Many at times as mums, we tend to put our dreams on hold once we start having children? It’s not always something we intend on doing, but we do it so unconsciously.



Children are a great gift and a wonder addition to our homes and lives, but at the same time we must confess that caring for them requires a lot of hard work.



It’s perfectly understandable that some mums might find themselves putting their dreams on hold, with the excuse that they can always get back to things at a later time. The problem is, that time often never comes and we end going several steps backwards while your peers continue to climb up the ladder.



Even if a woman’s dream is to have children, there exist deep inside of her a dream waiting to materialise. Maybe you want to publish a book. Maybe you have been thinking about starting your own business, selling a product or acquiring a skill. Whatever it is, if you think about it daily, wondering if you can actualise it while you are raising your kids, especially when they are still babies, then this is the best time to make it a reality.

I’m not claiming that it will be easy. It’s won’t be. But the fact that it wont be a walk in the park doesn’t mean that you can’t find fulfillment while doing it.

Yes, there may be some sleepless nights and yes, you must learn to ask for help at some point. But in time, you will realise that pursuing your personal dreams makes you happier, more fulfilled and even a better mother.

Here are few tips to guide you as you strive to actualize your dreams and remain a great mother.

-Get a mentor or adviser. If you want to raise your kids and pursue your passions, you will need a mentor, adviser or just someone who truly believes in you and your dreams. Trust me, this is very key if you must actualize your dreams.

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