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"Stabbed Me In My Ribs & Fingers Before Swallowing Poison" - Woman Shares by Priscy01(f): 6:40am On Feb 14
A Kenyan domestic violence survivor, Mary Nkirote has shared her story for the first time since her late husband stabbed her seven times before he drank poison, thinking she had died.

Read her story below;
“My name is Mary Nkirote. I am a 39-year-old mother of two girls and one boy. These are the beautiful children I had with the man of my dreams, to whom I was married for 12 years.
“I can still remember the first time I saw him in early 2003. I was taking a hair-dressing course in Dandora, Nairobi, where he worked as a casual labourer.

"One afternoon while on my way home, I heard brisk steps coming towards me. ‘Excuse me,’ he said. I turned and was stunned. He was in blue jeans, a khaki short-sleeve shirt, and the glitter of his white teeth dazzled as he spoke. He was very handsome. ‘My name is Peter. I have been seeing you around, and wondered if I could get your name,’ he said. From that moment, we began to bump into each other regularly. “Whenever we met, I could feel a rush and my heart would beat fast.

But I was reluctant to say yes to his advances. I wanted to see if he really liked me too or just wanted to toy around with me. My reluctance fizzled out on Valentine’s Day in 2003 when he took me out for lunch. I had no doubt: I was in love. I could see us raising a happy and prospering family. After four months of a steamy relationship, we decided to move in together as husband and wife in July 2003.

“Our early marriage days were blissful. We rented a house in Dandora. He opened a small butchery while I ran a small shop in the neighbourhood. In February 2004, we had our first born daughter, Rachel. We would later be blessed with two other kids in 2006 and 2011. All through, he was not abusive. We had our disagreements but he never hit me.

“Things took a nose dive in 2014. At that time, his butchery business was not doing well. More butchery businesses had mushroomed in the area. He had lost many customers and the profits from his business kept on dwindling. On the other end, my shop thrived. I had rented a bigger space and increased my stock to include cereals, fruits and soft drinks.

“He felt threatened by my success. He feared that I would undermine his position as the man of the house. Whenever we had a minor disagreement, it would turn into a mountain. His outbursts escalated into threats of battery. Towards July 2014, things had gone so sour that instead of threatening to beat me up, he would threaten to kill me. ‘I can kill you, I’ll kill you one day!’ became regular threats.

“In December that year, he moved out of our home. He said that he could not stand to see a woman running his household. He moved to Thika where his parents lived. At first, I thought that perhaps this separation was necessary to allow us reflect on how our once blissful marriage had gotten to this point. I deeply wanted it to work. This never came to be.

“One morning in April 2015, at around 7.30 am, he came to my shop. I had just opened and was in the process of cleaning it up. I was shocked because I was not aware that he had returned to Dandora. ‘I want you and the kids to come and live with me in Thika right now. You can’t live here anymore,’ he said. I refused. I told him that I had a business which was our sole bread winner, but he stuck to his guns. An argument ensued and quickly escalated to the threats and warnings.

“Before I knew it, he grabbed me and banged me against the wall. He took out a knife and stabbed me in my ribs and breasts. I turned in an effort to get away and he stabbed me again on my back. I tried to scream but many of the shops in the neighbourhood were closed. He grabbed my hand and slashed my fingers, nearly cutting off my thumb, index and middle fingers.

The pain was too much and I fainted. I would later learn that after fainting, he took out bottle of poison, swallowed it and fell next to me. He thought that I had I had succumbed to the stab wounds.

“A customer came to the shop and saw us lying in front of the counter. My blouse was doused in blood and a bloody knife was on the floor. My husband was foaming at the mouth. By then, more people had started to come out to the shopping centre. The customer screamed, alerting neighbours and passersby. We were rushed to Mama Lucy Hospital where I regained my consciousness. I was admitted for a few days, during which my seven stab wounds were stitched and treated. Unfortunately, my husband did not make it and died the following morning.

“It is now three years since he died. The pain of my broken marriage is still etched in my heart. I still run my shop and still have the same aspirations we both shared. My late husband will never get to read this, but now his kids are nearly all grown and I know that they miss him too. Our first born is in Form One while the other two are in primary school.

“There are days when I miss him so much. But I don’t blame him for what he did. Neither will I ever forget how he used to make me laugh, the joy he brought to our family, and all the happy years we had together.”

https://torimill.com/2018/02/stabbed-me-in-my-ribs-fingers-before-swallowing-poison-woman-shares-her-story-of-domestic-violence.html

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Re: "Stabbed Me In My Ribs & Fingers Before Swallowing Poison" - Woman Shares by modelmike7(m): 6:45am On Feb 14
''Towards July 2014, things had gone so sour that instead of threatening to beat me up, he would threaten to kill me. ‘I can kill you, I’ll kill you one day!’ became regular threats.''

