daveP:
Then take up saving seriously. and spend on what you need really.

ayesco202:
You can't fully learn a language within the space of 1-2 years.

daveP:
Yes you can, we were small and learnt and spoke French in school.


our parents were taught Hausa ,igbo and yoruba and they grabbed all 3 cos of the enthusiasm. Be enthusiastic and 3months with focus, youd be speaking it.


Im currently learning xhosa and zulu and just 3 music groups are actually helping aprat from the books; Soweto Gospel Choir and Sautisol. Very easy and direct!!!

daveP:
10. Know Yourself


Everyone of us have something that just makeus standout wherever we go. It is usually "normal" to us, but it makes us unique. Most times, encouragement isn't forthcoming and these talents, gifts, skills die. Some get cut right down the middle and so it ends.

Be happy that the era where our parents were just after their kids studying 4 courses in the whole 500+ available, is fading fast. Doctor, Engineer, Lawyer, Accountancy/Banker. There's more than these now and it's not everyone that would do all these 4 amongst 60million youths seeking admission. So walk in line and know what makes you tick.


Sometimes, discovering yourself is going to take time.

Just like Adekunle Gold, when graduating from Laspotech didn't know music was going to be what he would be doing 5yrs later.

or

Francisca Ordega, that wanted to just be a ballgirl at any stadium but is now the face of the women's national team, Super Falcons, and is just getting started....


Just don't give up..... Believe, but work hard towards it.

Nice one


God bless us all as we take a new step this new year despite how things are right now, we hope on!


Gracias.
Compiled by me.

Cc

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ShameOnAPC:
Do you have anything you do apart from staying online on nairaland 24/7?
Is Seun Osewa paying you for commenting on every post?
Its clear everything about you is lifeless like your dullard Sudanese that Amachi exposed today

Greatzeus:

~It's obvious Apc and Pmb are your nightmare,in Yoruba land,they call it pointing to your father's house with your left hand(If you don't understand,go ask elders at home, they'll help).
Many are here on Nairaland, doing their business making millions~

daveP:
2: Stop the emphasis on haters

Life is much more than watching what others are going to say about you. But having this deadly height of insecurity that makes you divert energy to haters, recognising them and mentioning them all over social media is just a waste of time. Why? You think the rantings free you up, but you get the wrong motivation moving forward,and then end up doing all trying to prove them wrong.

That isnt life! That's Mental Slavery! Personally i just don't even understand why you give them attention. I don't even act like i gat haters and my head is cool and life is not stressful with that thought. Hop on and see how it feels. Focus energy on better things.

daveP:
3. Read more Books

I have to say that the guys do alot of readings than the girls especially when it's gonna help solve one or two problems that hinders them. So yes this might be more for the ladies, but irrespective, everyone should improve on just reading to expand your knowledge depth.
Alot is hidden in real hard cover books and only 10-15percent of them get to surface all over social media.


Make this interesting and inspire yourself to read at least 5 books a month. And this is far away from any encouragement to read romantic novels.. No!!!!