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Re: Naturally Determining The Sex Of Your Babies - By Francis Ewherido by Africanpride123(m): 11:57pm On Jul 14, 2018
buddie:
Please can anyone also attest to the authenticity of this article?
Sounds too good to be true.

What this man wrote is 99% true. After God who I believe determines everything, this works perfectly well. My wife had a small book on this from d day we married and we followed it. It worked.

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Re: Naturally Determining The Sex Of Your Babies - By Francis Ewherido by Nobody: 11:59pm On Jul 14, 2018
Why do people like to select the sex of their unborn child? We humans are very foolish, especially Africans. In the Western world, there were/are many multi-millionaires who had only one girl child and didn't look for more. But, here in Africa, a very poor man can give birth to 13 children because he wants to have "enough" male children.

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Re: Naturally Determining The Sex Of Your Babies - By Francis Ewherido by supereagle(m): 12:05am On Jul 15, 2018
SEONaijaExpert:
I've read a couple of information like this, the probability of naturally determining a child sex is zero.

Nothing in this article is proven. It's all theoretical.
Israelis are using it. Do you know that we have more men there than women? Look at family of Jacob as well only one Daughter. Timing the ovulation is the way.
Re: Naturally Determining The Sex Of Your Babies - By Francis Ewherido by Buharimustgo: 12:13am On Jul 15, 2018
buddie:
Please can anyone also attest to the authenticity of this article?
Sounds too good to be true.

The man is absolutely correct
Re: Naturally Determining The Sex Of Your Babies - By Francis Ewherido by Nobody: 12:33am On Jul 15, 2018
Bla bla bla, an insurance broker is the person who wants to teach us gynaecology and reproduction grin grin Laughing in Swahili.
All these is probability, nothing is proven. The gender of a child is a matter of chance.
The only way scientifically proven and guaranteed to select the gender is invitro fertilization.
Re: Naturally Determining The Sex Of Your Babies - By Francis Ewherido by jude2009: 12:47am On Jul 15, 2018
Neoteny:
This is horrendously wrong.

The blastocyst or zygote possess both chromosome pairs, and in the first few weeks only the X chromosome is expressed. This is why they say all mammals start as inherently female.

Later, either genetics or hormones will determine whether the Y chromosome will Express and dominate.

Sperm speed has nothing to do with it.


My friend you lack the basic understanding of meotic division. The sex of an individual is determined at fertilization. The fusion of the male pronucleus (which contains either 23,x or 23,y chromosomes) with the female pronucleus determines the sex. You may go back and revisit your basic embryology.
Re: Naturally Determining The Sex Of Your Babies - By Francis Ewherido by AreaFada2: 12:58am On Jul 15, 2018
Hmmmm

Curious science.
Re: Naturally Determining The Sex Of Your Babies - By Francis Ewherido by Mutemenot(m): 2:01am On Jul 15, 2018
SEONaijaExpert:
I've read a couple of information like this, the probability of naturally determining a child sex is zero.

Nothing in this article is proven. It's all theoretical.

Oh, you want him to back up with a video on how he did it right ? My friend apply the theory into practical in your ozar room grin
Re: Naturally Determining The Sex Of Your Babies - By Francis Ewherido by Sabadon(m): 2:03am On Jul 15, 2018
buddie:
Please can anyone also attest to the authenticity of this article?
Sounds too good to be true.
yea looks too good to b true bt it's 98% very reliable,our professor of reproduction back then in AAU Dr Ute inegbenebor tested it with a 98% success rate,but depends largely on ur ability to know ur ovulation day
Re: Naturally Determining The Sex Of Your Babies - By Francis Ewherido by ayobaye(m): 2:04am On Jul 15, 2018
buddie:
Please can anyone also attest to the authenticity of this article?
Sounds too good to be true.

I used it too and it worked
Re: Naturally Determining The Sex Of Your Babies - By Francis Ewherido by godys(m): 2:26am On Jul 15, 2018
Is it what Buhari father did that made them gave birth to this fool called Buhari?Mtchew

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Re: Naturally Determining The Sex Of Your Babies - By Francis Ewherido by otipoju(m): 2:38am On Jul 15, 2018
buddie:
Please can anyone also attest to the authenticity of this article?
Sounds too good to be true.

