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Re: Is It Proper For A Christian Couple To Watch Porn Together Before Having Sex? by fishguide(m): 12:35pm On Dec 08, 2018
Gratefulheart01:


Porn can't move a woman the way it does to a man, that's why porn has spoilt the lives of lots of men. It's a pathetic situation. 70% of men today are porn addicts but you wouldn't know. Young boys, clergy men, lonely men, married men, good boys, bad boys, old men are all caught up in the web of porn.

Best thing is to train your kids and loved ones to stay away from porn, never start it, because when you get caught up in it, it's hard to stop.

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Re: Is It Proper For A Christian Couple To Watch Porn Together Before Having Sex? by Nobody: 12:35pm On Dec 08, 2018
Porn is gratifying your flesh and this is what the Bible is against. There is a spirit in those things, and once that spirits takes over your mind and consequently your spirit, such a person is doomed in this world.
So it would be more better to either stay unmarried(in which is the best)or be Married, as Paul had said in 1st Corinthians 7:25-40.
The devil is a liar, this is the reason he has made porn look so appropriate to an ordinary man, that they feel and say, " What the heck! We will all marry one day and we must do this". That's a lie from the Pit of hell !.
Yes some of us would marry, but sex In marriage is simply God's gift for recreation, the only reason he didn't curse it to both Adam and Eve in the garden of Eden, because that was his gift for the oneness of Adam and Eve and God can't curse what he blessed.
So watching porn is simply immoral. God never did affirm it in his word, that " watch your fellow in his immoral duties as he acts it and learn from it"... There's no such thing as that in the Bible. So in all generality, is wrong in the sight of God, in which we live for only Him.
Shalom(peace)
Re: Is It Proper For A Christian Couple To Watch Porn Together Before Having Sex? by omooba969(m): 12:37pm On Dec 08, 2018
Spygadgets19:
A couple that can not watch porn together should not be called a couple.
Porn has been mistaken to be a sin that feeds our lascivious hunger when in reality, it is an instructional sex guide. 

They are sex positions you'd never be taught in a marriage class, your pastor will never even mention them. 
But you need to be armed with such knowledge. Because even in law; ignorance is no defence. 

Couples should be able to watch porn, 
Watch each other masturbate and learn their sexual preferences. 

Sex in itself is a sin; but marriage sanctifies the act.
All sexual depravities and perversions are termed holy as long as they are carried out in the confines of marriage. 

That's why the sin of fornication carries a greater punishment than that of adultery. 
Simply put; if a married man shags another married woman, it is less of a sin. 
But if a single man shags a single woman, their soul is in the risk of hellfire.


*Anonymous*

You're not making any sense at all. undecided
Re: Is It Proper For A Christian Couple To Watch Porn Together Before Having Sex? by Nobody: 12:39pm On Dec 08, 2018
omooba969:


You will be shocked to know that most women equally watch porn & it moves them to do unbelievable things. I have some female friends who watch porn & they even have intimacy gadgets to go with it - helping themselves when konji grabs them unexpectedly.

You'll also be amazed at the number of porn sites they know & visit. grin

Don't be so naive. cool

Yea, girls now watch porn a lot too, and most ladies i know secretly watch porn or hide it on their mobiles. That's still does not change the fact that men will always watch porn more, be addicted to porn more, be ruined by porn more and be moved by porn more than women. All these ladies brain now function by what they see on social media - six packs, dildoos etc. Women mind are easily played upon, they tend to act by what they read online. When they read that some women masturbate with porn, these ladies too tend to do the same. That's just some artificial shiiit.
But since living organism existed and by the biological behavior of each genders. Men are the ones who are more naturally moved by seeing dirty acts or nude pics of women. Women will get in the mood when you touch them the way you should.
All the recent behaviors of all these slay queens have never been the natural way of living organisms. It's just an artificial way their brains are evolving by the influence of social media.
Re: Is It Proper For A Christian Couple To Watch Porn Together Before Having Sex? by Martinez19(m): 12:40pm On Dec 08, 2018
Naughtysite:
don't force people with useless opinions There is God
There is no god.
Re: Is It Proper For A Christian Couple To Watch Porn Together Before Having Sex? by Nobody: 12:41pm On Dec 08, 2018
the time I was living close to a church, my girlfriend used to deny me sex any friday night the church are having night vigil! she will say how will church service be going on across the street and we'd be here banging? to her its a sin!!! very annoying!! the thing vex me ehn!
Re: Is It Proper For A Christian Couple To Watch Porn Together Before Having Sex? by Orestino(m): 12:49pm On Dec 08, 2018
It's proper for 'em to watch porn before having sex since as a Xtain couple, they've probably not tasted Bleep.. so the guy might not know the location of a pvssy or might not even know what to do with his d*ck.. so I feel it's an eye opener


