Six Words You Must Not Say 2 a Male Child
Be a Man And Stop Crying
In some part of the world, it is unusual for a male child to cry. So many parents and young adults feel it is effeminate for a male child to cry. Little did they know that they are destroying their male child.
Crying does not make you a lesser man, Jesus Christ cried when his friend Lazarus died, prophet Mohammed ( peace be unto his name ) just as the Islam's would say, cried when the mother and father died, he also cried when his son Ibrahim died. Gautama, the buddah himself must have cried when they were shaving his head in other for him to leave his home town. Because crying is not a crime in buddahism matter of fact crying is a form of relief from suffering and the main goal of Gautama was to relief people from suffering. These three beings are the founders of the three largest believe in the world, at no time did crying made them an effeminate or affected their leadership qualities.
Here is what your male child develpos at adolecsent when you do not allow him cry when his grieved. He learns how not to show compassion. He develop the mentality of me first. The mentality of alpha male set's in because his mind has been wired to believe that men who cry are weak and seems it is normal for women to cry, they suppress them at every opportunity and develop no regard for women.
Research has found out that these learnt behaviors most times result to inresponsibity of a male child and brings about unruly behaviors.
Research also has identify some benefits of crying. Crying helps to enhance mood, research has it that, sheeding emotional tears releases chemicals like oxytocin and endorphins which help make people feel good, crying helps to improve vision, fight bacteria and lots more.
You may be doing lot's of harm to that child if you ask him to stop crying.
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