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I Am In Depression, Please Advise by platodeen(m): 2:26pm On May 23, 2019
I am moving gradually unto depression, unconsciously.

At over 30, I have no job, wife or children

All job adverts keep asking for, '...below 24' and I am over 30.

All applications and CVs sent through the social media and job sites have only landed me only one interview since 2018 that I have been applying.

Only a very few of my applications were replied even after using, LinkedIn and several other job sites to include NL.

With respect to my job search, please advise base on this facts;

* I studied Accounting (BSc) (2.2)
* I am chartered
* I am above 30
* and unemployed


Motivational insults are acceptable

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Re: I Am In Depression, Please Advise by LOSKYXANDER: 2:33pm On May 23, 2019
Do you have relevant work experience?
Re: I Am In Depression, Please Advise by SageMK: 2:34pm On May 23, 2019
It's never too late to start.
Don't wait for someone to employ you.

I am not advocating that you drop your degree.
But it's time to look for something and start.
If you invest your all, it'll blossom.

Don't be in a hurry to marry and have kids without any financial security because the way you rush in, that's how you'll rush out. Build something first & they'll come.

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Re: I Am In Depression, Please Advise by kunleweb: 2:34pm On May 23, 2019
platodeen:
I am moving gradually unto depression, unconsciously.

At over 30, I have no job, wife or children

All job adverts keep asking for, '...below 24' and I am over 30.

All applications and CVs sent through the social media and job sites have only landed me only one interview since 2018 that I have been applying.

Only a very few of my applications were replied even after using, LinkedIn and several other job sites to include NL.

With respect to my job search, please advise base on this facts;

* I studied Accounting (BSc) (2.2)
* I am chartered
* I am above 30
* and unemployed


Motivational insults are acceptable




I'll followup on you. Keep me posted
Re: I Am In Depression, Please Advise by iTearHerToto: 3:06pm On May 23, 2019
Rewind! Are your ancestors owing anyone

Rewind! Your village people might be displeased. Find out why

Rewind! Have you ever devoured a meal prepared by an old woman in your village that you didn't assist with farm work, or breaking firewoods

Rewind! How was your father's relationship with the elders in the village Find out

And

Try to make appeasement

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Re: I Am In Depression, Please Advise by LuciferQuran: 3:34pm On May 23, 2019
platodeen:
* I studied Accounting (BSc) (2.2)

This is the problem.
Second Class Lower.

You & your likes are doomed.



*spits angry

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Re: I Am In Depression, Please Advise by megaxart(m): 3:37pm On May 23, 2019
iTearHerToto:
Rewind! Are your ancestors owing anyone

Rewind! Your village people might be displeased. Find out why

Rewind! Have you ever devoured a meal prepared by an old woman in your village that you didn't assist with farm work, or breaking firewoods

Rewind! How was your father's relationship with the elders in the village Find out

And

Try to make appeasement

Must you joke with everything? He asked for motivational insults not this

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Re: I Am In Depression, Please Advise by tunde233(m): 3:49pm On May 23, 2019
Never never give up
Trust God
Don't be afraid to start in a little or a humble way
Always remember to thank God for your potentials...

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Re: I Am In Depression, Please Advise by abeyaktech: 3:58pm On May 23, 2019
*DEPRESSION IS REAL*

�� Stop asking singles when are they getting married.

�� Stop asking couples when they are having kids.

�� Stop telling fat people to slim down, Stop telling slim people to eat so that they can get fat, Stop body shaming people, Stop putting pressure on people.

�� You don't have any idea what people are passing through in life.

�� If you don't have any nice thing to say to people, keep quiet, your mouth no go smell.

�� Finally Ladies please stop this competitive life style it's doing more harm than good to your person.

�� Fashion will come and go, Phones are evolving everyday, you can't own all, Be contented with the little you have now.

�� Suicide everywhere,
Talk to someone instead of taking your own life.