This is the point she should have run for her life before things got outta hands!




Well, God still loves you and want you alive......

Sure, Some men are nothing but beast,
while some women's tongue can kill more than poison!

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Re: "Stabbed Me In My Ribs & Fingers Before Swallowing Poison" - Woman Shares by wildcatter23(m): 6:46am On Feb 14
cryby
Re: "Stabbed Me In My Ribs & Fingers Before Swallowing Poison" - Woman Shares by Eco99(m): 6:48am On Feb 14
....

All this bread winner wives

Are you sure you didn't arrange the death of your husband and mildly injure yourself to make this ur "im the victim" story look real?

So you want to tell me a full grown man stabbed you seven times and u lived

Secondly if he had a poison with him wen he came to the shop that means he had planned to kill u nd himself

Now if he already decided that he would nt have needed to pick up a quarrel first

Thirdly it doesn't make sense for someone to plan to kill his wife nd himself wen he has kids nd wen he can always jst kill only the wife

So woman we know that there's another man in this story that helped you eliminate "that useless husband of urz"


#Eco99#

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Re: "Stabbed Me In My Ribs & Fingers Before Swallowing Poison" - Woman Shares by fakoo1: 6:49am On Feb 14
Love happens. Zee world extraordinary everyday
Re: "Stabbed Me In My Ribs & Fingers Before Swallowing Poison" - Woman Shares by Tybabe0001(m): 6:49am On Feb 14
True love from God
Re: "Stabbed Me In My Ribs & Fingers Before Swallowing Poison" - Woman Shares by bokunrawo(m): 6:50am On Feb 14
Hope her husband no b awon omo science student

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Re: "Stabbed Me In My Ribs & Fingers Before Swallowing Poison" - Woman Shares by PharmaGirl(f): 6:50am On Feb 14
Twisted...
Re: "Stabbed Me In My Ribs & Fingers Before Swallowing Poison" - Woman Shares by DavidEsq(m): 6:50am On Feb 14
She is a very simple woman with a big heart of Gold. The bastard never understood who she really is at heart.

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Re: "Stabbed Me In My Ribs & Fingers Before Swallowing Poison" - Woman Shares by Jeezuzpick(m): 6:51am On Feb 14
cry

She loved him sooooo much!

She loved him and he threw it all away.

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Re: "Stabbed Me In My Ribs & Fingers Before Swallowing Poison" - Woman Shares by Apina(m): 6:52am On Feb 14
I don't really know what to say since the man is dead and we can't get his own end Of the story but for the very fact that he took such a drastic step in resolving whatever issues u guys had it simply points to a more personal issue he probably had. Marriage isn't easy, for those more concerned about the plump and galore of the one day marrying undecided
Re: "Stabbed Me In My Ribs & Fingers Before Swallowing Poison" - Woman Shares by BruncleZuma: 6:52am On Feb 14
sad sad sad sad
Re: "Stabbed Me In My Ribs & Fingers Before Swallowing Poison" - Woman Shares by MhizAJ(f): 6:52am On Feb 14
Touching cry

Her husband was aggressive from day 1...May his soul RIP

Truth be told a lot of men can't stand their wives being successful...They can't just handle it because at that point they begin to have low self esteem

That is why men would always say independent ladies have attitude problem...I don't blame them

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Re: "Stabbed Me In My Ribs & Fingers Before Swallowing Poison" - Woman Shares by lustychima: 6:53am On Feb 14
Intolerance
Re: "Stabbed Me In My Ribs & Fingers Before Swallowing Poison" - Woman Shares by Pavore9: 6:53am On Feb 14
The man felt insecure, uncomfortable with the wife's thriving enterprise and that Dandora neighbourhood is so rough!

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Re: "Stabbed Me In My Ribs & Fingers Before Swallowing Poison" - Woman Shares by Shedrack777(m): 6:53am On Feb 14
ok! the other party's side of the story pls
Re: "Stabbed Me In My Ribs & Fingers Before Swallowing Poison" - Woman Shares by 9japrof(m): 6:53am On Feb 14
Men, when you get to marry a good wife, don't feel threatened by her success.

Women when you have a good husband and more successful than he is, don't let your success get to your head and undermine his authority.