It's true ooo. Read on it before now. I am using the info to select the sex of my next child...my wife desperately wants a ...... . .Me I don't care
Re: Naturally Determining The Sex Of Your Babies - By Francis Ewherido by ststyreal(f): 2:39am On Jul 15, 2018
NairaMaster1:


Don't mind the quack.

If you like sleep inside vagina it's natural.

My friend has given birth to 5 children in 7 years looking for a mail child.

He got a pack of ovulation predicting strips. His wife used it on daily bases but all to no avail.

Nature is always innocent.
You are absolutely right...
Re: Naturally Determining The Sex Of Your Babies - By Francis Ewherido by Themmiee: 3:34am On Jul 15, 2018
buddie:
Please can anyone also attest to the authenticity of this article?
Sounds too good to be true.

It is true... he said the right thing.
Re: Naturally Determining The Sex Of Your Babies - By Francis Ewherido by Tonytonex(m): 4:55am On Jul 15, 2018
Aitee1:


You won't learn now tomorrow you'll be blaming her for giving birth to "ikot antia" tongue


pls What's "Ikot antia" ?
Re: Naturally Determining The Sex Of Your Babies - By Francis Ewherido by Obinkita(m): 5:17am On Jul 15, 2018
God is great!
Nature has final say
My four boys are living testimonies
Nature always has the final say
Re: Naturally Determining The Sex Of Your Babies - By Francis Ewherido by peacengine(m): 5:26am On Jul 15, 2018
otipoju:


It's true ooo. Read on it before now. I am using the info to select the sex of my next child...my wife desperately wants a ...... . .Me I don't care

Bro, it's not real, except IVF. Me too I don't care bout this stuff

For OP, many Africans don't plan for any number of kids especially uneducated. Most educated people will tell you 4 or 5, smh. There's a more important reason for population explosion that's not being looked @, the issue of our porous borders especially in the North.
Re: Naturally Determining The Sex Of Your Babies - By Francis Ewherido by zeus9634: 5:37am On Jul 15, 2018
Really educative. Thanks a lot
Re: Naturally Determining The Sex Of Your Babies - By Francis Ewherido by nellyelitz(m): 6:46am On Jul 15, 2018
Aitee1:


You won't learn now tomorrow you'll be blaming her for giving birth to "ikot antia" tongue


WOW LOL PRETTY ITS BEEN AGES
Re: Naturally Determining The Sex Of Your Babies - By Francis Ewherido by Sike(m): 6:48am On Jul 15, 2018
Noted
Re: Naturally Determining The Sex Of Your Babies - By Francis Ewherido by Angy55(f): 7:02am On Jul 15, 2018
Aitee1:


You won't learn now tomorrow you'll be blaming her for giving birth to "ikot antia" tongue



Please could you tell me the meaning of antia?
Re: Naturally Determining The Sex Of Your Babies - By Francis Ewherido by pawesome(m): 7:44am On Jul 15, 2018
Feranchek:
Naturally determining the sex of your babies – Francis Ewherido

Let me commence with a solemn declaration. I believe, without any doubt, that all humankind is created equal and in the image and likeness of God. No person is superior to the other by virtue of family background, race, ethnicity or gender.

So today’s article has nothing to do with the superiority of the male child over the female child. There is no such thing, or maybe it exists in the imagination of some people due to prehistoric and archaic prejudices. We need both sexes to perpetuate humanity, so both are equally important.

Put these male chauvinists making noise about the supremacy of the male child in an island without women for one year and they will run mad. I am only writing today’s article because God has given us the freedom of choice and if anybody has challenges exercising that freedom positively and you are in a position to help, please do just that.



