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Girlfriend Sits While Boyfriend's Mum Sweeps - Nigerians React by unclesoyo: 11:05am On May 29, 2019 |
Twitter is currently buzzing as a story of a Nigerian girlfriend that sat while her boyfriend’s mum swept the room was shared on the platform. A user on the platform Lord Fuad wrote that a man brought home his girlfriend to meet his mother and while he left her in the sitting room, his mother started sweeping but his girl did not assist her. “This guy took his gf to his house. He left her in the parlour, went to the room. His mum was sweeping the floor, got to the girl’s place, she lifted her leg so the mum could sweep underneath.Was she right to do that?” The move obviously was a test for the lady from the boyfriend’s mum, which according to the woman, must have been a bad 1st impression on the side of the girlfriend. Nigerians however share mixed feelings over the issue and they didn’t hesitate to pour out their minds in the comment section. See some comments we were able to gather: A man identifid as Sean Johnson wrote: All these girls can make mouth for Africa. Find the guy that fit your style and if you are helping the mum sweet, it won’t kill your self esteem in anyway. Have learnt on SM that those who say they can do this are actually the ones who do it Melinda however said she would not sweep as well as the test was just a stupid one: All this tests that mothers give girlfriends are stupid. The person that wants to marry me should know if it’s the 1st time I’m meeting the mother & she does this I won’t sweep. I’ll probably fake a call from my mum that I have to take outside and From there to my house Dr. Chiemeziem shared his thought too: She’s a visitor to that house for all I care, visitors deserve to be pampared. Ebere said she would sweep and gave her reason: I’ll take the broom and sweep not bc I’m obligated to but because I just think its courtesy one then because I’m even happy to be visiting and I don’t want to see myself as a visitor more than I should. Whether they’re testing their ancestors or not, mine is to be happy In our culture it means you are not wanted in the home: In my culture if someone starts sweeping, it means they don’t really want you in their house or at the least want you to leave. So I would be insulted, leave and never return. https://lailasnews.com/girlfriend-sits-while-boyfriends-mum-sweeps-nigerians-react/ lalasticlala 3 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Girlfriend Sits While Boyfriend's Mum Sweeps - Nigerians React by Bizmagnet: 11:10am On May 29, 2019 |
What do you expect when we have dis-cultured ourselves and pretend to live alien lifestyles? It is on this part of the world that education has enpowered people to become nuisance to their society. No more courtesy, no more descipline, no more morals. It is well. In need of a website, blog or software today for your business and ideas? Check my signature for contacts and you will get the best and the affordable. 117 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: Girlfriend Sits While Boyfriend's Mum Sweeps - Nigerians React by Preshy561(f): 11:14am On May 29, 2019 |
Haa!! You are a very funny man. She even lifted her legs and you are complaining? I will wait for her to lift my legs for me and then, when she's done sweeping the portion, she should bring it down too. I'm meant to be pampered and petted as I'm gonna be the one to choose if I'm marrying their son or not, and also gonna be the one that's gonna choose if the family is hardworking and compatible enough for my liking. 91 Likes 10 Shares
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Re: Girlfriend Sits While Boyfriend's Mum Sweeps - Nigerians React by habsydiamond(m): 11:16am On May 29, 2019 |
Ladies like that don't last in their husband's house. That kind of girl na house help go dey wash her undies ooo. Awon alapa ma sise Baba ole. 56 Likes 5 Shares
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Re: Girlfriend Sits While Boyfriend's Mum Sweeps - Nigerians React by harkandey(m): 11:25am On May 29, 2019 |
another example of slayqueen 9 Likes |
Re: Girlfriend Sits While Boyfriend's Mum Sweeps - Nigerians React by Nobody: 11:28am On May 29, 2019 |
