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5 Reasons Why You’re Not Making Progress In Life by BiafranBushBoy: 7:05am On Mar 20, 2018 |
Do you feel stagnated in life? Or you feel you aren’t moving at the speed you should move, I will show you some possible reasons why you aren’t making progress in life the way you should. If you believe that life is in stages, then you should also know that there are strategies and principles that should be applied. Making progress in life is a function of determination, zeal, and the right attitude. They should all function at the right amount, which triggers success. The purpose of this post is to allow you search inwards for what might be a hindrance in making progress in life. Before you blame the country, president, senators and governors as one of the reasons you aren’t making progress in life, you should take out time to examine inwards what might be the cause aside external forces. Making progress doesn’t boil down to financials alone, it might be your career, relationship or any other place you expect growth. What might be some of the reasons you are making progress in life yet? Laziness This is the foundation of all the possible cause why you aren’t making progress yet in life. This is the biggest enemy you would ever have in life. It will be the reason others are striving hard and working hard to achieve a lot, and you sit in the corner of your room daydreaming. It is the bedrock of other progress killers like procrastination, excuse making, and etc. The issue with laziness is that it makes you believe that you aren’t lazy, while it eats deep into your life and affects your progress in life. There are other products of laziness, and it would be used as other points to explain the possible reasons why you aren’t making progress in life. Lack of Discipline To discipline ones-self is one of the recipes for success. Many successful people have attributed the secret of their success to self-discipline. It can never be overemphasized. This is one life skill that helps you become focused, active, and get things done. This is one factor that others judge you with. Talent alone isn’t enough, discipline is the watchword. It extends to your personal life, work, career, lifestyle and finances. Once discipline is gone, you are gonna watch how scattered you become in life. In the long-run, you might just implode and tip the f*ck off – which is the worst you’d ever want to experience. No Self-Improvement Self-improvement is all about adding value to yourself. Two years should not pass you by without you improving your self-worth. In some other thread, I wrote about the top skills that would give you a job and also enhance your career. Most people viewed it and just left. You have to continually add value to yourself, and the outcomes are very great. When you prefer the latest fashion trends or latest technology gadgets to skills that would open doors for you, how do you intend to start making progress in life? No Clear Cut Goals 90% of people wake up every morning without any plan of what to achieve for that day. They spend time on time killers (Social Media, Gossips, and TV). You need to set goals every night before the next day. It helps you achieve so much. These are the Goal setting exercise you should consider Make a list of 10 goals to achieve Select the most important Set a deadline Talk about it all day till you achieve it Focus on it (Excellence orientation) Lack of Optimism Optimistic people are happy people. They believe that things would be alright and they work hard towards it. They talk about what they want, how they want it, and how they are going to get it. Non-optimistic people are very unhappy. They are not happy with themselves, their life, the country, everything around them. Their unhappiness prevents them from looking at the brighter side of life. They only talk about what they don’t want and blame other people for their own misfortunes. Lack of optimism could be one of the reasons why you aren’t making progress in life yet This is because it makes you miss opportunities when they present themselves – because you assume nothing good would come out of it. How to become an optimist Think about what you want to achieve and how to get it Look out for good in every situation Seek the valuable lesson in every situation Feed your mind with good kinds of stuff Try more things; even if you fail, keep trying Keep being persistent Other Reason might involve the following; Procrastination No Plans Blame Game Giving Excuses, etc. When you work on the above points in your life, you become more productive and happy with yourself. But above all, cultivate discipline and work hard towards achieving your goals, and success would chase you down your pants. I hope to write more of this next time. If you really love this post, do well to click the link below and subscribe for more posts like this to your mailbox. source: http://topwritersden.com/making-progress-in-life/ 62 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: 5 Reasons Why You’re Not Making Progress In Life by BiafranBushBoy: 7:07am On Mar 20, 2018 |
