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“my Husband Does Not Like Having Sex Through The Opening God Made For It” –lady by Lionblog: 9:03am On Apr 05, 2018
A lady has taken to social media to seek advice due to the fact that her husband does not like having $ex with her normally.

In her words, ‘he does not like having $ex through the opening God made for that.’

According to her, they are looking to conceive, which is why she is worried.

A friend of the lady shared the story on Facebook and it appears that she wants to know if it is possible to conceive through an-l $ex.

As posted on Facebook by the woman’s friend:

“A woman friend of my complained to me that since she got married with her husband which is two years now that her hubby does not like having $ex with her through the opening God made for $ex instead He prefer $ex through the anus and they are looking for fruit of the womb and she want to know whether it’s possible to conceive through that way I told her am not sure but let’s hear from other people pls no insult she needs help thanks”

http://www.asonaija.com.ng/2018/04/my-husband-does-not-like-having-ex.html

Re: “my Husband Does Not Like Having Sex Through The Opening God Made For It” –lady by Laryne(m): 9:07am On Apr 05, 2018
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Re: “my Husband Does Not Like Having Sex Through The Opening God Made For It” –lady by Laryne(m): 9:09am On Apr 05, 2018
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Re: “my Husband Does Not Like Having Sex Through The Opening God Made For It” –lady by Nobody: 9:14am On Apr 05, 2018
I don't believe the story.
If you tell me he likes anal, believable but not that he expects the wife to get pregnant through the anus.
Re: “my Husband Does Not Like Having Sex Through The Opening God Made For It” –lady by midolian(m): 9:15am On Apr 05, 2018
blogging in this country is soo ridiculous..

and she want to know whether it’s possible to conceive through that way I told her am not sure but let’s hear from other people

You are not sure? How can you be sure when you fabricated the nonsense dtory cheesy cheesy

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Re: “my Husband Does Not Like Having Sex Through The Opening God Made For It” –lady by Liliyann(f): 9:17am On Apr 05, 2018
Anal sex is just overrated!!
Evidence of too much porn,
Selfish bastard, I doubt if he is even able to give the wife a mind blowing orgasm!
Very soon the silly wife will start buying adult pampers instead of children's own all in the name of satisfying her husband.
NONSENSE!!

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Re: “my Husband Does Not Like Having Sex Through The Opening God Made For It” –lady by Nobody: 10:39am On Apr 05, 2018
It's always happening to "a friend"and not them.

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Re: “my Husband Does Not Like Having Sex Through The Opening God Made For It” –lady by MrBrownJay1(m): 1:53pm On Apr 05, 2018
its either....
A) she is the only one who truly want to conceive, and that is the way this man has found to dodge the baby issue.
B) as much as there is nothing wrong with anal sex, it should NEVER be a priority over some good coochie (just an appetizer)... so if he prefers aaasss over coochie then he may be closet homosexual
C) the ladies coochie is so fukcing loose that this man does NOT feel anything in there, and has opted for her aaasss in order to feel some friction

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Re: “my Husband Does Not Like Having Sex Through The Opening God Made For It” –lady by Pusyiter(m): 4:49pm On Apr 05, 2018
I think the concept of anal sex is overrated. How many gay folks use diapers because of the fu*king stuff? grin
Don't get it twisted, I am not an advocate but for crying out loud, female eggs are meant to be fertilized while the anus for pooh. Stick to the original use of stuff people.
Re: “my Husband Does Not Like Having Sex Through The Opening God Made For It” –lady by ImaIma1(f): 7:51am On Apr 06, 2018
MrBrownJay1:
its either....
A) she is the only one who truly want to conceive, and that is the way this man has found to dodge the baby issue.
B) as much as there is nothing wrong with anal sex, it should NEVER be a priority over some good coochie (just an appetizer)... so if he prefers aaasss over coochie then he may be closet homosexual
C) the ladies coochie is so fukcing loose that this man does NOT feel anything in there, and has opted for her aaasss in order to feel some friction

There is nothing wrong with it? How do you mean?
Re: “my Husband Does Not Like Having Sex Through The Opening God Made For It” –lady by MrBrownJay1(m): 11:08am On Apr 06, 2018
ImaIma1:
There is nothing wrong with it? How do you mean?

so long as two adults are fully ok with what they BOTH desire in the bedroom, indulge in it without forcing anyone to partake in what they desire, AND most importantly, it is not a practices deemed a criminal act (pedophilia etc), then whatever a man and woman do in their sexual free time is THEIR BUSINESS... and as much as you may not agree with it, many sane adults (me included) gladly indulge in anal sex.

the reality of life IS that couples who dont find ways to spice up their bedroom acrobatics are the ones that open the door to infidelity....women should either fully become the sexual freak that their husband/bf desire in order to satisfy him OR accept that this man would go and satisfy his urges with some other women.

so if your man desires you to swing from the chandelier in a batwoman costume then i suggest you seriously consider it and give it a try... and if it against your religious/sexual beliefs then say no and accept the consequences.

