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Why Do My Husband Lie So Much? by memes: 3:58am On Oct 02, 2010 |
please someone help me cause I don't know what to do. I have notice that my husband lie even with little things that is not suppose to lie to. He believe that marriage cannot work without lies and he always tell me about this his friend that lie so much. please tell me what to do about it because am hurting.If I tell him that he just lie to me he gets very angry that can even lead to a fight.please I need your help. |
Re: Why Do My Husband Lie So Much? by Osama10(m): 4:36am On Oct 02, 2010 |
what are the lies about? |
Re: Why Do My Husband Lie So Much? by okeymadu(m): 7:48am On Oct 02, 2010 |
@OP. Well if the lies aren't meart to cover cheating it is better. However, in the case that he cheats it is a more serious issue. I suggest you tell his relation that he respect and have that person to talk to him. Since you both are married, you must keep working on the marriage to make it work. Are you a christian? Get him to attend fellowships and go on your knees. Prayers work wonders. |
Re: Why Do My Husband Lie So Much? by no1madman(m): 8:01am On Oct 02, 2010 |
Wrong man!How did u end up with such a man. .u r in trouble. His self-esteem must be very low. .such people r often depressed. He must be himself. .he really needs help. |
Re: Why Do My Husband Lie So Much? by ifyalways(f): 9:26am On Oct 02, 2010 |
memes:Did he start lying now or he has always been like this even b4 u married him? |
Re: Why Do My Husband Lie So Much? by InkedNerd(f): 9:38am On Oct 02, 2010 |
ifyalways: lol, he probably lied before and she just didn't know it |
Re: Why Do My Husband Lie So Much? by ifyalways(f): 9:48am On Oct 02, 2010 |
Inked_Nerd:lol If jes a chronic liar and has been lying b4 marriage and she saw it all along i guess shes left with 3 options: She start lying too. She pray,encourage and hope he changes. She just ignore his lies. BTwn,I know some ppl hate hearing the truth hence giving ppl close to them reasons to lie to them.Im not making excuses for the man though but i hope the OP checks herself and see if she gave the man reasons to lie to her. |
Re: Why Do My Husband Lie So Much? by zeal500: 9:52am On Oct 02, 2010 |
lie in anyway is nt gd. If he just developed dis trait then smth must b cooking but where its been there then during ur courtshp u either didnt notice it or he simply told u all those tins u which mit b thins dt move u. Involving others(3rd) is nt d best, Cook his best food, serve him d best sex n when his mood is gd try discussing it wt her, Nb:if he starts telling u pure unadultrated truth u shd b ready to take it, be it bomb shell etc, just take it wt gd faith |
Re: Why Do My Husband Lie So Much? by geoger: 1:08pm On Oct 02, 2010 |
Thanks for your advises, really I don't if he has been lying to me how could I know, but recently I found that he is indeed lying to to me, last night we were watching a television show, SO YOU THINK YOU CAN DANCE on( MBC 4) a man was dancing so I went inside the kitchen, so when I came out he has finished dancing so I ask my husband if they gave the man ticket to Vegas? he said no but at the end of the show they mentioned the man's name as one of the people that is going to Vegas, before that I ask him if he drank tea before going to bed he said no but he did,after we finished our dinner i went bed I sleep very early because am pregnant, we have been married for 5 years now and we have two children, when I was sleeping our baby girl came in with a cup on her hand so I taught it was water but when I woke up in the mid night i found out it was tea, so i ask him if he drank tea he said no.I don't know why he said know I have never fought him when he eat.He make all the money in the house he buys everything in the house but why is he acting this way? lying for a little thing. we write what the family should be doing every day he remove the ones I wrote, but the one he write about praying everyday he find it so difficult to do, I will ask him up to 6 times to come and pray sometimes he pray or he will not.I am trying to work on my marriage and I want us to do it together but my husband don't listen to me.rather he will fight with me.We have been fighting for years trying to know each other the more but for some months now we I have been much happier then ever, except last night when I found out he lied to me twice at the same time who know how long he has been lying to me or is he just forming a new bad habit? |
