Clara is my co-worker in the office, very beautiful mother of two. Married to a gentle, easygoing and hardworking feed miller and fish farmer.
The husband is not doing badly financially. I discovered last November that she's very close to our new boss, the man resumed as our director last September. I tried to find out what was happening but no leeway until I travelled with Clara to Abuja for an official duty in January. Her youngest child wanted to go with her but she refused, I asked her to take him along since the boy is just a playgroup pupil but she said no. We got to Abuja abd Clara told us (myself and our driver) she'll lodge in a particular kotel, I couldn't afford that kind of hotel, about 18k per night. I looked for a moderate one and lodged with the driver in my room. The driver told me later around 8pm that Oga was also in Abuja for a meeting and that Oga's driver just WhatsApped a message to him that Oga is lodging in that hotel Clara lodged in. I got the message immediately. How could Clara have lodged in a hotel that's higher than her night allowance? We got back to our station after four days and I called Clara and told her my observation. She confessed dating our boss. Told me it was for financial gains. I advised her to stop it since her husband is not too poor and her salary is reasonable, she said she needed more money to do some things in her family, and that the big man is already helping her out with the money.
I held my peace abi wetin I fit do again. I pity the cool headed husband and the two kids at home sha.

There's nothing you can do about it, you've done your best, leave her to enjoy her self, she will soon be caught by her husband and sent packing, then she will blame village people for her problems

Come to abj you'll experience same situation. 80% of Abuja married women are doomed, running around stupendously rich guys, alhajis, business tycoons. Abuja married women have refused to get old, competing with the single ladies.. God save us from Karashika WOEmen!

Cheating is the order of the day in marriage. May God guide all spouses aright

she is not doing it for financial reasons but she is doing it because she is evil.

mysticwarrior:
she is not doing it for financial reasons but she is doing it because she is evil.

I align with this.

krissconnect:
Come to abj you'll experience same situation. 80% of Abuja married women are doomed, running around stupendously rich guys, alhajis, business tycoons. Abuja married women have refused to get old, competing with the single ladies.. God save us from Karashika WOEmen!

Same thing everywhere. Hypergamy is a bitch. Single parenting is something men of this generation must have to accept.

Its just pure greed and no contentment

May our wives, sisters and girlfriends be invincible to abuja men whose pants are on fire.

And what is your business wwwkaycom, do you know if her husband is cheating on her? You men cheat a lot and when it's the woman's turn, you guys say something else calling the woman many names. It is cheat make I cheat, nobody dey vex. Oh yes! that's gender equality.

MzMe:
And what is your business wwwkaycom, do you know if her husband is cheating on her? You men cheat a lot and when it's the woman's turn, you guys say something else calling the woman many names. It is cheat make I cheat, nobody dey vex. Oh yes! that's gender equality.

mtcheww


what do I expect a cheat like you to say........ encourage her to do more

Islie:




mtcheww

Any problem? You find that simple stuff difficult to understand?

I don’t buy the stupid one-sided outrage.

She has bn like that even before she married. Ladies who keep more than one guy at a time will Neva stopped even after been married.Same to guys too.

tee59:
She has bn like that even before she married. Ladies who keep more than one guy at a time will Neva stopped even after been married. Same to guys too.

exactly

I'm even suspicious of you. Your married colleague is so open with you enough to disclose her affair with her boss, your boss...to the extent she also told you her motivations are financial.

That kain closeness between you two na wah, or someone is just adding ingredients to make the story sweeter.

tensazangetsu20:

Same thing everywhere. Hypergamy is a bitch. Single parenting is something men of this generation must have to accept.

Are the men sleeping with this women single?