doreto:

Thank you,coolcatty.Your tone is now superb,I understand you perfectly.
Begging was never an option.You know that manly pride.My ex was and is beautiful,I chose from a long list because I know my worth and value my dignity.It didn't survive but I can move on with my head held high and my shoulders back.
The next woman is surely going to be a bombshell as well.I can't settle.

Keep running after beauty instead of focusing on the contents of their character. Wrong priorities. Smh

Muna5:

I think you should try reconciliation first if you truly want to restore your marriage.
Show me a man that treats his wife rightly and I will show you a woman that obeys her husband sheeply.

This perception is so wrong and one sided. Also shows your level of understanding of what human beings are capable of doing sometimes as well as some terrible behaviours some exhibits once they are married

Some are just inborn with very bad character and wickedness of heart that, no matter how you try, you can never please or get it right with them.

Stop generalizing issues, it differs from one home to another.

Ishilove:

Keep running after beauty instead of focusing on the contents of their character. Wrong priorities. Smh

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
Character itself can be described as beautiful,just as facial features and body shape.I apparently misjudged one but got some right last time.

Give me kudos.I have no regrets.

coolcatty:



You are baby...I have been through more shiiit than u can ever imagine .....so when people like me talk babies like you should sit down with a jitter and pen and take notes.

You are gloating over a woman that has obviously moved on....opening thread upon threads to elicit sympathy. ....things don't work that way.....for you to stay 4 whole months alone without your wife finding a way to reach out to you and massage your lousy ego means that you have no game whatsoever. ....you are also gamelesss if you have not mastered or gotten the emotional strength to move on after 4months.


Humble yourself and learn.....seek advise and learn from people around you. ....no man with lovely character, charming do charisma files for a divorce first.....he would have moved on tey tey and will hardly remember he once had a wife......see the way that actress mimi was shouting all over social media begging her estranged husband to come and collect his brideprice. ...that's how real men behave. ....you ignore and move on...let nature take its cause.




Please advise the man-boy with a loud mouth.

bro never take this advice..

don't Do what's gonna put you in jail

I wonder why many Nigerians are very ignorant in the name of I'm older than you.. older than me so what?


there's nothing wrong in filing for divorce. in America and Europe men file divorces, Nigeria isn't different.

if you're tired of the marriage then file for divorce.

prechbills1:



bro never take this advice..

don't Do what's gonna put you in jail

I wonder why many Nigerians are very ignorant in the name of I'm older than you.. older than me so what?


there's nothing wrong in filing for divorce. in America and Europe men file divorces, Nigeria isn't different.

if you're tired of the marriage then file for divorce.

All opinions are necessary,not all can be taken.

I knew the writer of the post you quoted was coming from a place of limits to his knowledge.He has been lectured and refined in subsequent posts.

Divorce will come at the appropriate time after sound analysis of the facts.

doreto:

All opinions are necessary,not all can be taken.

I knew the writer of the post you quoted was coming from a place of limits to his knowledge.He has bleen lectured and refined in subsequent posts.

Divorce will come at the appropriate time after sound analysis of the facts.

You and this huge ego of yours......let arrogance go man..humility is key.....you will need loads of humility in the coming days.....you need it for the new woman you will get married too....same with her friends and family when they will ask you why your first marriage crashed......nigggah calm down and learn.

coolcatty:


No mind the guy

Instead of him to work and develop himself. ..he is busy looking for ways to revenge. ....

With all due respect; all the politeness I can muster; all the respect that I feel is due to you: you're a fool.

coolcatty:


God bless you man.....leave that proud high headed doreto.

The guy is obviously frustrated. ..has a very big for nothing ego. ...he is angry with the world and doesn't want to take advise....he is looking for who to massage his ego....

He has no game....a man with game would have counted his losses by now and moved on....but no...dead nigggah wants to show his ex wife that he is done....a woman that is so far gone...and woman that has moved on sef. .that's who this doreto Guy wants to show pepper.

Smh....

The more I read from you, the more I marvel at your naivete. It is obvious that you haven't seen the world nor let education illuminate the dark recesses of your understanding.

What is the issue at hand?

