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Coping With A Difficult Binary Boss by tobechi74: 7:11am On Feb 12, 2018
Binary is a term used to describe being in a state of one of two mutually exclusive conditions. Binary thinkers are individuals who classify any idea,concept or people into completely opposite group and in some cases labels one group positive or good and the other negative or bad . they think in terms of black or white.no room for middle or grey. They are easy to spot by their vocabulary. They tend to use words such as never,always, none, etc.
Re: Coping With A Difficult Binary Boss by tobechi74: 7:16am On Feb 12, 2018
Most binary bosses perform well in school. They scaled through a grading system and where gender,height or connection plays no role whatsaoever scores above a certain mark( let’s say 200 in jamb) ,passed and is assured of admission. One who scores less loses admission.
Those who passes are called brilliant.those who failed are dull.they transfer this system of measurement in other aspect of life. They fail to understand that I this yardstick is not always applicable In real life. A dull child could cheat and pass. A brilliant child could fail due to falling Ill on exam day. A binary thinker excell through this pattern.they are very creative,talented and are good writers. They possess critical thinking analytical skills.their highly developed logical minds makes it difficult to consider emotion in decision making. Emotions, sentiment,politics ,loyalty and favoritism are viewed as wrong and would never be considered but talent and merit would be considered behold projecting ideas,rules and decision .
Re: Coping With A Difficult Binary Boss by tobechi74: 7:17am On Feb 12, 2018
Emotions, sentiment,politics ,loyalty and favoritism are viewed as wrong and would never be considered but talent and merit would be considered behold projecting ideas,rules and decision
Re: Coping With A Difficult Binary Boss by tobechi74: 7:17am On Feb 12, 2018
Such thinking pattern is encouraged in areas where thereus strong adherence to rules. Binary thinkers excel as referees in sporting competition and in security and exchange commission. They also thrive well in music,movie,literature, academic and research department. They generally climb up the ladder in government agencies but rarely in business. This is because most business transaction involves compromise which binary thinker is unwilling to participate in.
Re: Coping With A Difficult Binary Boss by tobechi74: 7:18am On Feb 12, 2018
They have a tendency to have a things their way. Their rigidity makes them engage in frequent disagreement with thesuperiors and subordinates.they insist on challenging authority engaging in shady act and would not compromise .he would rather resign than do something g they consider as unethical. When he gets tired of fighting the goods fight,he quits.
Re: Coping With A Difficult Binary Boss by tobechi74: 7:19am On Feb 12, 2018
Don’t be surprised to find them changing job. Notable example of individuals with h such pattern are Jose mourinho and Dr okonji iweala. Binary thinking has many effects on an individual.their crave for perfection leads to stained relationship. They have few circle of friends making them loners. They can. Very disappointed when things don’t go their way leading to depression. Their preference to stick to one or two views narrows their perspective.. Such limited perspective leads to difficulty in adapting a new idea and high resistance to change. They would rather stick to old habit. They are poor in conflict resolution dye to their inability to get either party to compromise. In most cases,they side with one side and condemn other side thereby escalating the issue
Re: Coping With A Difficult Binary Boss by tobechi74: 7:20am On Feb 12, 2018
Binary thinkers are unwilling to change. They can only be managed.first agree with them that the system is unfair. Life itself is unfair. Rain falls in both the good and bad.secondly, explain to them that it is better to be effective than to be fair. It is difficult to be both.thirdly encourage them to use middle terms such as warm (instead of hot or cold). Middle aged instead of (young or old) sometimes instead of (always or never). Ask them open minded question such ad can one be good at maths and Terrible at English? Does that make the person a terrible person academically? Question like this tend to open their mind and make them less rigid. Binary thinkers are not bad. Infact, no single individual is entirely good or bad. Each of us have carry within ourselves bunch of weakness and our strength.we need to maximize our strength while been aware of our weakness..virtue lies in the middle.
Re: Coping With A Difficult Binary Boss by tobechi20(m): 9:04pm On Feb 21, 2018
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