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Coping With A Difficult Binary Boss by tobechi74: 7:11am On Feb 12, 2018 |
Binary is a term used to describe being in a
state
of one of two mutually
exclusive conditions. Binary thinkers are
individuals
who classify any
idea,concept or people into completely opposite
group and in some cases
labels one group positive or good and the other
negative or bad . they
think in terms of black or white.no room for
middle
or grey. They are easy
to spot by their vocabulary. They tend to use
words
such as never,always,
none, etc. |
Re: Coping With A Difficult Binary Boss by tobechi74: 7:16am On Feb 12, 2018 |
Most binary bosses perform well in school.
They
scaled through a grading
system and where gender,height or connection
plays no role whatsaoever scores
above a certain mark( let’s say 200 in
jamb) ,passed and is assured of
admission. One who scores less loses
admission. Those who passes are called brilliant.those who failed are dull.they transfer this system of measurement in other aspect of life. They fail to understand that I this yardstick is not always applicable In real life. A dull child could cheat and pass. A brilliant child could fail due to falling Ill on exam day. A binary thinker excell through this pattern.they are very creative,talented and are good writers. They possess critical thinking analytical skills.their highly developed logical minds makes it difficult to consider emotion in decision making. Emotions, sentiment,politics ,loyalty and favoritism are viewed as wrong and would never be considered but talent and merit would be considered behold projecting ideas,rules and decision . |
Re: Coping With A Difficult Binary Boss by tobechi74: 7:17am On Feb 12, 2018 |
Emotions,
sentiment,politics
,loyalty and favoritism are viewed as wrong and
would never be considered
but talent and merit would be considered
behold
projecting ideas,rules and
decision |
Re: Coping With A Difficult Binary Boss by tobechi74: 7:17am On Feb 12, 2018 |
Such thinking pattern is encouraged in areas
where
thereus strong
adherence to rules. Binary thinkers excel as
referees
in sporting
competition and in security and exchange
commission. They also thrive well
in music,movie,literature, academic and
research
department. They generally
climb up the ladder in government agencies but
rarely in business. This is
because most business transaction involves
compromise which binary thinker
is unwilling to participate in. |
Re: Coping With A Difficult Binary Boss by tobechi74: 7:18am On Feb 12, 2018 |
They have a tendency to have a things their
way.
Their rigidity makes them
engage in frequent disagreement with
thesuperiors and subordinates.they
insist on challenging authority engaging in
shady
act and would not
compromise .he would rather resign than do
something g they consider as
unethical. When he gets tired of fighting the
goods
fight,he quits. |
Re: Coping With A Difficult Binary Boss by tobechi74: 7:19am On Feb 12, 2018 |
Don’t be surprised to find them changing job.
Notable example of individuals with h such
pattern
are Jose mourinho and Dr
okonji iweala.
Binary thinking has many effects on an
individual.their crave for
perfection leads to stained relationship. They
have
few circle of friends
making them loners. They can. Very
disappointed
when things don’t go their
way leading to depression. Their preference to
stick
to one or two views
narrows their perspective.. Such limited
perspective
leads to difficulty in
adapting a new idea and high resistance to
change.
They would rather stick
to old habit. They are poor in conflict resolution
dye
to their inability
to get either party to compromise. In most
cases,they side with one side
and condemn other side thereby escalating the
issue |
Re: Coping With A Difficult Binary Boss by tobechi74: 7:20am On Feb 12, 2018 |
Binary thinkers are unwilling to change. They
can
only be managed.first
agree with them that the system is unfair. Life
itself
is unfair. Rain
falls in both the good and bad.secondly, explain
to
them that it is better
to be effective than to be fair. It is difficult to
be
both.thirdly
encourage them to use middle terms such as
warm
(instead of hot or cold).
Middle aged instead of (young or old)
sometimes
instead of (always or
never).
Ask them open minded question such ad can
one
be good at maths and Terrible
at English? Does that make the person a terrible
person academically?
Question like this tend to open their mind and
make
them less rigid.
Binary thinkers are not bad. Infact, no single
individual is entirely good
or bad. Each of us have carry within ourselves
bunch of weakness and our
strength.we need to maximize our strength
while
been aware of our
weakness..virtue lies in the middle. |
Re: Coping With A Difficult Binary Boss by tobechi20(m): 9:04pm On Feb 21, 2018 |
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