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He Is Ijebu, I Am Igbo; Should I Marry Him? by Nobody: 6:39pm On Jul 23, 2018 |
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Re: He Is Ijebu, I Am Igbo; Should I Marry Him? by eniolorunfe: 6:41pm On Jul 23, 2018 |
FTC....Yipee!!! Follow your heart...you know what to do! |
Re: He Is Ijebu, I Am Igbo; Should I Marry Him? by sisisioge: 6:51pm On Jul 23, 2018 |
Marry us please...we are wonderful people. Since you taught the bobo how to dress and embrace his heritage, I would suggest you calmly explain to him that there's no point dining with the devil. Stay in your lane...don't go to his Village biko. Look luck. |
Re: He Is Ijebu, I Am Igbo; Should I Marry Him? by OlujobaSamuel: 6:59pm On Jul 23, 2018 |
nothing person no go read, she go soon come ask us after she don marry am, if she is to have sexx with him. |
Re: He Is Ijebu, I Am Igbo; Should I Marry Him? by Nobody: 7:10pm On Jul 23, 2018 |
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Re: He Is Ijebu, I Am Igbo; Should I Marry Him? by appsdope(m): 7:19pm On Jul 23, 2018 |
OP you have to leave him o. His not worth it and he's family does not want you. There are so many reasons you should leave him. Don't just stay with him cos you have a child. His family does not want you and he depends on his family for upkeep. It's only a matter of time before they ask him to leave you. I've seen single mothers marry. Since he's not showing signs of improvement abeg Waka asap. I don't want you coming back here 4 years from now with a story that could've been avoided. If you leave he might get better and come for you. But first you have to leave him what he does with his life after you've left him is what should open your eyes. 4 Likes |
Re: He Is Ijebu, I Am Igbo; Should I Marry Him? by blessedvisky(m): 7:28pm On Jul 23, 2018 |
You are very smart but you got pregnant for a wayward and ambitionless guy. I hail your smartness 3 Likes |
Re: He Is Ijebu, I Am Igbo; Should I Marry Him? by appsdope(m): 7:32pm On Jul 23, 2018 |
blessedvisky: Hmmmmm. |
Re: He Is Ijebu, I Am Igbo; Should I Marry Him? by dulux07(m): 7:34pm On Jul 23, 2018 |
Funny how we shout racism when the white attacks, and even claim we are religious people, n yet tribalistic, pls op change ur topic, it is annoying. Besides, based on what u ve written, its obvious there r 101 reasons why u should doubt marrying him, laziness is enough, not tribalism. 4 Likes |
Re: He Is Ijebu, I Am Igbo; Should I Marry Him? by donstan18: 8:05pm On Jul 23, 2018 |
His father this, his mother that, his sisters this. OP where are your parents? 6 Likes |
Re: He Is Ijebu, I Am Igbo; Should I Marry Him? by Nobody: 8:10pm On Jul 23, 2018 |
[quote author=dulux07 post=69641873]Funny how we shout racism when the white attacks, and even claim we are religious people, n yet tribalistic, pls op change ur topic, it is annoying. Besides, based on what u ve written, its obvious there r 101 reasons why u should doubt marrying him, then... .... |
Re: He Is Ijebu, I Am Igbo; Should I Marry Him? by Nobody: 8:25pm On Jul 23, 2018 |
The decision is yours to make. 1 Like |
Re: He Is Ijebu, I Am Igbo; Should I Marry Him? by bukatyne(f): 8:26pm On Jul 23, 2018 |
Tumtum16: Like someone said, You claimed to be smart however got preggers for a guy who has no ambition etc. He doesn't even sound like he loves you. You have made mistake one; please I beg you... don't make another mistake marrying him. You sound like an industrious person with a drive to succeed; don't let him kill it. As sad as it sounds, please move on. Goodluck. 3 Likes |
Re: He Is Ijebu, I Am Igbo; Should I Marry Him? by kasmilla(m): 8:35pm On Jul 23, 2018 |
Tumtum16:fish brain commot here abeg |
Re: He Is Ijebu, I Am Igbo; Should I Marry Him? by Nobody: 8:37pm On Jul 23, 2018 |
Re: He Is Ijebu, I Am Igbo; Should I Marry Him? by Nobody: 8:43pm On Jul 23, 2018 |
kasmilla: Your insult is not necessary Kasmilla. 1 Like |
Re: He Is Ijebu, I Am Igbo; Should I Marry Him? by donstan18: 8:43pm On Jul 23, 2018 |
Tumtum16: This issue is bigger than you and your boyfriend, and you've been typing about his parents all long. Can't you discuss and seek advice from your parents, why not let them get involved? This is how you ladies enslave yourselves in the hands of your inlaw-to-be before marriage 3 Likes |
Re: He Is Ijebu, I Am Igbo; Should I Marry Him? by Nobody: 8:47pm On Jul 23, 2018 |
donstan18: |
Re: He Is Ijebu, I Am Igbo; Should I Marry Him? by presentley: 8:49pm On Jul 23, 2018 |
Ijebu Igbo, if you know you know. |
Re: He Is Ijebu, I Am Igbo; Should I Marry Him? by kasmilla(m): 9:00pm On Jul 23, 2018 |
Tumtum16:i can't help it. Ur story is annoying. It looks lyk u hv inborn foolishness and stupidity. At the mention of abroad based parents and money(longer throat). U lost ur reasoning skills even when u r seeing grave signs of sufferings and regrets in the future . U r still asking stupid questions. Do u hv parents or guardians atall 4 Likes |
Re: He Is Ijebu, I Am Igbo; Should I Marry Him? by Betakeshi: 9:09pm On Jul 23, 2018 |
Re: He Is Ijebu, I Am Igbo; Should I Marry Him? by oweniwe(m): 9:30pm On Jul 23, 2018 |
bukatyne: blessedvisky: You can't marry someone who.... That is every way like you If you are a good good... You will marry bad bad Though there may be exceptions But most are like that. .... I'm praying hard i don't get to marry bad girl o |
