THIS WOULD GUIDE US IN OUR DAILY INTERACTION WITH PEOPLE AT HOME, IN THE OFFICE AND IN SOCIETY.

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Nduka’s wife comes in from work and sees Nduka watching Arsenal match.He didn’t achnowledge her entrance

“i am sick and tired of coming second in your life, I want a divorce”

WHAT HE HEARS ; “she wants a divorce”
What she actually means; I want to feel loved
I want to be respected
I want to be considered more important than sport
I want your attention more than sport
Her suggestion ; divorce is her suggestion of getting out of a “less loving relationship to a more respected one

What to do: Watch TV less when she is around.
Give her your attention.
Spend more time with her
WARNING ; DON’T ADDRESS THE ISSUE OF DIVORCE

“IF YOU DON’T LAND A NEW ACCOUNT by THE END OF NEXT MONTH, YOU WILL BE FIRED

Employee interpretation ; “ he threatens to sack me. I will loose my job. I better off start looking for a another job

What boss means ; be more interested in company making more money
The boss is worried that general manager would blame him if he doesn’t raise more fund
Employee isn’t working hard enough and tries to motivate him
Boss suggestion ;if you don’t get more fund, everyone doesn’t get more fund,company wont have fund. Less salary. Retrenchment of workers, everyone would go out of job

What to do; approach the boss with a work plan that shows you are trying to generate client for company.
Warning ; don’t address the issue of sack