�����
*GOD BLESS YOU ALL*
�����

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Re: I Am In Depression, Please Advise by czarina(f): 4:08pm On May 23, 2019
abeyaktech:
*DEPRESSION IS REAL*

�� Stop asking singles when are they getting married.

�� Stop asking couples when they are having kids.

�� Stop telling fat people to slim down, Stop telling slim people to eat so that they can get fat, Stop body shaming people, Stop putting pressure on people.

�� You don't have any idea what people are passing through in life.

�� If you don't have any nice thing to say to people, keep quiet, your mouth no go smell.

�� Finally Ladies please stop this competitive life style it's doing more harm than good to your person.

�� Fashion will come and go, Phones are evolving everyday, you can't own all, Be contented with the little you have now.

�� Suicide everywhere,
Talk to someone instead of taking your own life.

�����
*GOD BLESS YOU ALL*
�����
Nice one. Hope people read this

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Re: I Am In Depression, Please Advise by FunnyDude(m): 4:13pm On May 23, 2019
LuciferQuran:

This is the problem. Second Class Lower.
You & your likes are doomed.


*spits angry
Are you God? With your grade someone that doesn't go to school will be your CEO

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Re: I Am In Depression, Please Advise by iTearHerToto: 4:16pm On May 23, 2019
megaxart:


Must you joke with everything? He asked for motivational insults not this
before you crucify me. Where's your motivational insults

Pukes angry

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Re: I Am In Depression, Please Advise by Martinez39(m): 4:40pm On May 23, 2019
Don't worry, I wish things were better for you but you have to endure. Your rock bottom is your responsibility and you will have to bear it mainly by yourself. Talk to a professional. wink

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Re: I Am In Depression, Please Advise by CAPSLOCKED: 4:43pm On May 23, 2019
LuciferQuran:

This is the problem. Second Class Lower.
You & your likes are doomed.


*spits angry
FOLKS DON'T LISTEN TO THIS CLOWN. YOU'RE ONLY DOOMED IF YOU THINK AND ACCEPT THAT YOU ARE.

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Re: I Am In Depression, Please Advise by Growing(m): 5:14pm On May 23, 2019
Listen to your heart.
Re: I Am In Depression, Please Advise by Donniefred(m): 5:20pm On May 23, 2019
Brother, have you tried learning a skill and consider offering them on freelance sites?

Things you can learn at the comfort of your home:

Web design/Development
Graphics Design
3D deaign (Autodesk Maya, Cinema 4D, Lumion, Unreal Engine etc...
If you are good at writing, you'd give a shot at some freelancing site.

You can learn all these for free!

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Re: I Am In Depression, Please Advise by Yuceeluv(f): 5:24pm On May 23, 2019
My operations manager in firstbank(when I was working) had 2.2 as her grade. She was the boss over a lota 2.1s and firstclasses. So don't talk like that.

LuciferQuran:


This is the problem.
Second Class Lower.

You & your likes are doomed.



*spits angry

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Re: I Am In Depression, Please Advise by Growing(m): 5:26pm On May 23, 2019
LuciferQuran:


This is the problem.
Second Class Lower.

You & your likes are doomed.



*spits angry

This is being insensitive.

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Re: I Am In Depression, Please Advise by zexy2030(m): 5:34pm On May 23, 2019
LuciferQuran:


This is the problem.
Second Class Lower.

You & your likes are doomed.



*spits angry
@luciferquran; guy u r such a bully...ur type will rest in pieces soon.

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Re: I Am In Depression, Please Advise by richhy84: 5:36pm On May 23, 2019
Offer free accounting services to small firm or look for a tutorial centre to OR school to teach accounting for a start. So that you can have some cash

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Re: I Am In Depression, Please Advise by Olamsoh: 5:48pm On May 23, 2019
Please check on your friends & foes��
Cos the way students commits suicide nowadays is like suicide is like taking a bottle of Coke
Then it was a girl from UNICAL, another from KSU & now, a student of UNN
Check on your neighbor, Please ooo
Re: I Am In Depression, Please Advise by jesmond3945: 6:04pm On May 23, 2019
Op I understand how you feel, you have every right to be angry and sad. From your write up, it seems most jobs you applied for were advertised online and of course you know that anything online in Nigeria there is so much politics involved. If it was abroad, you would be given equal opportunity, However all hope is not lost. Why don't you start your masters degree programme, while looking for job. Where is your location? You can attend events well dressed, network and make connections. You can also cold call on offices to submit your cv. Restrategize and put Jesus first, you would definetly make it.