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Re: “my Husband Does Not Like Having Sex Through The Opening God Made For It” –lady by ImaIma1(f): 12:24pm On Apr 06, 2018
MrBrownJay1:


so long as two adults are fully ok with what they BOTH desire in the bedroom, indulge in it without forcing anyone to partake in what they desire, AND most importantly, it is not a practices deemed a criminal act (pedophilia etc), then whatever a man and woman do in their sexual free time is THEIR BUSINESS... and as much as you may not agree with it, many sane adults (me included) gladly indulge in anal sex.

the reality of life IS that couples who dont find ways to spice up their bedroom acrobatics are the ones that open the door to infidelity....women should either fully become the sexual freak that their husband/bf desire in order to satisfy him OR accept that this man would go and satisfy his urges with some other women.

so if your man desires you to swing from the chandelier in a batwoman costume then i suggest you seriously consider it and give it a try... and if it against your religious/sexual beliefs then say no and accept the consequences.




Nah... i wont put myself at risk just to please another human being; husband or master. My health and well being is very important.

So if the man still looks outside after the woman has released her anus,nose ears and whatever holes in her body for penetration?

I thought it was gay guys that use for the anus. If the woman has a vjay, why opt for the anus? Maybe i am missing the reason.

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Re: “my Husband Does Not Like Having Sex Through The Opening God Made For It” –lady by MrBrownJay1(m): 1:05pm On Apr 06, 2018
ImaIma1:

Nah... i wont put myself at risk just to please another human being; husband or master. My health and well being is very important.

fair enough....and let those who want to indulge in any practice (you may not like) do so. your life, your priorities.

So if the man still looks outside after the woman has released her anus,nose ears and whatever holes in her body for penetration?

why do you automatically believe that a man will "look outside"?! i suggest you keep a positive mind, because if you think in such a negative way, then you might as well stay single. people who live their lives with fears (to be themselves) will never achieve anything worthy in life. but hey, if you think that "only" using your coochie is what will keep your man from looking outside then fair enough.

I thought it was gay guys that use for the anus.

i suggest you educate yourself on anal sex.... many couples do it and many find great pleasure in it. here is a clue: some women only get an orgasm from that back door.

If the woman has a vjay, why opt for the anus? Maybe i am missing the reason.

why should a woman suck a man's dick if she has a coochie?
why should a woman self-service a man's anaconda, if she has a punana?
why should a man tittay fukc a woman if she has a toto?
the list of sexual practices that does NOT include a vag1na is endless


its called SEXUAL PREFERENCES... and many adults use whatever spice in their sexual acrobatics to bring sexual satisfaction to their union. women like yourself who are not willing to experiment in the bedroom (or even discover what your man TRULY desires in the bedroom), and rather dig their head in the sand thinking/hoping that just penetrating a vagina will satisfy all men forever, are fooling themselves. yes a vagina is fantastic, but all things eventually fade, not upgrading your bedroom skills is ONE of the main reason why so many men will even sleep with their dirty maids who look 10 times worst than their wives. go figure why.

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Re: “my Husband Does Not Like Having Sex Through The Opening God Made For It” –lady by ImaIma1(f): 1:46pm On Apr 06, 2018
MrBrownJay1:


fair enough....and let those who want to indulge in any practice (you may not like) do so. your life, your priorities.



why do you automatically believe that a man will "look outside"?! i suggest you keep a positive mind, because if you think in such a negative way, then you might as well stay single. people who live their lives with fears (to be themselves) will never achieve anything worthy in life. but hey, if you think that "only" using your coochie is what will keep your man from looking outside then fair enough.



i suggest you educate yourself on anal sex.... many couples do it and many find great pleasure in it. here is a clue: some women only get an orgasm from that back door.



why should a woman suck a man's dick if she has a coochie?
why should a woman self-service a man's anaconda, if she has a punana?
why should a man tittay fukc a woman if she has a toto?
the list of sexual practices that does NOT include a vag1na is endless


its called SEXUAL PREFERENCES... and many adults use whatever spice in their sexual acrobatics to bring sexual satisfaction to their union. women like yourself who are not willing to experiment in the bedroom (or even discover what your man TRULY desires in the bedroom), and rather dig their head in the sand thinking/hoping that just penetrating a vagina will satisfy all men forever, are fooling themselves. yes a vagina is fantastic, but all things eventually fade, not upgrading your bedroom skills is ONE of the main reason why so many men will even sleep with their dirty maids who look 10 times worst than their wives. go figure why.

