I am so confused and i dont hv anyone to seek advice from thats y am bringing it here. I am in a very blossom relationship until last three weeks when everything suddenly changed, my woman dont call me as she use to and when i call she wont talk ,i get fustrated always asking her what the problem is and she keeps sayin notin,but its written all over her reactions that things are not well with us at a point she said if i keep asking her she will banged the call and wil never pick my calls for ever. N.B. she lives in usa so thr is distance btw us,finnaly she decided to open up and said she had a dream that i did wedding with another woman and i saw her crying and hiss.. so for now i should give her time.I am so comfused,i hv put all my efforts to make sure i took her to the alter and we had made plans together for our wedding this year december...i am 34 and shes 31 now

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This is your village people at work ooo lol......
on a more serious note since she has opened up about her fears then i think you need to reassure her that everything will be fine and u are in this with her for the long run. if you guys are christians/muslims then you can choose to pray about it together. during this period be more open and transparents with her. let her know your every move and intentions and soon she will get over it.

PS: i hope you are not guilty sha? because if truly you are seeing someone else and God revealed it to her in the dream then you better be ready to come out clean and break things up with her bfore she cries to her God to take up your case, discipline u, and revenge on her behalf.

TUBLEZ:
I am so confused and i dont hv anyone to seek advice from thats y am bringing it here. I am in a very blossom relationship until last three weeks when everything suddenly changed, my woman dont call me as she use to and when i call she wont talk ,i get fustrated always asking her what the problem is and she keeps sayin notin,but its written all over her reactions that things are not well with us at a point she said if i keep asking her she will banged the call and wil never pick my calls for ever. N.B. she lives in usa so thr is distance btw us,finnaly she decided to open up and said she had a dream that i did wedding with another woman and i saw her crying and hiss.. so for now i should give her time.I am so comfused,i hv put all my efforts to make sure i took her to the alter and we had made plans together for our wedding this year december...i am 34 and shes 31 now

Heroyalhighness:
This is your village people at work ooo lol......
on a more serious note since she has opened up about her fears then i think you need to reassure her that everything will be fine and u are in this with her for the long run. if you guys are christians/muslims then you can choose to pray about it together. during this period be more open and transparents with her. let her know your every move and intentions and soon she will get over it.

PS: i hope you are not guilty sha? because if truly you are seeing someone else and God revealed it to her in the dream then you better be ready to come out clean and break things up with her bfore she cries to her God to take up your case, discipline u, and revenge on her behalf.

Txxxxx, i hv been vey loyal and faithful and i hv reassure her over and over even if i hvnt bought assurance porsh

Heroyalhighness:
This is your village people at work ooo lol......
on a more serious note since she has opened up about her fears then i think you need to reassure her that everything will be fine and u are in this with her for the long run. if you guys are christians/muslims then you can choose to pray about it together. during this period be more open and transparents with her. let her know your every move and intentions and soon she will get over it.

PS: i hope you are not guilty sha? because if truly you are seeing someone else and God revealed it to her in the dream then you better be ready to come out clean and break things up with her bfore she cries to her God to take up your case, discipline u, and revenge on her behalf.

Txxxxx, i hv been vey loyal and faithfu and it makes me even feel sad that shes feeling that way because am not even seen anyone not even for fun not o talk of dating and i hv reassure her over and over even if i hvnt bought assurance porsh..loz

Ehen!
At the mention of USA, Nigerian men turn romantic.
No alpha ma

No ego

No I am the head


Instead, you receive pleadings and an understanding ear.
It's almost as if they become human.

ovoko

Na joke o!

Apparently, you are not skilled in interpreting “signs and wonders” of relationships.

You have a long distance relationship with a fickle-minded female.

You do not realize you are being taken for a fool.

You are hell bent on marrying this female with her poor communication skills.

She is being extremely rude and disrespectful.

Dump her now, find another.

You sound very desperate
Or, is she your ticket to the U.S. ?

I taya for all these “DM” relationships I swear.

OldBeer:
Ehen!
At the mention of USA, Nigerian men turn romantic.
No alpha male

No ego

No I am the head


Instead, you receive pleadings and an understanding ear.
It's almost as if they become human.

ovoko

Na joke o!

Op, you have spirit wife. Go for deliverance

OldBeer:
Ehen!
At the mention of USA, Nigerian men turn romantic.
No alpha ma

No ego

No I am the head


Instead, you receive pleadings and an understanding ear.
It's almost as if they become human.

ovoko

Na joke o!

I know post like this will come up but no offence, just to let u know that this is the same person i hv been with since uni days and that's over 10 years now

KanwuliaExtra:
Apparently, you are not skilled in interpreting “signs and wonders” of relationships.

You have a long distance relationship with a fickle-minded female.

You do not realize you are being taken for a fool.

You are hell bent on marrying this female with her poor communication skills.

She is being extremely rude and disrespectful.

Dump her now, find another.

You sound very desperate
Or, is she your ticket to the U.S. ?

I taya for all these “DM” relationships I swear.

