Dear Admin,

I met Peter about eight months ago. He is a contractor to my company. He and I started dating after he took my number the day he saw me in our dopemu office. I told him I am a christian,born again. He too say he is born again.

So I told him right from beginning,that I dont want sex before marriage and he agreed. We dated for five months and he proposed to me. Since our engagement,he started asking for more than the usual kiss. He will say,since we are engaged,I am now his wife. That we can have sex now. But I told him no that,engagement is not marriage. But he continue to persist,saying he wants to know if both of us are sexually compatible. I then told him to hurry and marry me then.

We had our introduction ceremony in the sixth month and he began to even demand for sex more and more. We quarreled one day and he said the relationship is over if I cannot allow him. He said he has proved to me that he is serious by carrying out the introduction. That if I am not ready,we should break up. We didnt speak for three days. I had to go and beg him and allowed him eventually to have sex with me. After that day,I didnt hear from him again. I tried his line but he refused to pick my calls. Later,he sent me a text saying after having sex with me,he realise that both of us are not compatible. That was his fear that I cannot please him sexually if I dont like sex the way he does.

I thought he was joking. I couldnt believe my eyes after reading the text. I rain curses on him. Later,I began to beg him. Telling him that I will change and do anything . That will make sure he gets the best sex if he marries me.I was too shamed,he has done introduction. I thought I was too hash on him,now I have driven him away. I beg him for days but he refused. Said I should stop contacting him. I went to see his elder sister to help me beg him but she said that I should not worry that she will try her best.

One month passed,I didnt hear from the elder sister or even Peter. I was so sad . But I now told my family that the engagement is over. Everyone sympathize with me and asked me to move on that God will bring my own husband one day.

Two weeks later,I didnt......

http://livelystones.com.ng/i-regret-giving-into-the-pressure-just-to-convince-a-man-to-marry-me/

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