Your sexual preference is really broad.

It is not a negative mind. A man cheating is not always about his wife not satisfying him. A lot of women bend backwards to satisfy their husband but it doesn't stop them from cheating.

If a man sleeps with his maid or just anybody, it reflects badly on him. One day he will have sense.

Well i didn't marry someone with a complicated sexual preference. I can't cave.
Re: “my Husband Does Not Like Having Sex Through The Opening God Made For It” –lady by MrBrownJay1(m): 2:06pm On Apr 06, 2018
ImaIma1:
Your sexual preference is really broad.

my life is broad, i NEVER limit myself, and instead i am very open minded... whether it be in business, travel or sex.

It is not a negative mind. A man cheating is not always about his wife not satisfying him. A lot of women bend backwards to satisfy their husband but it doesn't stop them from cheating

it is indeed a negative mind if you A) believe that all man will eventually look outside... or B) use that as a reason for not doing something in the bedroom. some women give their EVERYTHING to some men, and they still look outside, while others may give NOTHING and men dont cheat on them... a big part of this has to do with the type of man you are with, not what you provide to them. but rest assured that if a man is sexually frustrated, sexually weaken or not sexually statisfied at home, then the chances for him to "consider" looking elsewhere for satisfaction are greater.

If a man sleeps with his maid or just anybody, it reflects badly on him. One day he will have sense.

it also reflects on his sexual issues, and the problem that this couple may have in the bedroom. if a SANE man is fully sexually satisfied at home, then chances are he wont eye his dirty ugly looking maid. the important question we should ask ourselves is how/why a grown man would be willing to jeopardize his marriage (life) by sleeping with a dirty ugly maid?! maybe, just maybe, the sexual frustration was just TOO MUCH!

Well i didn't marry someone with a complicated sexual preference. I can't cave.

the important question here would be... do you actually know your husband's fantasies? do you know what he desires in the bedroom? have you ever TALKED about it? are you even willing to satisfy him fully? do you just believe that because you guys have sex and he ejaculates, he is satisfied?!?

the fact that you even call it "complicated" sexual preferences is proof that you are already failing on the issue... because doing the same thing ON and ON in the bedroom is a sure way to kill any possible satisfaction in the bedroom. sadly, many African women are so negative on the subject of openly talk about sex and what they desire AND/OR experimenting in the bedroom, that African men usually dont even raise the subject, and simply suffer in silence.

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Re: “my Husband Does Not Like Having Sex Through The Opening God Made For It” –lady by ImaIma1(f): 2:44pm On Apr 06, 2018
MrBrownJay1:


my life is broad, i NEVER limit myself, and instead i am very open minded... whether it be in business, travel or sex.



it is indeed a negative mind if you A) believe that all man will eventually look outside... or B) use that as a reason for not doing something in the bedroom. some women give their EVERYTHING to some men, and they still look outside, while others may give NOTHING and men dont cheat on them... a big part of this has to do with the type of man you are with, not what you provide to them. but rest assured that if a man is sexually frustrated, sexually weaken or not sexually statisfied at home, then the chances for him to "consider" looking elsewhere for satisfaction are greater.



it also reflects on his sexual issues, and the problem that this couple may have in the bedroom. if a SANE man is fully sexually satisfied at home, then chances are he wont eye his dirty ugly looking maid. the important question we should ask ourselves is how/why a grown man would be willing to jeopardize his marriage (life) by sleeping with a dirty ugly maid?! maybe, just maybe, the sexual frustration was just TOO MUCH!



the important question here would be... do you actually know your husband's fantasies? do you know what he desires in the bedroom? have you ever TALKED about it? are you even willing to satisfy him fully? do you just believe that because you guys have sex and he ejaculates, he is satisfied?!?

the fact that you even call it "complicated" sexual preferences is proof that you are already failing on the issue... because doing the same thing ON and ON in the bedroom is a sure way to kill any possible satisfaction in the bedroom. sadly, many African women are so negative on the subject of openly talk about sex and what they desire AND/OR experimenting in the bedroom, that African men usually dont even raise the subject, and simply suffer in silence.



Nah i don't believe all men cheat. I have never believed that school of thought.

Husband and I were close friends since we were teenagers. We actually didn't know we would end up married. I know too much about him for my own good. He is interesting but basic. Some people are like that. He is the medical line and has talked about the dangers involving anal.

As long as you are at peace with doing it, by all means, enjoy!

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