Re: Why Do My Husband Lie So Much? by memes: 1:18pm On Oct 02, 2010 |
geoger: |
Re: Why Do My Husband Lie So Much? by ZIMDRILL(m): 1:20pm On Oct 02, 2010 |
geoger: if you have been fighting for years how did you manage to stop fighting have sex resulting in you getting pregnant from the way you have narrated your issues it seems like you are the nagging one you ask silly question and you look for a fight in those silly question you end making a big story |
Re: Why Do My Husband Lie So Much? by AloyEmeka5: 6:16pm On Oct 02, 2010 |
@OP, Try "why does my husband lie too much?" next time. |
Re: Why Do My Husband Lie So Much? by Nobody: 8:44pm On Oct 02, 2010 |
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Re: Why Do My Husband Lie So Much? by Nobody: 9:24pm On Oct 02, 2010 |
i can imagine the situation. . . . . . . the husband is so fed up of this nagging babe asking all types of "akward" questions under the moon that he has decided to stop answering them truthfully hoping that she will finally understand and stop. these are not lies, they are sarcastic answers! |
Re: Why Do My Husband Lie So Much? by Romeo4real(m): 9:53pm On Oct 02, 2010 |
@Aloy - @OP, Try "why does my husband lie too much?" next time.I believe that's an unfair comment. Having an excellent grasp of grammar is not a necessary prerequisite to posting on NL. As long as the poster can make herself understood (which she has), then i believe that's fine. |
Re: Why Do My Husband Lie So Much? by Nobody: 10:03pm On Oct 02, 2010 |
^^^^^ is correcting someone who made a grammatical error wrong or unfair?! Aloy just pointed to the poster how she should have written it properly so that next time she wont make that mistake again. |
Re: Why Do My Husband Lie So Much? by Busybody2(f): 10:08pm On Oct 02, 2010 |
ZIM DRILL: MRbrownJAY: Guys, please exercise caution before posting, i have gone through the OP's previous post, she married and had her first baby real young, around age 19, she has 2 children under the age of 5 and is pregnant with the third on the way. She has battled and won postnatal depression, she is just 25 years old, her Hubby has a history of domestic violence with her often beating her, he has ludicrously blamed her for being a short person . . . |
Re: Why Do My Husband Lie So Much? by InkedNerd(f): 10:21pm On Oct 02, 2010 |
Busy_body: Oh my . Poor woman |
Re: Why Do My Husband Lie So Much? by Nobody: 10:47pm On Oct 02, 2010 |
i dont see where she wrote that her husband ever beat her, if anything sounds like she scares the man shitless, who lies about drinking tea for chrissakes and the show on TV, gaddem |
Re: Why Do My Husband Lie So Much? by Busybody2(f): 10:54pm On Oct 02, 2010 |
BoboYekini: See below, she only has 9 posts, so whats your excuse And what is with the gloating memes: |
Re: Why Do My Husband Lie So Much? by Nobody: 11:07pm On Oct 02, 2010 |
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Re: Why Do My Husband Lie So Much? by Nobody: 11:37pm On Oct 02, 2010 |
Busy_body:ok, ok , sheesh , forgive if i cant go through your posts too. |
Re: Why Do My Husband Lie So Much? by Nobody: 11:38pm On Oct 02, 2010 |
Busy_body: i am sorry to say that we CANT go inside everyones profile and check their every single posts in order to reply (she had only a few, what about those who have thousands?!). if the poster didnt see fit to dwell more on the abusive relationship she is in, then so be it. as i rightly said, her partner's answer are sarcastic ones and i didnt have to go through her posts to figure that out! BTW: is the poster MEMES or GEOGER?! whats next, shouldnt we figure out who is who and check all the hundreds of potential profiles that the poster MAY have?! lol! |