It's a one sided story, nigga ain't around to give us his own King James version of the story, but there are many other factors that contributed in making this once peaceful and loving husband to turn to a beast.

Do not ever stay in an abusive relationship/marriage, you might not be fortunate to be alive to tell the tale, separate, divorce, get a court injunction do whatever legal to keep away from the abusive marriage or relationship.

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Re: "Stabbed Me In My Ribs & Fingers Before Swallowing Poison" - Woman Shares by DavidEsq(m): 6:53am On Feb 14
modelmike7:

''Towards July 2014, things had gone so sour that instead of threatening to beat me up, he would threaten to kill me. ‘I can kill you, I’ll kill you one day!’ became regular threats.''

This is the point she should have run for her life before things got outta hands!




Well, God still loves you and want you alive......

Sure, Some men are nothing but beast,
while some women's tongue can kill more than poison!
Pls, dis doesn't apply to the story. Jus celebrate ur FTC and com an be going, abeg sad

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Re: "Stabbed Me In My Ribs & Fingers Before Swallowing Poison" - Woman Shares by millionboi2: 6:53am On Feb 14
Marriage today
Re: "Stabbed Me In My Ribs & Fingers Before Swallowing Poison" - Woman Shares by talk2percy(m): 6:53am On Feb 14
When love turns to hatred. U were lucky. Happy Val's day peeps!
Re: "Stabbed Me In My Ribs & Fingers Before Swallowing Poison" - Woman Shares by CoolextPhoenix(m): 6:54am On Feb 14
cryIt is a cold world, but achim sweater

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Re: "Stabbed Me In My Ribs & Fingers Before Swallowing Poison" - Woman Shares by jchioma: 6:54am On Feb 14
KENYALAND.
So many interesting stories.

Thank God for ya life
The guy go vex wen he reach heaven gate n dem tell am se u still de alive.

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Re: "Stabbed Me In My Ribs & Fingers Before Swallowing Poison" - Woman Shares by frenzyduchess(f): 6:54am On Feb 14
A woman with a heart of gold
Re: "Stabbed Me In My Ribs & Fingers Before Swallowing Poison" - Woman Shares by DavidEsq(m): 6:58am On Feb 14
MhizAJ:
Touching cry

Her husband was aggressive from day 1...May his soul RIP

Truth be told a lot of men can't stand their wives being successful...They can't just handle it because at that point they begin to have low self esteem

That is why men would always say independent ladies have attitude problem...I don't blame them
My dear, u are right. But com to think of it: dont a lot of successful women have attitude problems, particularly the ones who are bosses? At least, the answer is out there, not in our own views but out there. Just stick ur neck outta ur car window, u'd c quite a lot of 'em
Re: "Stabbed Me In My Ribs & Fingers Before Swallowing Poison" - Woman Shares by pheonixdld2(m): 6:58am On Feb 14
It's just straightforward... If only we can hear from the man. People don't just go about stabbing their wife and then Committing suicide.
RIP man.
Re: "Stabbed Me In My Ribs & Fingers Before Swallowing Poison" - Woman Shares by Anijay1212(m): 6:58am On Feb 14
Poor woman please be strong for your children ok embarassed

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Re: "Stabbed Me In My Ribs & Fingers Before Swallowing Poison" - Woman Shares by DavidEsq(m): 6:59am On Feb 14
frenzyduchess:
A woman with a heart of gold
Wehdone ma. Be using style to tif from my comment ehn. Buhari sef undecided
Re: "Stabbed Me In My Ribs & Fingers Before Swallowing Poison" - Woman Shares by kolakolex: 7:00am On Feb 14
very painful story.u don't have to get jelouse if ur wife has more money than u do,all u need to do is exploit ways u can adapt to her new status and still be in charge.if u re able to achieve this,she will spend the money in building the family and that would lessen ur burden and reduce pressure;cant deny the fact that most of them get pumpus and would want to be in charge.marriage is all about compromise.

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Re: "Stabbed Me In My Ribs & Fingers Before Swallowing Poison" - Woman Shares by Pavore9: 7:02am On Feb 14
pheonixdld2:
It's just straightforward... If only we can hear from the man. People don't just go about stabbing their wife and then Committing suicide.
RIP man.

People do so much more! Haven't you read where one killed their spouse alongside their children then finally commits suicide?

Psychosis is REAL.

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Re: "Stabbed Me In My Ribs & Fingers Before Swallowing Poison" - Woman Shares by AK6464(m): 7:04am On Feb 14
shocked He'll be so disappointed crossing over to eternity only to discover she just knocked but didn't cross,

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