my thoughts though..............
Re: Is It Proper For A Christian Couple To Watch Porn Together Before Having Sex? by Mosco100(m): 12:49pm On Dec 08, 2018
No, it's reporp
Re: Is It Proper For A Christian Couple To Watch Porn Together Before Having Sex? by Nobody: 12:50pm On Dec 08, 2018
luvmijeje:
I am not a religious person. But porn don't move me probably because it's scripted and looks fake to me. So it's better my husband watch on his own and apply it to me.

So what's my point? If God created sex why do I need other people's opinion to achieve maximum satisfaction? Why I do need other people to tell me what's right for me? What's other people's business in my sexual relationship?Are they God? Are they the one that created sex?

If your husband has to watch porn before lashing you, then two things are involved;

1. You don't ”turn him on” anymore. Or
2. He's a porn addict.

It's not a matter of people telling you what's right for you.
Re: Is It Proper For A Christian Couple To Watch Porn Together Before Having Sex? by selfmadeboss: 12:51pm On Dec 08, 2018
who said porn is bad? if hell will will filled with porn stars please let me go there
Re: Is It Proper For A Christian Couple To Watch Porn Together Before Having Sex? by MiddleDimension: 12:59pm On Dec 08, 2018
nkemdi89:
It depends on the type of porn, hardcore porn always appears dehumanizing and fake, but soft core looks more mutually accepted , better still some romantic movies can do the deal.

you say this, because you are a woman
Re: Is It Proper For A Christian Couple To Watch Porn Together Before Having Sex? by BillgatesMaigad(m): 1:01pm On Dec 08, 2018
luvmijeje:
I am not a religious person. But porn don't move me

I am not a porn freek however, I find your comment to be very surprising


Are you seriously serious right now?
I think you have been watching amateur porn clips. Trust me when you watch an HD porn video you will definitely wet your panties. It is like sleeping in the same room at night with your girlfriend and her boyfriend then all of a sudden they start having sex in the middle of the night and then you suddenly wake up hearing her groan and scream out so loud.


Now tell me you will not be moved
Re: Is It Proper For A Christian Couple To Watch Porn Together Before Having Sex? by echodrum(m): 1:11pm On Dec 08, 2018
luvmijeje:


Porn just don't work for me. If he really wants to put me in the mood, he should rub me at the right place. I'm more of a romance person. I just don't see porn as romantic.
I totally agree with you. It doesn't work for everybody. Just like mare rubbing hands do not work for some people. I just want us to agree that sex is mostly a mind job not totally physical. You agree with me that not everyone can rub your body and get you stimulated. Right? Because you are the one who is still doing the job with your mind. So porn is just an Express road to stimulation to so many people. You may have switched off the porn button in your brain. All you have to do is switch it on and enjoy it....lol
Re: Is It Proper For A Christian Couple To Watch Porn Together Before Having Sex? by nkemdi89(f): 1:16pm On Dec 08, 2018
MiddleDimension:


you say this, because you are a woman
Remember its for the couples, not the man watching alone for his own arousals.
Re: Is It Proper For A Christian Couple To Watch Porn Together Before Having Sex? by echodrum(m): 1:16pm On Dec 08, 2018
emrain:


If your husband has to watch porn before lashing you, then two things are involved;

1. You don't ”turn him on” anymore. Or
2. He's a porn addict.

It's not a matter of people telling you what's right for you.
No.. it may not necessarily has anything to do with her. Is all in the man's head. He is simply exploring the sex stimulating part of his brain. No biggy.