Re: Why Do My Husband Lie So Much? by Busybody2(f): 12:08am On Oct 03, 2010 |
BoboYekini: MRbrownJAY: What is the big deal about me beseeching you to temper mercy with justice And please quit the snotty smartypant with the smartyarse lame replies, its seriously unbecoming Y'all don't need to go through people's post before exercising that thing called "tact" and "diplomacy" abegi So Mrbrownjay, since you managed to not only decode from your crystal ball that her hubby was being sarcastic because she was a nag, pray tell, did he beat her, bring her down, belittle her, etc because she was a nag too Answers on a postcard please Apologies to Zim Drill for quoting and responding to his/her post, at least he/she actually diplomatically stated that he/she was responding based Memes post, instead of these two gloating about someone's misfortune |
Re: Why Do My Husband Lie So Much? by Nobody: 12:17am On Oct 03, 2010 |
yeah, i'm gloating, cos gloating is more fun sue me |
Re: Why Do My Husband Lie So Much? by Nobody: 12:18am On Oct 03, 2010 |
^^^^^^ the poster asked why her husband lies to her and she got her answer from different people on here. no need to try to talk about something that she CLEARLY doesnt wish to talk about. STAY ON THE BLOODY SUBJECT!!!! if you spent more time replying the poster rather than snooping around trying to look for "whatever" then this thread would be a few post shorter. |
Re: Why Do My Husband Lie So Much? by Dsense(m): 12:19am On Oct 03, 2010 |
He lies so much simply bcoz he loves u so much |
Re: Why Do My Husband Lie So Much? by InkedNerd(f): 12:41am On Oct 03, 2010 |
D-sense my dear, what kind of answer was that? Smh. |
Re: Why Do My Husband Lie So Much? by Dsense(m): 12:49am On Oct 03, 2010 |
Dear it's d truth i just yarn , Serious. U know ''some'' ladies will never be pleased until u frame them .So i think d lady here is just one of dem. |
Re: Why Do My Husband Lie So Much? by InkedNerd(f): 1:26am On Oct 03, 2010 |
D-sense: Ok o, whatever you say |
Re: Why Do My Husband Lie So Much? by Dsense(m): 1:30am On Oct 03, 2010 |
Abi now ,Since ppl have decided not to share something reasonable to comment on here,So everything is just boring. |
Re: Why Do My Husband Lie So Much? by Busybody2(f): 1:48am On Oct 03, 2010 |
BoboYekini: Agbaya buruku, arindin oshi, of course, don't let me stop your fun, carry go, were dun wo loja afterall MRbrownJAY: Where did you see her CLEARLY protesting she does not want to discuss this, because her pictures are accompanying all her posts and the whole world can see her identity, as you are now ALLEDGING SOMEONE IS CLEARLY GRASPING AT STRAWS HERE Yeah and it is because she is a nag, is the apt answer. Mrbrownjay the wise sage, has spoken, end of thread, case closed, THANK GOD MEMES CAN NOW SLEEP SOUNDLY KNOWING IT WAS HER NAGGING THAT DROVE HER DEAREST HUSBAND TO HIS LYING AND OTHER UNPALATABLE SHENANIGANS MRbrownJAY: Or what schmuck, why not go burst a vein if i go off-topic then Besides i am still discussing matters relating to the OP so quit being a dumbo Feel free to use the report to Moderators button too, will ya MRbrownJAY: Lol, are we now monitoring the length of threads now The height of stupidity Dunno how you can offer your two cents on any serious issue without weighing all the outcome or "whatever" as you called it, without your input coming across as utter tosh Someone posts saying she is pregnant and is hurting because her husband is a chronic liar and that he fights her when she queries him, and your perfect response is "she should quit nagging or continue taking the beatdown she deserves" Brilliant, why not clap for yourself and give yourself a pat on the back too |
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