry
Its shows u that the hijab is simply a waste of time. grin

Do Christian girls wrap up like a gift? cheesy
Re: Ruling On Speaking To One's Fiancee by fatymore(f): 6:33am On Jan 06, 2018
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greatjoey:


Typical of the killer Muhammedians. So intolerant and blood thirsty.
how is he intolerant.. You would start your rubbish.. Insulting Muslims and Islam.. When they replied you in your own coins, you start saying we Muslims are intolerant and violent... Don't you have shame.. You people started this madness on page one.. Pokenosing to what doesn't concerns you and you want them to keep mute.. Just think.. Do you always see Muslims on your posts spewing rubbish. Most antagonistic posts on Christian threads are done by Christians.. It another year.. Desist from this childish attitude...Good morning

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Re: Ruling On Speaking To One's Fiancee by Rashduct4luv(m): 7:18am On Jan 06, 2018
I think it's now common here and everywhere!
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You see Christians throw a slap to a Muslim and he may not respond until the third time wherein he responds with a deadly blow. Then they claim Muslims' are terrorists.
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These kinds of non-muslims are worse than terrorists!

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