Re: He Is Ijebu, I Am Igbo; Should I Marry Him? by Nobody: 9:42pm On Jul 23, 2018 |
op never wave away warning signals, God is showing you all this and you are still diving in. u will feed yourself, your kid and that dude if u marry him. don't allow abroad ruin your sense of Judgment. |
Re: He Is Ijebu, I Am Igbo; Should I Marry Him? by oweniwe(m): 9:54pm On Jul 23, 2018 |
@ Tumtum16 His family are diabolical.. simply say so. I have never seen where people who worship juju in a family and they are rich... They're always poor. Or those into occult may be rich, but everyone else in the family will not prosper If it were a three generations issue (juju worshipping grandparents\old relatives, i could say you should give it a try... But his parents, uncle and immediate family are into juju worshipping as you put it... The juju they're serving will not let your boyfriend prosper unless he goes to start worshipping and sacrificing to the juju... And it will affect you too directly. I have seen where someone who is naturally gentle and easy going woke up one mid night and destroyed his "fiancée's" sewing machine for no just reason. The list packed her things early next day and relocated to another state. If you want wahala, you may continue staying with him... But if you are tired of everything, don't just break up, pack your this and relocate to another state or area far from him cos if you move and still stay close to him, he would start begging you to return.... begging will turn to stalking from his family and friends then threat and physically harrass you for leaving him. I repeat, if you want to leave him... Relocate to another state or far away to avoid stories that touch. A jealous guy stabbed his lover to death here https://www.nairaland.com/4634410/lady-dies-after-lover-stabbed A word is enough for the wise |
Re: He Is Ijebu, I Am Igbo; Should I Marry Him? by Nobody: 10:16pm On Jul 23, 2018 |
sisisioge: Lol I hear, my experience with Ijebu ode has been terrible, I avoid them, sadly I am one too, if I see ijebu person on the left I will cross the road to the right even if there's snake there too. |
Re: He Is Ijebu, I Am Igbo; Should I Marry Him? by Nobody: 10:18pm On Jul 23, 2018 |
Can't advice you OP all I know is, if I see a snake or an ijebu ode man, I will walk with the snake pls cross check his family. ijebu ode Inherently are wicked people unless the educated ones, the ones in the village are fetish and diabolic , I have experienced and witnessed it first hand,but then again you are Igbo too, so the fighting for the husband property shouldn't come as a shock to you. Note: your experience might differ |
Re: He Is Ijebu, I Am Igbo; Should I Marry Him? by ariesbull: 10:21pm On Jul 23, 2018 |
Tumtum16: You dropped out of University for him You had a child , an illegitimate child for him....the best is anchor or him ..and marry him even if you don't love him but to save your family from disgrace Stop coming here to ask for advise ...you should even be happy that he is trying to marry you Mana don't get it twisted . marriage ain't no child play ! When the cookies get crumbling, be ready |
Re: He Is Ijebu, I Am Igbo; Should I Marry Him? by sisisioge: 10:22pm On Jul 23, 2018 |
pcguru1: Haba, oluwapcguru you should know that a person is quite different from a tribe. In as much as the bobo in question is ijebu, he's apparently half baked Nigerian let alone full blown Ijebu . Ijebus aren't bad people and we've got a beautiful language. So long as no one is embracing diabolism...all will be well. E we so |
Re: He Is Ijebu, I Am Igbo; Should I Marry Him? by Nobody: 10:25pm On Jul 23, 2018 |
[quote author=pcguru1 post=69645767]Can't advice you OP all I know is, if I see a snake or an ijebu ode man, I will walk with the snake pls cross check his family. ijebu ode Inherently are wicked people unless the educated ones, the ones in the village are fetish and diabolic , I have experienced and witnessed it first hand,but then again you are Igbo too, so the fighting for the husband property shouldn't come as a shock to you. Hmmm. |
Re: He Is Ijebu, I Am Igbo; Should I Marry Him? by Nobody: 10:26pm On Jul 23, 2018 |
sisisioge: You're right its wrong to generalize |
Re: He Is Ijebu, I Am Igbo; Should I Marry Him? by sisisioge: 10:35pm On Jul 23, 2018 |
Tumtum16: Wow! You no talk all these before nau! Hian! You don't love him. He's not sure about you. He's parents don't like you. Your parents don't trust his people. His probably not interested in marrying you. Please don't marry us...may God bless you with one of the Igbos around. Issue resolved! Cheers. |
Re: He Is Ijebu, I Am Igbo; Should I Marry Him? by Nobody: 10:36pm On Jul 23, 2018 |
Tumtum16:How old are you that you got marriage as your top priority like this You are in a burning pan and you're asking whether to jump into a brewing fire You haven't even found your feet, you are yet to makeup for dropping out of the university yet you're patching up with a boy because his parents are sending you money from abroad... As an igbo girl, how in Heaven's name did you have a child for a boy that has not paid one kobo on your head and still cohabit with him? Really??. Is poverty changing the igbo culture and values I grew up to know? Where are your parents? They have a lot of work to do! 2 Likes |
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