Why sweep when u have a visitor? 200 Likes 17 Shares |
Re: Girlfriend Sits While Boyfriend's Mum Sweeps - Nigerians React by SageMK: 11:30am On May 29, 2019 |
Well before you start smashing your keyboard about her lacking morals or courtesy, when was the last time you gave up your seat for an elderly person or help that blind man cross the street or carry a pregnant woman's load? To begin with, it only shows lack of courtesy and respect to start sweeping when you've got a guest in your house. So she did the right thing. After all, she was there as a guest, and not for a domestic help interview or anything. 183 Likes 18 Shares |
Re: Girlfriend Sits While Boyfriend's Mum Sweeps - Nigerians React by Nobody: 11:33am On May 29, 2019 |
NwanyiAwkaetiti: 30 Likes 3 Shares
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Re: Girlfriend Sits While Boyfriend's Mum Sweeps - Nigerians React by Bossjakande: 12:19pm On May 29, 2019 |
That girl can Neva be a gud wife. God forbid I married a fool like DAT. she lack home training is like u see ur mum sweeping u sat down. if dey marry her she will Neva wash or cook for mom. am just so angry. later dey go say all men are dogs heartbrake etc. haba. no man from any tribe can marry her cos shes a shame to her parents. her mom did not train her well 19 Likes |
Re: Girlfriend Sits While Boyfriend's Mum Sweeps - Nigerians React by Bossjakande: 12:20pm On May 29, 2019 |
NwanyiAwkaetiti:u go schl. read and see is a test instead of jumping up Abd down. learn from it 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Girlfriend Sits While Boyfriend's Mum Sweeps - Nigerians React by Bossjakande: 12:25pm On May 29, 2019 |
Preshy561:I dont want to insult u cos I care a lot are u baby DAT dey pamper. think before u talk u av mom u av broda did u wish ur bro girl treat ur mom like dis? wat if after marriage ur mom visit and d useless wife didnt cook for her.dont forget u will be a mom too one day.maybe u wish ur son wife to treat u like dis.life aint about today alone. think about 2morrow. u dissapoint me dear. 65 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Girlfriend Sits While Boyfriend's Mum Sweeps - Nigerians React by Nobody: 12:30pm On May 29, 2019 |
@the person above me, i feel so sorry for your future wife As far as i'm concerned, there is nothing wrong in what she did 37 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Girlfriend Sits While Boyfriend's Mum Sweeps - Nigerians React by MrWondah(m): 12:39pm On May 29, 2019 |
Who recorded tthe video? 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Girlfriend Sits While Boyfriend's Mum Sweeps - Nigerians React by Easybela(f): 12:45pm On May 29, 2019 |
all these ladies above and below me,you are entitled to your opinions, but surely, one day you all will become mother in-laws then you will understand better. How dare she sit and watch the elderly woman sweep ,what she did is bad,she lacks respect.one day, she will be a MIL,she will be treated the same way. 53 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Girlfriend Sits While Boyfriend's Mum Sweeps - Nigerians React by joyberry(f): 12:46pm On May 29, 2019 |
Test ko test ni,so if the girl collects the broom,she is a wife material? Based on what her ability to sweep,is that the basics for marriage, All these so called tests sef,i never heard of multi-millionaires doing such, its always the struggling ones.Who even sweeps when guests are around sef?its rude and shows the guests he or she aint wanted, if the girl is a regular at the house ,fine thats different but a first-time visitor haba sef? All these guys on this thread, if u go to your gf house and the father starts to wash his car in ur presence will u join him to wash the car?I don't get the act of degrading or putting some tru certain tests cos he or she wants to marry your child. That why many people pretend tru out courtship to put up with their potential in-laws unnecessary tests, and unleash their true colours in marriage . 107 Likes 13 Shares |
Re: Girlfriend Sits While Boyfriend's Mum Sweeps - Nigerians React by SageMK: 1:04pm On May 29, 2019 |
