Too much effort is spent living your life to please others ...at the great detriment of self.

KanuSE:


1 night stand that will turn to 9month stand for her ehn?

We can see condom or after sex contraceptive if she accepts raw

...And she is who/what exactly

Welcome to the club. U can’t please everybody

bigiyaro:
read the post again!

u need glasses oga. Living her life to please God means what ? Don’t quote me again

Sometimes, I wonder y some ladies can not cover themselves. Must u show ur intimate parts.

Cheers to us living devilish life.

Jestin:
u need glasses oga. Living her life to please God means what ? Don’t quote me again

fvck u! always quick to judge others, she is living her own life to please her God. Did she mention Jesus anywhere? Do you know the God she is taking about? or you think everyone that believes in God also believe in Jesus? metchewww!

Her statement doesn't imply she gave her live to Christ, she's just saying "I'm living my life freely, the way I like it"

Jestin:
Living a life of Christ and you re showing us bombom

bigiyaro:
fvck u! always quick to judge others, she is living her own life to please her God. Did she mention Jesus anywhere? Do you know the God she is taking about? or you think everyone that believes in God also believe in Jesus? metchewww!

..So serving her God means she has to display buest and bombom right ? I said don’t quote me again or u want make i stone you?

[quote author=technuel post=79032142]People who live to please others end up achieving nothing
Believe in yourself be yourself and don't compare yourself with another
You will naturally start excelling [/quote
Most of my life I have lived to please people and seriously its affecting a lot so I can relate

MissRaine69:
Too much effort is spent living your life to please others ...at the great detriment of self.

Just can't get it off..I am people's pleaser and truly it weighs me down. How do u overcome dat

tosinosam:

Just can't get it off..I am people's pleaser and truly it weighs me down. How do u overcome dat

You can say the word no the problem is sticking to that resolve. Ask yourself why you feel the need to be validated= people pleaser . What happens if you feel people are not happy what goes through your head?

MissRaine69:

You can say the word no the problem is sticking to that resolve. Ask yourself why you feel the need to be validated= people pleaser . What happens if you feel people are not happy what goes through your head?

Well it depends on d situation but most tyms I just even at d expense of my own happiness do it..I always thought I could do these or that just to satisfy them..u know

Living her God given life by exposing her body, that's not right.

tosinosam:

Well it depends on d situation but most tyms I just even at d expense of my own happiness do it..I always thought I could do these or that just to satisfy them..u know

Learn self-acceptance. Self-acceptance is an ever-evolving process, and it’s up to each one of us to get that process in motion. Learn to accept your worth

Start navigating anxiety. When we make anxiety-based decisions, we aren’t being true to what we really want. We act impulsively, based on instinct, inevitably causing us to experience more anxiety in our lives.

Realize that avoiding problems doesn’t promote growth. When problems arise in our lives, we tend to react by immediately trying to get rid of them and the feelings they bring. This behaviour fuels your to please. When you avoid dealing with your own anxiety.

Learn to let go. If you’re stuck in the past and can’t let go of things that happened to you, chances are, you’re accepting what those that take advantage of your good nature other negative people in your life believe about you.

Understand the importance of being authentic, We should be able to act authentically and connect with who we are and what we value, instead of always doing what others want.

Realize that doing too much hurts, rather than helps, relationships when you do too much for others, you over-function in your relationships, which inevitably leads others to under-function. Though your intentions were good, they ultimately hinder the overall effectiveness of your relationships.



Become self-aware. The greatest changes begin when we look at ourselves with interest and respect, instead of judgement and denial. When you invite your thoughts and feelings into awareness, you have the opportunity to learn from them, instead of unconsciously reacting to them, and you increase your awareness of reality by being willing to encounter your personal truths. When you did this, it will give you a better handle on your impulse to please and this will allow you to notice when you are not being helpful. It will hopefully give you a choice to make different moves.

Hope this helps

MissRaine69:

Learn self-acceptance. Self-acceptance is an ever-evolving process, and it’s up to each one of us to get that process in motion. Learn to accept your worth

Start navigating anxiety. When we make anxiety-based decisions, we aren’t being true to what we really want. We act impulsively, based on instinct, inevitably causing us to experience more anxiety in our lives.

Realize that avoiding problems doesn’t promote growth. When problems arise in our lives, we tend to react by immediately trying to get rid of them and the feelings they bring. This behaviour fuels your to please. When you avoid dealing with your own anxiety.

Learn to let go. If you’re stuck in the past and can’t let go of things that happened to you, chances are, you’re accepting what those that take advantage of your good nature other negative people in your life believe about you.

Understand the importance of being authentic, We should be able to act authentically and connect with who we are and what we value, instead of always doing what others want.

Realize that doing too much hurts, rather than helps, relationships when you do too much for others, you over-function in your relationships, which inevitably leads others to under-function. Though your intentions were good, they ultimately hinder the overall effectiveness of your relationships.



Become self-aware. The greatest changes begin when we look at ourselves with interest and respect, instead of judgement and denial. When you invite your thoughts and feelings into awareness, you have the opportunity to learn from them, instead of unconsciously reacting to them, and you increase your awareness of reality by being willing to encounter your personal truths. When you did this, it will give you a better handle on your impulse to please and this will allow you to notice when you are not being helpful. It will hopefully give you a choice to make different moves.

Hope this helps

More Dan help dear.. I actually don't talk much since am just an introvert so never got so strong and guided socially.. Thanks so much

Jestin:
Living a life of Christ and you re showing us bombom

Who even introduced us to wearing of cloths did not try at all things where just moving well until they introduced cloths. There is a village next to mine as of 1999 is part of them to go necked but when we the next villagers see them we think is abominable but they don't care courses is their way of life and my own village is not better than them.
While I was a child whenever we go to the stream you will see them stalk necked both their male and female we will all run out of the river saying tufiakwa in our mind we are more holier than they are.
The worst is that up till now our noise making still didn't stop them, we just have all come to know that is their way of life and life has been easier for us otherwise we go just die for person case .
The people offer their wife's to their visitor as a kola. The husband is free to cash fun with other ladies whenever it pleases him so do the wife.
So point is that we should people live their lives the way it pleases them after all nobody knows who is living it right until the day of judgement .

You can say the word no the problem is sticking to that resolve. Ask yourself why you feel the need to be validated= people pleaser . What happens if you feel people are not happy what goes through your head?