scobyy2007:
Dont be used. Please repent.

djon78:




There is love, but I think it is related to helping the less privileged, and the needy in the society. Focus your life on this, and you will truly enjoy this life. Don't just live for yourself, have people you put smile on there faces.
Then your children, try as much to give them love too.
As for woman, always try and be good to the woman in your life.

djon78:



How old are you?
You think this life is easy?
My dear this life is not easy. It is not a bed of roses.

As it is to man so to woman

And most times women of these age always look at mundane things when choosing men to marry. Then when it starts hitting them, they will start crying.

Look well. There are still a lot of good men out there. Intact there are even more good men than women.

mynairaland2018:
Everything she said actually makes a lot of sense.

A lot of married women would love to do this but are not brave enough.

mynairaland2018:
Everything she said actually makes a lot of sense.

A lot of married women would love to do this but are not brave enough.

mynairaland2018:
Everything she said actually makes a lot of sense.

A lot of married women would love to do this but are not brave enough.

nahzyla:


So you think most women or majority of women are fools that cannot assess their partner before marriage to know whether to have high expectations or not?
You think most women are so daft to be influenced by Walt Disney into expecting a fairy tale happily ever after, you truly believe women are so stupid that they cannot make sensible deductions of what to expect and that's why they go into marriage and become dissapointed and end up being addicted?

Aunty please speak for only yourself and your circle of friends. As for myself and women I am surrounded by we have sense to logically deduce our expectations before and during marriage.

I will maintain my stand that the reason women complain is because of the need to vent and find release from the innumerable pressures they have to face in marital life, not because they are airheads that had foolish dreams of happily ever after. Either that or because the man changed from how he used to be during their dating years.

Look at you talking about how women in 'normal' marriages also complain. How would you know if the marriage is normal or abnormal if you don't live in the same house with the couple?
Or you don't know people pretend to keep up appearance?

obiekunie1:
forming janded and smart all the time while the truth is - she is a gold digger pure and simple!

she was frustrated when the pastor refused dishing enuf cash to her any time she ask - so she felt short changed and tried to ruin the pastor but the smart pastor escaped her snare!

now she married these bro thinking he is made only for her to realize that all that glitters is not gold - frustration sets in and she decided to break the damned marriage and head back to the street to hunt for bigger fish!

she will still be disappointed on that too - cause men are now smarter and her market value don decrease. then she will start to work her way back to the pastor cause he is the only one that has shown her more money than others - then the pastor will finally give us her nude on the internet!


stupid olosho!

obiekunie1:
forming janded and smart all the time while the truth is - she is a gold digger pure and simple!

she was frustrated when the pastor refused dishing enuf cash to her any time she ask - so she felt short changed and tried to ruin the pastor but the smart pastor escaped her snare!

now she married these bro thinking he is made only for her to realize that all that glitters is not gold - frustration sets in and she decided to break the damned marriage and head back to the street to hunt for bigger fish!

she will still be disappointed on that too - cause men are now smarter and her market value don decrease. then she will start to work her way back to the pastor cause he is the only one that has shown her more money than others - then the pastor will finally give us her nude on the internet!



stupid olosho!

EmagNig:
You remember Ese Walter? The lady that was allegedly involved with Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo of COZA church in a sex scandal. The new gist we have is that Ese Walter is separated from husband Benny Ark, whom she got married to less than a year after the scandal in 2013.

In a post she made on her Facebook profile, she wrote of the questions some of her fans asked her via inbox and some wanted to know if she was truly separated from her husband.

She responded in the affirmative and then went ahead to write a note on it.

Read:



https://lailasnews.com/ese-walter-is-separated-from-husband/

nahzyla:


Do yourself a favor too and follow the discussion, we are talking about marriage here, not mankind.

Andrewkinggg:


See your life outside.

The pastor involved said he was going to give a robust response look at you giving a response that isn't robust enough.

I pray your sister, cousin, niece or any of your relative don't get involved in a sexual exploitation, harassment from these sexual predators called PASTORS or from any man.

Do you think this lady will rather have her life, the life of her families, her future, her kids, her marriage, her career on the line for cheap lies and propaganda. If you want to know a lie or a blackmail check the timeline of the story if it changes courses then you know there is a lie in it.