Easybela: How can you judge her by this simple act? So if she did indeed sweep, that automatically makes her a good and respectful person? You are very myopic. So what do you have to say about people who bash their head or kneel down and pray to God but only to take up arms and kill or rape altar boys? — All I am saying dear is people can pretend or even act holy to earn your trust as long as you are watching but behind your back, they are vile creatures. That lady was just being herself. 54 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Girlfriend Sits While Boyfriend's Mum Sweeps - Nigerians React by budaatum: 1:06pm On May 29, 2019 |
NwanyiAwkaetiti:Daalụ nke ukwuu In my part of the world (likely just in my home, and note, I have Google translate!), you would even be insulting the visitor by slyly informing them they are unwelcome! And if I be man, I will tell my mother off! Funny though. My ma would call her first born son to come and cook amala and ẹfọ riro for the in-laws when they come to ask for her daughters' hands in marriage just so she can say to her future son-in-law and family, "I hope you enjoyed the food that my first born and elder brother of my daughter you want to marry cooked. My daughter is not going to be a slave in your house, so keep your dowry"! She fortunately has 4 daughters, all married. 35 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Girlfriend Sits While Boyfriend's Mum Sweeps - Nigerians React by Nobody: 1:06pm On May 29, 2019 |
Bossjakande:Tasteless 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Girlfriend Sits While Boyfriend's Mum Sweeps - Nigerians React by Nobody: 1:08pm On May 29, 2019 |
budaatum:Great. Such test is silly. An evil lady can decode such silly test and pretend to be the angel until after the wedding. She go then show the mother in law shege 50 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Girlfriend Sits While Boyfriend's Mum Sweeps - Nigerians React by AstroG: 1:09pm On May 29, 2019 |
[color=#006600][/color] joyberry: See them,MIDNIGHT NEWSPAPER SPOTTED 9 Likes |
Re: Girlfriend Sits While Boyfriend's Mum Sweeps - Nigerians React by LordKO(m): 1:17pm On May 29, 2019 |
That's goading at its peak. Well, only a feeble-minded or pretentious lady will submit to her (the man's mother) action and shenanigans. . . no sane person treats a short-term visitor (guest) like a long-term one. She should avoid having anything serious to do with such family of small-minded people. The lady acted conscientiously. 52 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Girlfriend Sits While Boyfriend's Mum Sweeps - Nigerians React by Preshy561(f): 1:19pm On May 29, 2019 |
Bossjakande:Lol. Stop taking most of my post serious and it shall be well with you. 2 Likes |
Re: Girlfriend Sits While Boyfriend's Mum Sweeps - Nigerians React by boiz2men(m): 1:22pm On May 29, 2019 |
I persoanlly dont see anything wrong there if that was her first time visiting. I should be one to take the broom from my mum 15 Likes |
Re: Girlfriend Sits While Boyfriend's Mum Sweeps - Nigerians React by guru03(m): 1:22pm On May 29, 2019 |
I just remember a personal experience, I took my girlfriend to our house while I was cooking she was relaxing in my room and my dad was aware, chain my Dad was mad that day? |
Re: Girlfriend Sits While Boyfriend's Mum Sweeps - Nigerians React by Safiaa(f): 1:22pm On May 29, 2019 |
Nigerians and tradition will kill them. Stupid people. Why can’t the son take the broom from his mother? Is his hand disabled? All these stupid rules and regulations to judge someone’s character, you never jam one babe that will form house-girl just to impress the family, but the heart is black. I just honestly think it’s not that deep, seriously, and it’s not enough to break up with her. 31 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Girlfriend Sits While Boyfriend's Mum Sweeps - Nigerians React by boiz2men(m): 1:25pm On May 29, 2019 |
Easybela: This makes sense.. These ladies turned mothers will not take it..... |
Re: Girlfriend Sits While Boyfriend's Mum Sweeps - Nigerians React by Stephandeswardt: 1:42pm On May 29, 2019 |
Preshy561: Are you an igbo girl? 1 Like |
Re: Girlfriend Sits While Boyfriend's Mum Sweeps - Nigerians React by Preshy561(f): 1:44pm On May 29, 2019 |
Stephandeswardt:No, why do you ask? |
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