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Re: 5 Reasons Why You’re Not Making Progress In Life by taylor89(m): 7:10am On Mar 20, 2018 |
Baba add village people to that list I know I'll be tagged a black man mentality blah blah blah Just pray u don't be a victim na u go shout village people pass me 36 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: 5 Reasons Why You’re Not Making Progress In Life by izzou(m): 7:13am On Mar 20, 2018 |
Incase you don't know the moniker above me, he is taylor88 a notorious dude known for weird comments Biafranbushboy. Nice write up 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: 5 Reasons Why You’re Not Making Progress In Life by BiafranBushBoy: 7:20am On Mar 20, 2018 |
taylor89: What the hell is village people? Everybody is his/her own village people. 10 Likes |
Re: 5 Reasons Why You’re Not Making Progress In Life by Sirmuel1(m): 7:25am On Mar 20, 2018 |
BiafranBushBoy: make them get your time first, you go know 29 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 5 Reasons Why You’re Not Making Progress In Life by taylor89(m): 7:39am On Mar 20, 2018 |
BiafranBushBoy: Pray you don't fall the victim Some are even stronger than TB Joshua 11 Likes |
Re: 5 Reasons Why You’re Not Making Progress In Life by BiafranBushBoy: 8:19am On Mar 20, 2018 |
taylor89: lol... smh. 1 Like |
Re: 5 Reasons Why You’re Not Making Progress In Life by BiafranBushBoy: 8:20am On Mar 20, 2018 |
Re: 5 Reasons Why You’re Not Making Progress In Life by Alabiantech: 9:18am On Mar 20, 2018 |
nice one. . |
Re: 5 Reasons Why You’re Not Making Progress In Life by Annabel332: 10:30am On Mar 20, 2018 |
gud |
Re: 5 Reasons Why You’re Not Making Progress In Life by Nobody: 10:31am On Mar 20, 2018 |
MUST WE READ EPISTLE TO MAKE PROGRESS? |
Re: 5 Reasons Why You’re Not Making Progress In Life by samwise180(m): 10:32am On Mar 20, 2018 |
Procastination should be included 1 Like |
Re: 5 Reasons Why You’re Not Making Progress In Life by kaptaneSaka(m): 10:32am On Mar 20, 2018 |
Nice write up..... Add bad influence 2 Likes |
Re: 5 Reasons Why You’re Not Making Progress In Life by Nwakannaya1: 10:33am On Mar 20, 2018 |
The list is incomplete without forces majeure aka village people. U don't need to believe it, but it is a reality. 1 Like |
Re: 5 Reasons Why You’re Not Making Progress In Life by izzyboi(m): 10:33am On Mar 20, 2018 |
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Re: 5 Reasons Why You’re Not Making Progress In Life by Nwakannaya1: 10:33am On Mar 20, 2018 |
The list is incomplete without forces majeure aka village people. U don't need to believe it, but it is a reality. 1 Like |
Re: 5 Reasons Why You’re Not Making Progress In Life by officialfysh(m): 10:33am On Mar 20, 2018 |
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Re: 5 Reasons Why You’re Not Making Progress In Life by dheilaw1(m): 10:34am On Mar 20, 2018 |
Rubbish. what of Nigeria factor? even if you have all it takes to be successful, Nigeria as a country will strangle d hell of those success traits out of you 2 Likes |
Re: 5 Reasons Why You’re Not Making Progress In Life by Nobody: 10:35am On Mar 20, 2018 |
quite an outstanding write up OP. God bless you. |
Re: 5 Reasons Why You’re Not Making Progress In Life by information1: 10:35am On Mar 20, 2018 |
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Re: 5 Reasons Why You’re Not Making Progress In Life by maestroferddi: 10:36am On Mar 20, 2018 |
Without God on your side, you will not go far... 1 Like |
Re: 5 Reasons Why You’re Not Making Progress In Life by Pomlord(m): 10:36am On Mar 20, 2018 |
You didn't mention spending too much time on Whatsapp and Facebook. Lol |
Re: 5 Reasons Why You’re Not Making Progress In Life by highqueen(f): 10:36am On Mar 20, 2018 |
I should work on my laziness then 1 Like |
Re: 5 Reasons Why You’re Not Making Progress In Life by toye440: 10:36am On Mar 20, 2018 |
Guy d only reason y ppl r not progressing is because we exist in this SHITHOLE. Put me in a country like Norway and in 2 yrs am a billionaire while u keep begging for Npower stipend. 1 Like |
Re: 5 Reasons Why You’re Not Making Progress In Life by RexTramadol1: 10:38am On Mar 20, 2018 |
Long throat sef |
Re: 5 Reasons Why You’re Not Making Progress In Life by revontuli(f): 10:39am On Mar 20, 2018 |
Nice writeup OP. Setting goals, making to-do lists with deadlines is crucial here. That's the most important part. |
Re: 5 Reasons Why You’re Not Making Progress In Life by ChimuchiYola(f): 10:42am On Mar 20, 2018 |
Re: 5 Reasons Why You’re Not Making Progress In Life by Yinxies(f): 10:43am On Mar 20, 2018 |
In this country, even with all these attributes you may still not progress... Our leaders have eaten all PROGRESS... The environment is not enabling 1 Like |
Re: 5 Reasons Why You’re Not Making Progress In Life by Nobody: 10:46am On Mar 20, 2018 |
Pomlord:You didnt read. Lol 1 Like |
Re: 5 Reasons Why You’re Not Making Progress In Life by GURUGRAPHICS(f): 10:46am On Mar 20, 2018 |
... 2 Likes |
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