We had a househelp who had been with us for at least 3 years plus. We recently moved and we could not take her along with us.

Earlier this year around March, I confessed to her about all of my atrocities. I told her that I sometimes peep when she was bathing and watch her when she was dressing up, I apologised. All this happens when I feel lustful. Lust makes what is wrong seem right. She said she was not angry, that she too commits sin. So I let it end there.

Earlier this month, that is 6 months after the confession( I stopped peeping at her when she was bathing or dressing up) before we left, I was feeling lustful, I couldn't control myself I watched pornography and masturbated. I thought that will be it, but I was having a satanic strong urge to sleep with her, but I sat down and thought it out and saw that it is not worth it, instead, I called her, talked to her, thank her for everything (I knew she was not perfect), apologised to her for lusting towards her and I ended it there.

It wasn't easy for me to hold myself, it was by the grace of God. I had many opportunities to sleep with her, but I didn't. I know watching pornography and masturbating is not good and is not approved by God, but I couldn't control myself. It is only by the Grace of God and through the Holy Spirit that we can overcome sin, otherwise we will keep wallowing in it till death.

Lust for sex cannot be killed or destroyed(unless you cut your manhood). It can only be controlled and managed. That is why God gave us women as wives to satisfy us and vice versa. Sex is good, sweet and pleasureable, it was created by God for human beings, only to be performed in marriage. May God help us to be upright with him.

Did your pastor ask you to make a public confession or something?

Ioannes:
Did your pastor ask you to make a public confession or something?

Hehehehe

Mtcheeeeeeeewww..

So the story ended and you still did not sleep with her

This hot sunday

Are you married?
What happened to your wife?

Go and sin no more ...This time around look for an ugly house help.. the type u see on your breakfast table early in the morning and you loose your appetite

I am curious though.. I want to know the Bible chapter where God specifically said he doesn't approve masturbation..

Did she do some strip tease for you while you were watching? I heard the toss of the head backward and the right eye wink make the show worthwhile

By the way, you could just get a gf instead of mastubating

Biko, take your confession elsewhere. Do we look like Rev. Fathers to you?

megareal:
Biko, take your confession elsewhere. Do we look like Rev. Fathers to you?

No vex ma.

oluplus:
Are you married?
What happened to your wife?

I am not married.

Ioannes:
Did your pastor ask you to make a public confession or something?

No, I made the confession on my own.

oghale23:


No, I made the confession on my own.

That's good. Go and sin no more.

Richy4:
Go and sin no more ...This time around look for an ugly house help.. the type u see on your breakfast table early in the morning and you loose your appetite

I am curious though.. I want to know the Bible chapter where God specifically said he doesn't approve masturbation..

Masturbation was not conspicuously written in the bible, but is grouped under sexual immorality.

Na musturbation dey kee you dere ....if you don't masturbating you we see wey ..hin go carry you reach shogbo ...small boy