*I've had difficulties posting this*

My neighbour and I belong to the media unit in our church, and he's the HOD. We were editing clips of the Christmas carol service last December. He passed me his phone and asked me to send the finished works to his device (Nokia 8 ), then he walked away to have a chat with the pastor in his office.
I was using a Nokia 6 then, so I decided to check/explore his device. Asides his sms/chats/socials/contacts, I checked everything else. Then, I saw a short porn clip amongst some other videos. This had me smilling mischiveously.

Lots of questions I want to ask you but I need not bother.

I don't trust you, that's all. I see no reason why she should be sitting on your laps in the first place.
You can interpret that however you want to.

ObaFemy:
The incident was all I could think about the rest of that day. Then it hit me, that the very porn clip I saw on my neighbour's phone was actually a teen porn, plus some pornsites on his browsing history on his Chrome (all of them, teen Indecency!).
I just couldn't get the whole thing out of my head ever since.
Could my neighbour be sexually abusing his own daughter? Or am I just letting my imaginations run too wildly?

Why did you edit your initial post?

ObaFemy:
My neighbour & I belong to the media unit of our church and he's H.O.D. We were editing recordings of last year's Christmas carol service last year December when he passed me his phone & asked me to send the finished works to his device (Nokia . He walked away to have a chat with the pastor in his office.
I using Nokia 6 then, so I decided to check/explore his device. Asides his sms/chats/socials/contacts, I checked everything else, then I saw a short porn clip amongst some other videos. This had me smilling mischiveously.
Fastforward to Feb. this year. I had to pick my neighbour's 10 year old daughter from evening tutorials 'cos her dad called that he had an important appointment, plus her mom was always travelling to buy things for her boutique. We were playing/goofing around in my apartment afterwards when she sat on my laps and we kept talking, until she focused on my crotch & started fiddling with my zipper.
I was stunned & told her I'd take her to their apartment to await the return of her dad.

Fastforward to Feb. this year, I had to pick my neighbour's 10 year old daughter from school, her dad called to say he had an important appointment, plus her mom was always travelling to buy things for her boutique.
We were playing/goofing around in my apartment, when she sat on my laps & we kept talking, untill she focused on my crotch and started fiddling with my zipper. I was stunned & told her I'd take her to their apartment to await the return of her dad.

The incident was all I could think about the rest of that day. Then it hit me, that the very porn clip I saw on my neighbour's phone was actually a teen porn, plus some pornsites browsing history on his Chrome (all of them, teen Indecency!)
I just couldn't get the whole thing out of my head ever since.
Could my neighbour be sexually abusing his own daughter? Or am I just letting my imaginations run too wildly?

*please, pardon the broken posts, I don't know my way around that much here on Nairaland *

crackhaus:
Lots of questions I want to ask you but I need not bother.

I don't trust you, that's all. I see no reason why she should be sitting on your laps in the first place.
You can interpret that however you want to.

C'mon bro, she does that all the time, even in the church, and right before her parents. I'm supposed to be the big Uncle.

ObaFemy:
C'mon bro, she does that all the time, even in the church, and right before her parents. I'm supposed to be the big Uncle.

Oga this day and age is not the time to place a girl child on your laps, even if you are just the big uncle people will read meaning to it.
Infact parents are telling their children not to sit on any uncles laps, not to allow any uncle touch them anywhere.

I grew up (till 9) years among university age peeps and my cousins had loads of male friends, as the youngest in the house all of them was my big brother whenever they come around they all took me as their little sister, uncle x, uncle y, uncle z but that was then oo Now I won't allow anyone so close to my children in form of uncle despite the fact that I was never molested.

Times have change, rate of molestation is high now please.

The essence of my long story is 'stop allowing her to sit on your lap' simple

As for if your friend is molesting his daughter well you can decide to find out.

NoToPile:


Oga this day and age is not the time to place a girl child on your laps, even if you are just the big uncle people will read meaning to it.
Infact parents are telling their children not to sit on any uncles laps, not to allow any uncle touch them anywhere.

I grew up (till 9) years among university age peeps and my cousins had loads of male friends, as the youngest in the house all of them was my big brother whenever they come around they all took me as their little sister, uncle x, uncle y, uncle z but that was then oo Now I won't allow anyone so close to my children in form of uncle despite the fact that I was never molested.

Times have change, rate of molestation is high now please.

The essence of my long story is 'stop allowing her to sit on your lap' simple

As for if your friend is molesting his daughter well you can decide to find out.

My mind's clean, but I understand and welcome your advice though, thanks.

NoToPile:


Oga this day and age is not the time to place a girl child on your laps, even if you are just the big uncle people will read meaning to it.
Infact parents are telling their children not to sit on any uncles laps, not to allow any uncle touch them anywhere.

I grew up (till 9) years among university age peeps and my cousins had loads of male friends, as the youngest in the house all of them was my big brother whenever they come around they all took me as their little sister, uncle x, uncle y, uncle z but that was then oo Now I won't allow anyone so close to my children in form of uncle despite the fact that I was never molested.

Times have change, rate of molestation is high now please.

The essence of my long story is 'stop allowing her to sit on your lap' simple

As for if your friend is molesting his daughter well you can decide to find out.

I NEVER sat her on my laps at any time, she did by herself.

ObaFemy:
I NEVER sat her on my laps at any time, she did by herself.

It's all Grammar, she sat on laps, you sat her on laps. The koko is not to sit on your laps. Shey you get?

ObaFemy:
My mind's clean, but I understand and welcome your advice though, thanks.

You are welcome.

Probably trying out what she saw on TV.

Something is definitely not right!!