I always loved the personalities of Costa rican women on how laid back they are but damn, my girlfriend’s sister is starting to get on my nerves. The first time i met my gf was through a meet foreign tour in Costa Rica and after spending a few days there, I decided to stay for awhile longer to spend more time with her.

During my recent visit to see her, she introduced me to her siblings, her older brother and younger sister. The sister is a bit spoiled. Actually, she’s REALLY spoiled. All the while I was with my gf and them, she would CONSTANTLY ask my gf to do everything she wants. Do this, do that and the pissing part about it is how my gf obediently follows her commands. I guess this is to be expected since they’re so family-oriented. But as an American, I can’t help but feel as though she needs to learn how to do things on her own. I don’t know how to deal with this cause i really don’t have the right to interfere or even say a word about it. Seriously need advice with this!

Isn't your gf the elder sister?
Why should the younger sister tell her what to do and send her on errands?
And your gf obediently follows her commands?!

#Confused.

You either learn to live with or leave the girl for someone who will not complain.

You are American, she is Costarican. This is an International case. It has notin to do with Nigeria. We are more focused on how to get our PVCs and send the dullard Daura man back home come 2019.

this one na real gbedu

this one na real gbedu ..so people still find love online

Please nobody should waste time advising OP
Op is the same person as kensmith33 who created the thread
https://www.nairaland.com/4386580/gfs-mom-talks-way-too

Same writing style, even mentioned Costa rica in the two posts (What are the odds ?), OP is a nigerian , mentioning foreign countries so he would get gullible girls to contact him.
The two usernames registered the same day

If I am wrong, sha no vex.I doubt if I am wrong .

Tonythriller:
You are American, she is Costarican. This is an International case. It has notin to do with Nigeria. We are more focused on how to get our PVCs and send the dullard Daura man back home come 2019.

Salvage.

It's not really a big deal. I do almost anything for my younger brothers. It all depends on family orientation. But if you think it's excessive, talk to your girl in private about the issue but be open in the discussion so that you don't become a family "obstacle ".
Finally, if you need your peace of mind, Please, overlook somethings, you will live a healthy life.

modelmike7:
Isn't your gf the elder sister?
Why should the younger sister tell her what to do and send her on errands?
And your gf obediently follows her commands?!

#Confused.

Her family spoiled her since she's the eldest with a big age gap. They treated her as the "baby" of the family. I understand why they spoil her..

Where's the Nigerian connection? Gf =Costa Rican, story teller =American.

Igbanda