trapQ:
Shut up your filthy mouth. Cheating is not a crime and no one deserves to die for cheating. Relationships are not by force so if you get cheated on you fvcking live.
It is not by force.

Women are more wicked only in your dreams. Men are responsible for the two world wars which killed over 50m people. All over the world men cause wars, commit genocides and homicides, rape women and kids etc. Receive sense.

tunize:

go and sit down the world is full of wickedness both in male and female frame. not jst men except u mean men(both femala and male).

Isoduwa:


I pray your wife cheat on you

Foodforthought:

I won't argue with you. I didn't expect you to have a diff opinion, you're female I guess. My point is wickedness is not gender specific, a woman who poured hot water on a young house help is wicked. There are many female ritualists, even nurses among them. Women are even wicked to their kind. Anyone can be wicked. Your opinion is yours, I won't argue with you.

frozsen70:
Anger
One stupid habit people must erase out of their life

ChangeIsCostant:
A man from Oluasiri town in Nembe, Bayelsa State, has been apprehended for allegedly shooting his girlfriend to death.

According to Facebook user Igbogi, it was gathered that the suspect claimed his girlfriend cheated on him before he decided to kill her.

It was reported that the man pointed a gun at his girlfriend while interrogating her over the alleged affair with a man she was sighted with - when the gun went off on her, destroyed her face and killed her in the process.

The ugly incident which happened around 11pm last night (Sunday) threw the entire Oluasiri town into mourning.

Report has it that the suspect has been handed over to the Nembe unit of men of the Nigerian Police Force for prosecution.

See more; https://www.nationalhelm.co/2019/04/man-shoots-girlfriend-to-death-over-cheating-allegation-in-bayelsa-state.html

ChangeIsCostant:
A man from Oluasiri town in Nembe, Bayelsa State, has been apprehended for allegedly shooting his girlfriend to death.

According to Facebook user Igbogi, it was gathered that the suspect claimed his girlfriend cheated on him before he decided to kill her.

It was reported that the man pointed a gun at his girlfriend while interrogating her over the alleged affair with a man she was sighted with - when the gun went off on her, destroyed her face and killed her in the process.

The ugly incident which happened around 11pm last night (Sunday) threw the entire Oluasiri town into mourning.

Report has it that the suspect has been handed over to the Nembe unit of men of the Nigerian Police Force for prosecution.

See more; https://www.nationalhelm.co/2019/04/man-shoots-girlfriend-to-death-over-cheating-allegation-in-bayelsa-state.html

futurist369:
olodo it's female and not femala

kingreign:
Your father, brother, husband, boyfriend etc inclusive.
But I am excluded.

BigBashiru:


You are missing the point. Brutality is gender specific. In the police departments of 50 major world cities, the most brutal crimes and violence were in every city 97+% male and 3% or less female.

So toxic masculinity is an issue. And male savagery is an issue. It's not palatable tohear the truth but it's the truth. Males hv very poor conflict resolution skills and resolve conflict like brute savages compared tofemales. Intra female conflict typically does not involve brutality compared to intra male violence that typically results in murder, homicides, brutality. Road rage where ppl get killed for scratching someone else car is in the domain of males. So males are actually inferior to women!!

Mcy56:

You sure you're excluded? This your reply says otherwise.

Mcy56:

Too much jealousy and being over-possesive too.
Majority of men have these and there's the need to watch over it.
They cheat but can't take it from their gf or wife.

BigBashiru:
Pls read my replies on this thread. Wat do u think?

frozen70:
You are absolutely right
The best way is for a woman to be independent of her self
Once her husband starts displaying those their stupid attitudes of
Jealousy
Possessiveness
Control
Display of anger
Manipulation

Just sort yourself out by doing the needful
Such is life

No man should determine a woman's happiness

BigBashiru:


You are missing the point. Brutality is gender specific. In the police departments of 50 major world cities, the most brutal crimes and violence were in every city 97+% male and 3% or less female.

So toxic masculinity is an issue. And male savagery is an issue. It's not palatable tohear the truth but it's the truth. Males hv very poor conflict resolution skills and resolve conflict like brute savages compared tofemales. Intra female conflict typically does not involve brutality compared to intra male violence that typically results in murder, homicides, brutality. Road rage where ppl get killed for scratching someone else car is in the domain of males. So males are actually inferior to women!!

Mcy56:

You're right.
Female independence.
Just to add this: Think there's a misconception about feminism among male folks.
One thing men should understand is that there are various schools of thought on feminism, different factions.
While there are extreme ones (radical feminism), there are also modest and conservative ones.
There's the need to educate themselves on what it is and what it is not before they'll just be shouting feminist upandan.
One thing is this, there's the need to empower girl-child going forward and they should stop all these attacks on women overtly or covertly.

NB: I am not a feminist oooo, before someone'll be quick to tag me..

emkz:
Having had problems with anger in the past myself, I need to contribute to this issue. No one knows exactly how he'd react when these things happen and emotions get raw. Sometimes, you lose control and until you have committed the deed, you wont know what/how it happened. I visited Kirikiri Prisons during my NYSC and more than 50% of the people there had no uniforms because they had not been convicted, but they were remanded for various heinous crimes. Interacting with them, they were educated and well mannered, but a moment of inexplicable madness landed them in jail.

I wont claim to have a recipe for anger management; but PLEASE people, before things escalate, talk to someone, probably a person you respect. Let that someone mediate peace at that moment. That may be your saving grace. It might be hard to just walk away from these situations, especially when one believes being in a relationship gives him exclusive right to the woman's toto.

When I was younger, I fought in justifation of my anger. When I got older, I found out that walking away even in the face of provocation saves a lot. It is hard, yet one must do it. Please people. It is better to be labelled a coward and live your life in peace than live a life of regret because you want to show you are the boss. Let us sensitize our brothers and sisters on this because these stories are upsetting.

I read that someone poured hot water on her husband last night. And an Abuja lady murdered her husband because she suspected he was cheating, as well as the story in Lagos of the woman that stabbed her husband to death because he wanted to will some of his properties to his daughter from a previous marriage. Please let us educate ourselves more and before things escalate, inform the police if you dont want to be directly involved because even peacemakers have been killed. Please people. This is a heartfelt appeal. I dont know what is going on in the world, but it seems Lucifer is getting the upper hand. Let us overcome him...

trapQ:
Would it have been okay if he was married to her?