Below is a beautiful piece composed by a lady friend on my Facebook page worth sharing. It was a story of life about marriage, though not yet married but her argument is based on why *Ladies should consider all the factors needed to be consulted before taking a plunge into a marriage of 50k per month spouse". Happy reading.


My parents started life with "face me i face you compound" .they suffered ehn because "money didn't dey..."
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I gave my younger sister 4 years gap because money no dey ,so they had to do family planning and wait for another 4 years to have my last sister ...
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I share these stories so you can see that life in marriage is hard and money is important...
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We lived in a leaking house for years without toilet cos we couldn't afford a decent accommodation...
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I watched my mother trek with pregnancy of each of my siblings under hot sun ....
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They suffered ehn..mummy had a provision shop ..at a point ,profit entered into house keeping and everything folded...
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My dad took loans from the bank several times and paid through his nose ...*sad sigh*..i was the first child so i was in the "know of all the money struggles ..
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Anyone born in the 1980's , food was cheap then relatively..
Bus fare was 5 naira ..the economy was good ..cement was 400 naira a bag ..with 10 naira ,you can buy bread .5 Naira had value..yet people suffered.
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Now everything don "da baaru "..
I blame Buhari...
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If you are still opening your big mouth to talk about your parents using less than 50k to take care of you and your siblings those years ,you need a brain check ..
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Instead of looking for a way to change the narratives,you want to tow that line again ?
God forbid it on your behalf...
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I reject poverty for you in Jesus name !!
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Struggle to better your life ....
Make a decision to give your own kids a life better than what your parents gave you and your siblings
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I won't blame my parents for having 5 kids ,i would have blamed them for having 8 or 9...God knows i would have ...
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Inasmuch as i love kids..
I wont bring my son and daughters into the world to suffer...
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But my decision is this ..
If i have to plant cassava and sell to chase poverty away completely from my lineage ,i will ...
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If you haven't suffered in life or paid huge bills ..stop arguing about this...
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Its not a good place to be ..
Trust me....
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Financial independence and freedom should be your everyday goal...chase the papers with aggressive hustle ..
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Stop enabling poverty..
If you enjoy life when you are alive ,will you die ?
If your kids attend good schools ,will you die ?
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If you eat good food ,will heaven fall ??

Change your mindset please .
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This will be my last post on this ...
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Let me go and cry first as i just remembered some things ..
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God ,�
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#HSM

@ChinwenremJoy

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