A man is tired of his marriage and wants it to end. Mind you, it is his marriage and not yours, he is the one who knows where the shoe pinches. Now, this same man, understanding the limits of his knowledge, came online to seek for our opinions on how to end this marriage; but you, in your unending wisdom, wants him to stay in a marriage that he is tired of.

My question to you is: Are you going to be the one to change the woman, or would you substitute yourself in order to continue the marriage? Matters of the heart are very delicate and cannot be judged from afar. Judging a person from afar and projecting your sensibilities on them is not only ignorant, but it hints of backwardness.

KOPT33:


With all due respect; all the politeness I can muster; all the respect that I feel is due to you: you're a fool.

Your respect i do not want....

My God shall raise up strangers to fight my battles.

I warned coolcatty of his unnecessary arrogance and limited IQ on page 0 of this thread and said "delete that your nonsense post".He is arrogant and insulting.He obviously cannot change his dance.

Now, how the tides change...He's been dragged left,right,centre by unknown visitors like a nursing mother's fallen breasts.

Never believe in the efficacy of your own unworthiness ,coolcatty.Plenty of us are better than you.

This is fated.

doreto:
My God shall raise up strangers to fight my battles.

I warned coolcatty of his unnecessary arrogance and limited IQ on page 0 of this thread and said "delete that your nonsense post".He is arrogant and insulting.He obviously cannot change his dance.

Now, how the tides change...He's been dragged left,right,centre by unknown visitors like a nursing mother's fallen breasts.

Never believe in the efficacy of your own unworthiness ,coolcatty.Plenty of us are better than you.

This is fated.

You have a lot of time. Maybe if you invested half as much to your marriage you won't be seeking a divorce now.

UjuJoan2:


You have a lot of time. Maybe if you invested half as much to your marriage you won't be seeking a divorce now.

lmfaooooooooooooooooo

coolcatty:



lmfaooooooooooooooooo

You sef your wahala is too much. Leave the man and fave your front nah. Is it you divorce?

What a nagging fellow No wonder she ran like hell.

UjuJoan2:


You have a lot of time. Maybe if you invested half as much to your marriage you won't be seeking a divorce now.

Thank you for your non-observation.
If you were so busy you won't be here either.

UjuJoan2:


You sef your wahala is too much. Leave the man and fave your front nah. Is it you divorce?

The guy wants to get an award from me but I consign him to oblivion.He does not exist to me.coolcatty went to call his houseboy to comment in his favour.Lmao.

JoannaSedley:
What a nagging fellow No wonder she ran like hell.

☝️this one is coolcatty's wife,both dull.

doreto:




☝️this one is coolcatty's wife,both dull.

Just get a life. You are quarrelsome and most be a hard person to live. Imagine quarreling with everyone with counter opinion to what you want.
So Juvenile. Grow up .

JoannaSedley:
Just get a life. You are quarrelsome and most be a hard person to live. Imagine quarreling with everyone with counter opinion to what you want.
So Juvenile. Grow up .

My dear,pity his ex...FOR A WOMAN AND HER FAMILY TO REMAIN INCOMMUNICADO WITH THIS MAN-CHILD FOR A WHOOPING 4MONTHS (thats 120 calendar days) SHOWS THE KIND OF MAN-CHILD HE IS.

He deserves pity...pity and supplications to his maker.

coolcatty:


My dear,I pity my stupidity...FOR A MAN LIKE ME AND MY FAMILY TO REMAIN THIS STUPID WITH ME ,A MAN-CHILD FOR A WHOOPING ETERNITY (thats forever!) SHOWS THE KIND OF MAN-CHILD I AM.

I deserve pity...pity and supplications to my maker.

Fixed.

As you don't have existence without me,bet you know you must be irrelevant.I don't acknowledge you.Somebody called you a fool a page back.I always knew he is right but your ignorance blinds you.

It's so painful to see you trying so hard to be seen,heard and listened to.Ain't going to happen...And it is paining you.

You're now using capital letters,shouting because you know you make no impact.I'm enjoying elongating my thread.Please continue.

I'm here.

KOPT33:


With all due respect; all the politeness I can muster; all the respect that I feel is due to you: you're a fool.

coolcatty,this is where you were called a fool.Accept my sympathy.

Thank you to only sensible monikers who have contributed.

The not sensible ones know themselves, no thanks to them.

this dorato get wahala sha