Thank u, she has never been this disrespectful and she's even d one doin the calling most of the time at least we spend over 3 hrs on video calls alone not to talk of regular voice calls per day until everything changed last three weeks.. And no she's not my visa to America..shes not a citizen

TUBLEZ:
I know post like this will come up but no offence, just to let u know that this is the same person i hv been with since uni days and that's over 10 years now

Is this her first time of sharing her dreams with you?

TUBLEZ:
Thank u, she has never been this disrespectful and she's even d one doin the calling most of the time at least we spend over 3 hrs on video calls alone not to talk of regular voice calls per day until everything changed last three weeks.. And no she's not my visa to America..shes not a citizen

No condition is permanent in relationships or marriages.

Never love anyone that does not love you.
Never waste time on anyone who does not consider your feelings or acknowledge your worth in their lives.

TUBLEZ:
I know post like this will come up but no offence, just to let u know that this is the same person i hv been with since uni days and that's over 10 years now

Over 10 years and you still haven't put a ring on it

Brace yourself...your lady has most likely decided to move on.

You should have done the needful teh teh, at most before she travelled out.

Acidosis:


Is this her first time of sharing her dreams with you?

nope, but on this particular matter yes yes

TUBLEZ:
I am so confused and i dont hv anyone to seek advice from thats y am bringing it here. I am in a very blossom relationship until last three weeks when everything suddenly changed, my woman dont call me as she use to and when i call she wont talk ,i get fustrated always asking her what the problem is and she keeps sayin notin,but its written all over her reactions that things are not well with us at a point she said if i keep asking her she will banged the call and wil never pick my calls for ever. N.B. she lives in usa so thr is distance btw us,finnaly she decided to open up and said she had a dream that i did wedding with another woman and i saw her crying and hiss.. so for now i should give her time.I am so comfused,i hv put all my efforts to make sure i took her to the alter and we had made plans together for our wedding this year december...i am 34 and shes 31 now

Op the truth is painful but I have to let you know it.
After all pain pill is cheap.

Now listen.

Your bae or whatever you call her has no love for you anymore. She's probably seeing someone else and she's looking for a means to cut you off..

My advice;

Cut her off before she cut you off.

There's less pain in dumping a person than being dumped.

Sir she is using the dream as a excuse. I won’t lie to you. Even a white man have been chatting me for three years now and have been to Nigeria to see me once. And is still chatting and calling me. Sometimes I busy his calls. And he is persistent talkless of your woman

Sir I repeat don’t put your hopes high sir. She has gotten another one

I appreciate u all.. Today is actually her birthday i post very short message on my wall on FB with her pix immediately she called and was angry while i didn't tag her that sey me i want to be hiding her now

TUBLEZ:
I am so confused and i dont hv anyone to seek advice from thats y am bringing it here. I am in a very blossom relationship until last three weeks when everything suddenly changed, my woman dont call me as she use to and when i call she wont talk ,i get fustrated always asking her what the problem is and she keeps sayin notin,but its written all over her reactions that things are not well with us at a point she said if i keep asking her she will banged the call and wil never pick my calls for ever. N.B. she lives in usa so thr is distance btw us,finnaly she decided to open up and said she had a dream that i did wedding with another woman and i saw her crying and hiss.. so for now i should give her time.I am so comfused,i hv put all my efforts to make sure i took her to the alter and we had made plans together for our wedding this year december...i am 34 and shes 31 now

You're only getting paid back in your own coins , remember the ladies you lead on and fvcked in various dating groups you joined. It would be an injustice if you find true marital happiness , go and apologize to all the ladies you have fvcked

She says you should give her space, then give her space. As wide as the Mississippi river.

Oga sir, it's not all the advice here you will follow oo.. Use ya head. After all she had opened up to u,dont act too fast..

A daft excuse from a woman who is seeing someone else in the US. Forget that marriage plans. She is indirectly telling you she is nor gonna marry you.

Why would you even be dating someone far away in US?

How would you know if she has been cheating on you?

And she may have!

Women can't be trusted. That silly excuse simply shows that she is not on the same page as you.

My advice to, is this: Relax.

It might be hard to do, but you have to.

She is indirectly calling off the relationship.

So, respect her wishes

Dont call

Dont text

Dont email

Dont do WhatsApp or social media with her

You must give her the impression, you can live without her just fine

Clinging to her, will push her away.
Yep. The more you seek closeness, the further she pulls away from you

She wants to ride the car, so let her ride

All along , she was playing along

You couldn't read the signs on the wall

She is with someone else and right now, you are disturbing her. Probably been sexed by someone there to the point where she feels you are irrelevant and she is getting what she needs right now sex wise

On the other hand, her family people could be against your relationship with her....who knows if they have not arranged someone else for her.Yap, especially if they are richer than you

Just chill, in a couple of months, you will discover the truth...about her getting married to someone else.

Of course, if she pushes you away now, that means, she has the upper hand.

Just make sure, not to accept her back, when she comes round again begging

SHE DOES NOT LOVE YOU BRO

virago:




You're only getting paid back in your own coins , remember the ladies you lead on and fvcked in various dating groups you joined. It would be an injustice if you find true marital happiness , go and apologize to all the ladies you have fvcked

CAN U SUPPORT UR CLAIM WITH PROOF AS I HV NO IDEA OF WHAT U R TALKING ABOUT