chiommy123:
Honestly some lists need reevaluation. Guys should appreciate too. Its not easy answering someone else's name for life.

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I'LL TAKE UP YOUR NAME ANYTIME ANYDAY INSTEAD OF GIVING MILLIONS TO YOUR VILLAGE PEOPLE FOR LIFE.

chiommy123:
comeon you don't have to be pained like this. Its tradition you know and can't be forcefully changed rather you humbly explain things to them

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NOW YOU KNOW IT'S TRADITION BUT THE OTHER LADY WAS APPLAUDED FOR BREAKING TRADITION BY NOT KNEELING. CLAP YOUR HANDS.

chiommy123:
their tradition is quit different from ours. Maybe you are not Igbo cos you will not understand. In Igbo land its not just the parents of the girl that owns her. Hence everyone must partake in her marriage rites

YESTERDAY AN IGBO MAN NEXT TO MY TABLE BRAGGED HOW HE SHUTS DOWN HIS WIFE BY SHOWING HER "THE LIST" AND ALL HIS EXPENSES DURING THE TRAD. ACCORDING TO HIM ITEMS ON THE LIST ALONE WORTH MOST 2.5M.. NOT TO TALK OF OTHER MERRIMENTS. SO SHE HAS NO RIGHT TO ANY OPINIONS IN THE MARRIAGE BECAUSE HE HAS PAID FOR HER, AND SHE'S "PROPERTY", JUST AS YOU MENTIONED ABOVE.
PEOPLE ACTUALLY "OWN" OTHER PEOPLE IN YOUR TRIBE AND YOU WANT TO CARRY ON WITH THAT SORT OF SLAVERY, JUST LIKE THE JEWS IN THE OLD TESTAMENT.
WHY NOT OPEN YOUR MIND AND YOUR HEAD, AND ALLOW SOMETHING NEW ENTER FOR ONCE?

chiommy123:
and what good did you do to us by settling the umunnas items on the list? Am sure you are not Igbo. That list most times is for the umunna not even the girls family alone

A FEW MONTHS INTO THE MARRIAGE AND YOU'LL HAVE THOSE IGBO HUSBANDS REGRETTING AND LAMENTING, THAT THEY SHOULD HAVE JUST BOUGHT MORE GOODS WITH ALL THAT WASTED MONEY INSTEAD. SO WHAT'S THE POINT?

THE SAME "UMUNNA" AND VILLAGERS YOU FEED AND CLOTHE ARE STILL THE ONES THAT WILL GO AND PLANT CHARMS FOR YOU TO DIE SO THAT THEY'LL INHERIT YOUR PROPERTIES.
AGAIN, WHAT'S THE THE POINT?

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YESTERDAY AN IGBO MAN NEXT TO MY TABLE BRAGGED HOW HE SHUTS DOWN HIS WIFE BY SHOWING HER "THE LIST" AND ALL HIS EXPENSES DURING THE TRAD. ACCORDING TO HIM ITEMS ON THE LIST ALONE WORTH MOST 2.5M.. NOT TO TALK OF OTHER MERRIMENTS. SO SHE HAS NO RIGHT TO ANY OPINIONS IN THE MARRIAGE BECAUSE HE HAS PAID FOR HER, AND SHE'S "PROPERTY", JUST AS YOU MENTIONED ABOVE.
PEOPLE ACTUALLY "OWN" OTHER PEOPLE IN YOUR TRIBE AND YOU WANT TO CARRY ON WITH THAT SORT OF SLAVERY, JUST LIKE THE JEWS IN THE OLD TESTAMENT.
WHY NOT OPEN YOUR MIND AND YOUR HEAD, AND ALLOW SOMETHING NEW ENTER FOR ONCE?

chiommy123:
Honestly some lists need reevaluation. Guys should appreciate too. Its not easy answering someone else's name for life.

Fazemood:

And we are

chiommy123:
wat

Fazemood:

Watching you while you sit n think that you have done us good by changing your names to ours. Wake up from your slumbers dearies

chiommy123:
and what good did you do to us by settling the umunnas items on the list? Am sure you are not Igbo. That list most times is for the umunna not even the girls family alone

chiommy123:
Honestly some lists need reevaluation. Guys should appreciate too. Its not easy answering someone else's name for life.