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Is It Wise To Aquire Many Properties When You Have Only Female Children by coputa(m): 8:18am On Jan 13, 2018 |
In our traditional A African society especially in Nigeria,the male children is the heir apparent and the one to carry on the family name and this also goes with the responsibility and privilege of taking over the estate(s) of the father. On the other hand,the female child is only seen but not heard because it is believed that she will eventually get married and concentrates on her new family and any inheritance given to her will eventually lands in another man's pocket. It now seems to be a waste of time to stress yourself to acquire many properties when you have only female children. |
Re: Is It Wise To Aquire Many Properties When You Have Only Female Children by ReinaFarine: 8:22am On Jan 13, 2018 |
Oya just take the award.... Most Sexist Comment of the Decade 3 Likes
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Re: Is It Wise To Aquire Many Properties When You Have Only Female Children by Heavance(m): 8:25am On Jan 13, 2018 |
And the male child won't make it a waste of time?
Only God gives, all we should do is love and support our children |
Re: Is It Wise To Aquire Many Properties When You Have Only Female Children by squarelead(m): 8:28am On Jan 13, 2018 |
STAY! And your female children should suffer because they are not male. Why this mentality now. How about pple wey no born at all, in fact you go talk say make them no eat. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Wise To Aquire Many Properties When You Have Only Female Children by thorpido(m): 8:35am On Jan 13, 2018 |
What da .....?Female children are not human beings?They do not deserve an inheritance? Please where is your |
Re: Is It Wise To Aquire Many Properties When You Have Only Female Children by coputa(m): 8:43am On Jan 13, 2018 |
squarelead:Female children are given the care and love given the boys,but after marriage one gold digger of a husband will partake in another man's wealth through the wife. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Wise To Aquire Many Properties When You Have Only Female Children by coputa(m): 8:46am On Jan 13, 2018 |
thorpido:They deserve,but not too much,they will take to one gold digger call husband. |
Re: Is It Wise To Aquire Many Properties When You Have Only Female Children by Khonifer: 8:49am On Jan 13, 2018 |
How funny |
Re: Is It Wise To Aquire Many Properties When You Have Only Female Children by MsFaith: 8:54am On Jan 13, 2018 |
coputa: Are you saying it's only gold diggers they would ever marry? |
Re: Is It Wise To Aquire Many Properties When You Have Only Female Children by coputa(m): 9:05am On Jan 13, 2018 |
MsFaith:If the girl child is bequeathed with stupendous wealth,it's the husband that does not have a stake in it that will eventually take them,it's like robbing peter to pay paul. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Wise To Aquire Many Properties When You Have Only Female Children by BLESSMME: 10:11am On Jan 13, 2018 |
coputa: No one made the rule that ones she marries, the man takes the company. she can still maintain it and the man should build on whatever he was doing before he married her but d woman should not act irrationally bcoz she has a company. How will you feel when ur future wife tells u she inherited a company from her dad?Great right? Same with other men |
Re: Is It Wise To Aquire Many Properties When You Have Only Female Children by greatgod2012(f): 10:51am On Jan 13, 2018 |
coputa: See mentality o! Are you saying marrying your wife has automatically qualifies you as a gold digger |
Re: Is It Wise To Aquire Many Properties When You Have Only Female Children by thorpido(m): 11:16am On Jan 13, 2018 |
coputa:Whoever they marry does not have to be a gold digger.Moreover,they don't have to transfer the properties to their husbands.They can still maintain it and keep it in their own names. |
Re: Is It Wise To Aquire Many Properties When You Have Only Female Children by squarelead(m): 11:24am On Jan 13, 2018 |
coputa:Not all men are gold digger, what if the lady marries someone like you? Won't you manage it well or are you one? |
Re: Is It Wise To Aquire Many Properties When You Have Only Female Children by ImaIma1(f): 1:18pm On Jan 13, 2018 |
Op i have only heard this your statement that "women are seen nut not heard" by igbo folks. It doesnt exist where i come from because women have a say. Please change that reasoning of seeing women as ornaments. So a man cannot give his daughter a house as a gift just because she is not a male child? That's why some sons live their lives irresponsibly knowing that they will inherit daddy's properties anyway. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Wise To Aquire Many Properties When You Have Only Female Children by MrBottle: 1:25pm On Jan 13, 2018 |
ImaIma1:You may have heard it from the kind of Igbo folks you associate with not the ones I associate with. Ever heard of the umuadas and the first daughters (Ada) that makes things happens. The matriachs of the family. You can't just comment without stringing in the tribal slur that keeps nairaland going. Folks here can't comment without hitting on tribalism. So thanks for kickstarting this thread. Gotta watch from the sideline how it goes downhill from here 1 Like |
Re: Is It Wise To Aquire Many Properties When You Have Only Female Children by ImaIma1(f): 1:32pm On Jan 13, 2018 |
My intention was not to start a tribal war. It was just something i kept hearing that i wish wasn't that way. 1 Like |
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