Cheating is far from the only mistake that can ruin a marriage.Below are 5 other risky relationship behaviors that can be just as costly

1. Watching of Porn: Many times when a husband is excessively using porn, this is potentially a sign of other trouble.

2. Being on Your Phones Constantly: When a man or a woman or both often end up on their phones, in front of computers, or in different rooms watching different shows, this tells me they don’t feel connected, they are escaping from each other.

3. Being Married to Your Job: The obvious thought here is often that your partner is having an affair and is covering it up by saying he’s ‘working late.’ While this is one possibility, there are other very different reasons why your partner may be working long hours

4. Drinking: If your husband goes out ‘drinking with the boys’ regularly and comes home after midnight intoxicated—especially if you can’t always reach him—your relationship may be in trouble

5. Hiding Money Issues: Hiding financial issues is a common problem I see with couples.While it can be embarrassing to admit that you’ve been laid off or are gambling away your bonuses, it’s important to keep your partner privy to your finances because this is an issue that affects you both equally as a couple.

http://www.mcebisco.com.ng/2018/04/5-major-mistakes-that-is-destroying.html

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. even Xhosa knows i can't do this to her