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Re: Is It Proper For A Christian Couple To Watch Porn Together Before Having Sex? by nkemdi89(f): 1:17pm On Dec 08, 2018
BIDOO:

Well Done Oo Porn Analyzer, Can I Come And Get A Taste Of Soft Core?
Weldon oga hypocrite! O watch porn and so?
Re: Is It Proper For A Christian Couple To Watch Porn Together Before Having Sex? by Nobody: 1:17pm On Dec 08, 2018
So did they tell you that people in Nairaland were in the CAC church that Sunday?

Oponu! If the question caught your interest that much, what stopped you from putting on your clothes and going into the church for the answer? Maybe that day God would have touched that stony heart of yours and you'd have given your life to him.

This is how people like you ignorantly miss out on life transforming information.
Re: Is It Proper For A Christian Couple To Watch Porn Together Before Having Sex? by MiddleDimension: 1:18pm On Dec 08, 2018
luvmijeje:
I am not a religious person. But porn don't move me probably because it's scripted and looks fake to me. So it's better my husband watch on his own and apply it to me.

So what's my point? If God created sex why do I need other people's opinion to achieve maximum satisfaction? Why I do need other people to tell me what's right for me? What's other people's business in my sexual relationship?Are they God? Are they the one that created sex?

but i am sure M&B, hints, better lovers, knackson and telenovela does it for you and all women. see how you don't get moved by porn, that's how we men don't get moved by those things i mentioned above.

understand this today: PORN IS TO MEN AS SOAP OPERA/ M&B/HINTS/BETTER LOVER/KNACKSON IS TO WOMEN.
Re: Is It Proper For A Christian Couple To Watch Porn Together Before Having Sex? by mrkings84(m): 1:21pm On Dec 08, 2018
TheBlessedMAN:
First of all, let me tell you who I am.

I don't go to church unless its a cross-over night. Thats who I am. You are free to judge me.

Now to the reason behind the questionic title above, (Is it proper for a Christian couple to watch porn together before having sex?), last week sunday, in the morning, I was inside my room having my usual sunday-lic rest in preparation for the new week, when the loud speakers of a C.A.C church adjacent my house started blarring in its typical we-are-doing-sunday-school-service things.

Frustrated and angry at the same time, I grabbed my phone and begin to play game. Suddenly, I heard someone, probably from the congregation, asking the sunday school teacher the question I posted above and that was what caught my interest. I was curious to know what answer the teacher would give.
But unfortunately, I couldn't hear anything again. I guess the teacher had decided to answer the question without using microphone.


So, can someone help me to answer that question? Biblically or Morally. Thanks.




If i were u, i would ve ran to the church immediately to get the answer there...
Truth be told, its only in the church u can get the real answer to this question...
So my advice is, tomorrow go to any church, just repeat the question after the sunday school
Re: Is It Proper For A Christian Couple To Watch Porn Together Before Having Sex? by MiddleDimension: 1:26pm On Dec 08, 2018
Uglymugg:


Which is why home made or Amateur of the best category.
what about this @luvmejeje?
Re: Is It Proper For A Christian Couple To Watch Porn Together Before Having Sex? by Nobody: 1:28pm On Dec 08, 2018
fishguide:


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Alright. The answer to the question depends. That is, it depends on the couples. If they are secular, nominal couples, it's their choice to see if they feel convenient with it or not. But if it's strict religious couple as the question stated, then it's bad. Porn itself is a sin. So, it's sinful watching and enjoying other people sin or committing sin. Then if porn is not even a sin, if it was their own recorded sex tape, it's still seems unethical for decent people to have to watch something before making love. They both already have themselves at that moment to touch or look at or do whatever they want, look at anything you want in a woman/man body in your partner and get to business. If you have to watch porn before you arouse to have sex with your partners indirectly means, she's not able enough to arouse you at the moment.

Then generally for all couples non-religious or religious, porn is bad for couples because the styles, positions and various things they do in porn may not be achievable in real sense or unhygienic or dangerous - ass to mouth, deep throat etc. When you adapt to these things and you're not able to do it in real life, this kills the drive of the couples.
Then the kind of positions and sort of crazy girls, perfect ass, skin, eyes etc you see in porn and how they behave will just raise their expectation and they may not be able to achieve this in real life.
You can browse on different girls in porn, slim, petite, fat but you only gat one wife, she can't be slim, fat ass, petite at the same time, so better not to arouse your expectation and kill the arousal you derive from your wife. Couple should just stick the fck to one another and manage whatever they have.
Then, porn portrays women as sex objects and molestation objects. A wife wouldn't want to be fcked the ways biiitches in porns are fcked. But if the man has gotten his arousal addicted to such, it's a problem. Then the way the girls dress. Will the wife have to be dressing like sluut before couples fck. Or if the wife wants the duration or energy of the men in the porn vids, where as many of these messy porns are shot different times and merged. Some times, they have to clean up before continuing.