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Re: I Am In Depression, Please Advise by NigPatriot(m): 6:07pm On May 23, 2019
LuciferQuran:


This is the problem.
Second Class Lower.

You & your likes are doomed.



*spits angry

Im suree you have all the attention you desired. I'm certain you don't know what being doomed mean. OP is even in a better situation than you are, cus from how you sound something is eating you deep.

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Re: I Am In Depression, Please Advise by ise82(m): 6:13pm On May 23, 2019
Start from somewhere. Teach in a school; grow and move on. My friend drove maruwa after graduation from unilag for almost a year. He didn’t know anybody there. He walked to the chairman and told them he needed a job. He made money and sponsored his master degree program. Another friend relocated to lag from saggy like 5 years ago without any degree and taught music in a secondary school and played keyboard in a church. He saved up for his OND program at Yaba tech. And later relocated to Canada last year. Guy leave depression change something about your ego. Move with ppl that can change your life.
Cheers!

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Re: I Am In Depression, Please Advise by kaffyadeakeem(f): 6:13pm On May 23, 2019
Is it ACA.?if so you can attach yourself to any audit firm.Are you Abuja if yes you can send your CV to idrisakeem@yahoo.com. in case if there is anything

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Re: I Am In Depression, Please Advise by NigPatriot(m): 6:16pm On May 23, 2019
OP, many are in the same category just as you are. Depression will not solve the issue rather make it worse. I'll advise, you work more on yourself. I'm sure you've heard this several times. But it's the REAL truth. You have to be stern with yourself. Your life can change in a year. When I say change I mean all rounder. But it's all stringed on you.
*Consume yourself with knowledge. (Read, watch)
*Learn a skill; (from YouTube, from training centres.)
*Be positive; you can't keep carrying aa depressed look and expect the right people to come your way.
*Sell yourself where you go. ( Be so good they can't ignore you ). Great salesman know this trick.
*Take some days off, just with yourself, phone off, notepad available, pen. Ask yourself heartfelt questions, and demand answers.
* Stick with all these judisciously with all discipline, and I bet you in 6months, you'll have a different story.

Remember a dream delayed is not a dream denied.

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Re: I Am In Depression, Please Advise by Michelle55: 7:00pm On May 23, 2019
LuciferQuran:


This is the problem.
Second Class Lower.

You & your likes are doomed.



*spits angry
You are very stupid for spewing such trash.. undecided You have no right to write him off. C'mon will you get out of here

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Re: I Am In Depression, Please Advise by sleepking(m): 7:01pm On May 23, 2019
LuciferQuran:

This is the problem. Second Class Lower.
You & your likes are doomed.


*spits angry
grin u never disappoint

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Re: I Am In Depression, Please Advise by Nobody: 7:43pm On May 23, 2019
LuciferQuran:


This is the problem.
Second Class Lower.

You & your likes are doomed.



*spits angry
How is he doomed, please explain. They are so many people in d University above 30 years, that never graduated.
So he is a graduate, that is all dat matters.
And to my OP, try to learn a skill, it will go a long way to help u, don't give up

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Re: I Am In Depression, Please Advise by Arkyval(m): 7:52pm On May 23, 2019
Send your CV to Tailoredcvofficial@gmail.com let help you rebrand your CV

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Re: I Am In Depression, Please Advise by Sirmuel1(m): 8:17pm On May 23, 2019
LuciferQuran:


This is the problem.
Second Class Lower.

You & your likes are doomed.



*spits angry



Lucifer, I think say you get sense before.

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