Last week’s article, “Nigeria’s exponential Population” did generate much reaction on my social media pages. But one of the reasons given by a respondent for the exploding population did catch my attention. He said some couples give birth to more children than they originally planned or can cater for because they are looking for the “almighty” male child. This does not make sense to me, but a man has the right to make legal choices that make him happy. I have written considerably on this subject and will not duel on it wholesome today, but I will concentrate on naturally determining the sex of your baby.

Naturally preselecting the sex of your baby is no rocket science; it is the simple biology we all learnt in secondary school. Maybe, we just take it a little further. So it is painful to see couples unfulfilled, sad or breed like rabbits because they are looking for either a son or daughter, son most of the time. Today, I am giving an abridged version of steps (previously addressed in my column) that you need to take to naturally preselect the sex of your baby with stunning accuracy.

First, we must remember or know that the male sperms carry either X or Y chromosomes, while the female eggs carry only the X chromosomes. The egg carrying the X chromosome and the sperm carrying Y chromosome produce a male child, while the egg carrying the X chromosome and the sperm carrying X chromosome produce a female child. So a man determines the sex of a baby. You can now see that many husbands are just blaming their wives for results that they are wholly responsible for.

The sperm carrying the Y chromosome swims faster, but has a shorter lifespan while the sperm carrying the X chromosome is slower, but has a longer lifespan. If you want a male child, intercourse should take place just before or during ovulation. The faster sperms carrying the Y chromosome would get to the egg and fertilise it before the sperms with X chromosome make their slow and steady journey there. And only one sperm can fertilise an egg. If, however, intercourse takes three days (sometimes two days) or more before ovulation, the result will likely be a girl. This is because all the faster sperms carrying the Y chromosomes with short lifespan would have died leaving the egg for the slower sperms carrying the X chromosomes with longer lifespan to fertilise.

The critical elements here are ovulation, which occurs when an egg or ovum is released from the ovary and usually lasts for about 12 to 24 hours, and timing of intercourse. Ovulation normally occurs between the 12th to 14th day of a woman’s 28-day cycle, but like most human phenomena, there are no absolute certainties and it varies from one woman to another. Even within the same woman, there are variations. Many women find this unpredictability challenging. Such women can engage in charting, that is daily recording of changes in the mucus discharge from the vagina that is related to ovulation, to enhance predictability.

Please note that how long the sperm lives in the body of your wife after intercourse is determined by a number of factors. One, the vaginal environment is very important. If it is alkaline, the sperm carrying the Y chromosome can survive up to three day, while the sperm carrying the X chromosome can survive for five or six days. But if the vaginal environment is acidic, it is less habitable for the X and Y sperms and they die much earlier. That is why knowing the day of ovulation is very essential to pre-selection of the sex of your baby, because if you do, the vaginal environment, friendly or hostile, becomes inconsequential.

The other important factor is the health of the husband’s sperms. Studies have shown that the sperms of men decline both in quality and quantity from age 40. It is earlier for smokers. Lifestyle and the type of food you eat also influence the quantity and quality of sperms and ability to impregnate your wife. In fact, the egg does not accept every sperm that comes its way. It is very selective and attracted more to healthy sperms. This can be a challenge for men with weak sperms or low sperm count when they want to impregnate their wives, according to research findings.

You also need some discipline and cooperation between spouses if you want to naturally pre-select the sex of your babies. For a start, pre-selection is easier when the woman is practising natural family planning as against the use of artificial contraceptives, because artificial contraceptives disrupt the cycle of women, stopping ovulation or making ovulation more unpredictable, and you do need some level of predictability in the ovulation cycle to naturally preselect the sex of your babies

In addition, the couple needs to stay off intercourse for at least five days before ovulation. This is to ensure that residue semen in the woman’s body does not interfere with her vaginal discharge and create confusion. There are a number of natural ways women know they are ovulating: the thick slimy vaginal discharge which is like phlegm (catarrh, as some refer to it), some women feel a sharp pain on the side or lower abdomen when the egg is released, heightened sense of smell, breast soreness or tenderness, increased sexual urge and change in body temperature..
Just in case you are wondering why I write categorically on the efficacy of this method, I used it to preselect the sex of all my children, boys and girls accurately, so I know it is effective

https://www.vanguardngr.com/2018/07/naturally-determining-the-sex-of-your-babies/

OP,you never finish o... Twins nkoh
Re: Naturally Determining The Sex Of Your Babies - By Francis Ewherido by Julbu(m): 7:44am On Jul 15, 2018
Neoteny:
This is horrendously wrong.