We need to stop victimizing women when it comes to a sexual scandal. Apparently you can as well victimized women who were victims of rapes and sexual exploitation.

Be careful Mr man

Adakintroy:



Ahh...actually everything she said does not make sense.

I will love to be top of my class without attending lecture or study. I will also love to be the richest man in the world without working.

What did she think marriage is soft poetry? For an intellectual person, she is quite daft.why did she Take vows without knowing what the words are for in the first place?.. Words are color crayons intellectual people use to paint beautiful imaginations. They are pretty when intellectual people draw shades with them.

analytical knowledge is killing this world. A lot of people know by just reading. You read a whole book about love..so now you know about love. Without corresponding experience. Nice try!


The only way one can know is by direct contact with that phenomenon. Experience.

This many writeup after just how many years is just throwing the towel. You are tired of marriage. So next time you see your parents. Do as the bible tell you.

Honor them.

Plus note your no Christian yet. Cus Christianity is the highest level of spirituality. Am talking peseverance, faith not only God but in yourself and others. Hope as well. This is how God text many and they faIL yakata. And start more intellectual writeups In defence.

omooba969:


Marriage (as I would refer to it) is one of the various forms of relationships around only that it's given more prominence i.e. setting a date for recognition of such relationship & celebrating same. I would agree that it comes with its own responsibilities & challenges, just as other forms of relationships like friendships, workplace relationships, casual relationships, family relationships, romantic relationships and so on.

I have no problems with marriage but you need to understand that it means different things to different people nowadays. Most people (sorry to say) go into marriage for personal/economic benefits or as a result of societal pressure, of which they lack the virtues & values for sustenance of the marriage.

What more can I say...

omooba969:


Marriage (as I would refer to it) is one of the various forms of relationships around only that it's given more prominence i.e. setting a date for recognition of such relationship & celebrating same. I would agree that it comes with its own responsibilities & challenges, just as other forms of relationships like friendships, workplace relationships, casual relationships, family relationships, romantic relationships and so on.

I have no problems with marriage but you need to understand that it means different things to different people nowadays. Most people (sorry to say) go into marriage for personal/economic benefits or as a result of societal pressure, of which they lack the virtues & values for sustenance of the marriage.

What more can I say...

IamaNigerianGuy:


The only true and irreplaceable advantage of marriage is that it gives kids legitimacy and a stable environment to grow up in. Everything else marriage offers can be gotten outside it.

jadyclem:


You can't get half of what marriage offers outside of marriage. Most of us think that marriage is about sex and having someone to cook for you or pay your bills. Marriage is about life building. You trust someone with your life, dreams, emotions and everything about you and both of you work together to make each other the best both of you can be. Marriage is the only institution that can make your fully responsible to someone and that someone fully responsible to you. Marriage gives you the license to enjoy the best of your partner and your partner the best of you and both of you combine to create a life that both of you would impart your best into. Bro, no other relationship can boast of giving half of the benefits that marriage gives. Marriage was made for the comfort and enjoyment of humans. It's real fun and bliss if you go into it with the right person. Marriage is not overrated in anyway

IamaNigerianGuy:


You must be an avid consumer of romantic novels.

RedAlert08:
Pastor Fatoyinbo: the adulterous pastor.
May God continue to punish you for ruining the life of this young lady.

franzis:
That pastor damaged this woman emotionally and psychologically

RedAlert08:
Pastor Fatoyinbo: the adulterous pastor.
May God continue to punish you for ruining the life of this young lady.

holyfather:

Guy leave that pastor alone, she doesn't know what she wants in life.

dyydxx:


but the pastor scarred her for life. And she still hasn't recovered. God help and heal her from trauma

holyfather:

Did you say "scar"?
I should say the same of the man.
Only he didn't go crying around.

dyydxx:


Dude be realistic for once. We are still waiting for his robust response 6 years later. This man abused her by abusing his authority over her. People like him should be in jail. Sadly the lady is yet to move on.

holyfather:

Abuse?
First he didn't force her,second he doesn't owe you any robust response or explanation whatsoever!
And...he should be in jail for what exactly?
Smh