Couple or single, best thing is to stay the fck away from porn. It's some orchestrated manipulative highly arousing and brain damaging lies to tie down the lives of people. That's why porn industry is one of the largest in the world. 80% of people who have access to internet are caught in the web of porn.
Re: Is It Proper For A Christian Couple To Watch Porn Together Before Having Sex? by Nobody: 1:32pm On Dec 08, 2018
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Re: Is It Proper For A Christian Couple To Watch Porn Together Before Having Sex? by Tsam96(m): 1:34pm On Dec 08, 2018
TruthinAction:
It is wrong. Those acting porn are stimulating people to live in sin and it is therefore wrong to use their content to arouse your sexual pleasure with your partner. Sex outside marriage is fornication. So Christian couples shouldn't use content from those fornication to arouse their sexual pleasure. There are good books written by Christian authors that can guide married couples in their sex life.

Romans 1:32:.. knowing the judgment of God, that they which commit such things are WORTHY of DEATH, not only do the same, BUT HAVE PLEASURE IN THEM THAT DO THEM.

grin grin grin shocked shocked sad cheesy grin grin
Did I read that right.. please sir/ma can u recommend some??
Re: Is It Proper For A Christian Couple To Watch Porn Together Before Having Sex? by BIDOO(m): 1:51pm On Dec 08, 2018
nkemdi89:
Weldon oga hypocrite! O watch porn and so?
I Love Practical Than Imagination.
Re: Is It Proper For A Christian Couple To Watch Porn Together Before Having Sex? by tomdon(m): 1:59pm On Dec 08, 2018
luvmijeje:
I am not a religious person. But porn don't move me probably because it's scripted and looks fake to me. So it's better my husband watch on his own and apply it to me.

So what's my point? If God created sex why do I need other people's opinion to achieve maximum satisfaction? Why I do need other people to tell me what's right for me? What's other people's business in my sexual relationship?Are they God? Are they the one that created sex?


I like your philosophy about your husband applying it to you. Sounds cool. but detest only your first sentence
Re: Is It Proper For A Christian Couple To Watch Porn Together Before Having Sex? by tomdon(m): 2:03pm On Dec 08, 2018
Sew toto see prick. You still de watch porn for what naa. It makes no sense. Sounds stupid. Simply fuch your wife as best as you can. Simple

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Re: Is It Proper For A Christian Couple To Watch Porn Together Before Having Sex? by oluwasegun007(m): 2:17pm On Dec 08, 2018
I never read in the bible that Adam and eve watched pork....

It's a natural phenomenon.

Once you can't teach a baby how to suck breast,then the rest is history.
Re: Is It Proper For A Christian Couple To Watch Porn Together Before Having Sex? by Rozaytee: 2:19pm On Dec 08, 2018
luvmijeje:
I am not a religious person. But porn don't move me probably because it's scripted and looks fake to me. So it's better my husband watch on his own and apply it to me.

So what's my point? If God created sex why do I need other people's opinion to achieve maximum satisfaction? Why I do need other people to tell me what's right for me? What's other people's business in my sexual relationship?Are they God? Are they the one that created sex?
u better pray u don't have a husband dat watches porn cus once he is addicted to it... Ur marriage will be affected
Re: Is It Proper For A Christian Couple To Watch Porn Together Before Having Sex? by Rozaytee: 2:21pm On Dec 08, 2018
tstx:
Hehe
... As y'all watch porn make una dey careful... According to this study, porn addiction can ruin your brain
very tru very very tru... Watching porn constantly is not healthy for ur mind
Re: Is It Proper For A Christian Couple To Watch Porn Together Before Having Sex? by dollytino4real(f): 2:21pm On Dec 08, 2018
princfred:
Wat! Who teach this girl bad things like this?
n.a. u

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