The blastocyst or zygote possess both chromosome pairs, and in the first few weeks only the X chromosome is expressed. This is why they say all mammals start as inherently female.

Later, either genetics or hormones will determine whether the Y chromosome will Express and dominate.

Sperm speed has nothing to do with it.
This is totally wrong...... The original poster is on the right track... However, God gives as He purposes in His heart.... If you want to know that the gender does not matter, ask for. Couples who have being waiting for years..... May God answer the prayers of such couples or families today and always.... Children are God's heritage and both genders are equal before man and God
Re: Naturally Determining The Sex Of Your Babies - By Francis Ewherido by Obodo999(m): 7:44am On Jul 15, 2018
I prefer female children. They are more likely to look after dad in the old age.

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Re: Naturally Determining The Sex Of Your Babies - By Francis Ewherido by 989900: 8:00am On Jul 15, 2018
Aitee1:


You won't learn now tomorrow you'll be blaming her for giving birth to "ikot antia" tongue



"Murder she wrote" cheesy tongue cheesy
Re: Naturally Determining The Sex Of Your Babies - By Francis Ewherido by babyboyMD(m): 8:35am On Jul 15, 2018
buddie:
Please can anyone also attest to the authenticity of this article?
Sounds too good to be true.
This is theoretically correct... 100%
Re: Naturally Determining The Sex Of Your Babies - By Francis Ewherido by mrsfavour(f): 8:42am On Jul 15, 2018
buddie:
Please can anyone also attest to the authenticity of this article?
Sounds too good to be true.
100% correct. I did it,still doing it and teaching people.
Re: Naturally Determining The Sex Of Your Babies - By Francis Ewherido by Neoteny(m): 8:46am On Jul 15, 2018
Julbu:

This is totally wrong...... The original poster is on the right track... However, God gives as He purposes in His heart.... If you want to know that the gender does not matter, ask for. Couples who have being waiting for years..... May God answer the prayers of such couples or families today and always.... Children are God's heritage and both genders are equal before man and God

We're talking scientific fact, you're injecting fantasy into the conversation.

You're yet to talk about how the OP was on the right track, as you put it.

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Re: Naturally Determining The Sex Of Your Babies - By Francis Ewherido by Neoteny(m): 8:51am On Jul 15, 2018
jude2009:



My friend you lack the basic understanding of meotic division. The sex of an individual is determined at fertilization. The fusion of the male pronucleus (which contains either 23,x or 23,y chromosomes) with the female pronucleus determines the sex. You may go back and revisit your basic embryology.

Wow look at how you're sounding so high and mighty over what you obviously don't know much about.

Sex determination is triggered by a lot of factors that lead to the dominance of a particular chromosomatic pair.

Have you never heard of XX males and XY females?

Go to Wikipedia or something and learn a thing or two.
Re: Naturally Determining The Sex Of Your Babies - By Francis Ewherido by Ignatio(m): 8:56am On Jul 15, 2018
Seems true because almost every child born out of wedlock is male.
Re: Naturally Determining The Sex Of Your Babies - By Francis Ewherido by Tygood(m): 8:58am On Jul 15, 2018
edemsimeon:
NICE WRITE-UP! HOWEVER, ONLY ONE SPERM FERTILISES THE OVUM DURING COURTSHIP. MY QUESTION IS, WHERE ARE THE REST OF THE SPERMS RETURN TO AFTER INTERCOURSE?
They die off!The more the sperm cells, the better the chance of fertilization.It is natural selection.The journey of the sperm cells through the vagina is very chaotic due to the PH of the vagina and enzymes present, only few survive the journey and even fewer penetrate the zona pellucida.

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