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An Open Marriage by chelsea4su(f): 11:08am On Oct 12, 2010 |
hi nairaland my younger sister called yesterday and told me that his husband said they should start an open marriage,she later ask him why he wanted them to start ,and that she hasn,t done anything wrong ,but the guy said she shouldn,t worry that she still love her ,so he made examples of those who have started it ,and still love themselves like will smith & jada etc. she a bit confuse pls Nairaland help her out |
Re: An Open Marriage by sms4health: 12:43pm On Oct 12, 2010 |
An open marriage in that they sleep with other people right? Then that's not marriage which is a scared union but something else. For me I think the husband is being greedy and wants to"legitimize" his escapades in his wife's eyes. Nobody changes after marriage, he has always been like that and she married him. She now has to make a decision on how best to live with it. Or not. |
Re: An Open Marriage by InkedNerd(f): 3:21pm On Oct 12, 2010 |
Hmmm, if both individuals are comfortable with it then they should go for it. For some people it works for others, it doesn't. If they're going to do through with it then I suggest they do extensive research on open marriage relationships before they jump into anything. And FYI, the husband shouldn't try to force her into doing something she [your sister] doesn't wanna do. |
Re: An Open Marriage by no1madman(m): 3:55pm On Oct 12, 2010 |
Tufiakwa!i don't share my toto. |
Re: An Open Marriage by johndoe200: 4:20pm On Oct 12, 2010 |
chelsea4su: Are they in Nigeria? Is her husband white? If they are here in naija then the guy just wants space. Considering your post above, if your sister speaks like you I would not blame him. 1 Like |
Re: An Open Marriage by Nobody: 7:27pm On Oct 12, 2010 |
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Re: An Open Marriage by manmustwac(m): 7:33am On Oct 13, 2010 |
^^^na lie he just wants to have his cake and eat it. Many guys are cheating on thier wives and girlfriends when it would be better to at least be honest & ask for an open relationship. |
Re: An Open Marriage by Sissy3(f): 8:02am On Oct 13, 2010 |
open marriage =tufikwa+ annulment its kind of sad that he would suggest such because even if she doesnt agree the dude might even see it as reason enough to cheat or even start cheating |
Re: An Open Marriage by chelsea4su(f): 12:02pm On Oct 13, 2010 |
johndoe200: They are in Nija both are yorubas. |
Re: An Open Marriage by luap: 10:25pm On Oct 13, 2010 |
One word: incompatibility. Plan for divorce, |
Re: An Open Marriage by ijcurt(f): 5:12pm On Oct 14, 2010 |
chelsea4su:wonders shall never END!!! . no1madman: |
Re: An Open Marriage by Wumine(f): 12:51am On Oct 15, 2010 |
Am short of words!!! |
Re: An Open Marriage by Nobody: 10:05am On Oct 15, 2010 |
It's I'm short for words. |
Re: An Open Marriage by DaDewdropsNVS: 4:13pm On Jan 28, 2013 |
2-hour . . . .Romantic helicopter tour of Miami city for 2. |
Re: An Open Marriage by AlmondDeJoy: 4:21pm On Jan 28, 2013 |
Valentine's day is coming up. I am not gonna spend it with the husband for sure. I now know why NIGERIAN married men NEVER travel with their wives and children for ANY vacation! BORRRRRRRRRRRRRRING SHYTE! Thanks to OPEN MARRIAGES! I am going away with my boyfriend. . .while the husband spends time with his girlfriend! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JnZT19OeFvA https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0Ep3Y2tv4eo DESTINATION: THE HILTON-BENTLEY MIAMI. . .SOUTH BEACH, FLORIDA!!! FOR A WHOOOOOOOOOOOOOOLE WEEK!!! |
Re: An Open Marriage by ifyalways(f): 5:02pm On Jan 28, 2013 |
Inn-res-ting Never thought about it but i know a happy couple in an open marriage I dont have that type of emotional strength cos it takes alot of strength and maturity to live that way,happily.Its not even an Option for me.All or nothing here |
Re: An Open Marriage by AlmondDeJoy: 5:18pm On Jan 28, 2013 |
Yup! It takes SHEER GUTS! Not for 'I go cherish and hold' kinda peeps! When your husband becomes your brother. . .it is time for an 'OPEN MARRIAGE'! We can re-connect in 'old age'! Some of us live in a man's world of course. . . but we act more MANLY than MOST MEN! Blokos wey I don chop for over 10 years. . . wetin I dey struggle with for dia ah-gheyn? Mtcheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeew. . . Not my portion! Ah-miiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiin o! |
Re: An Open Marriage by Sinachee: 10:18pm On Feb 02, 2013 |
Thinking of my 'MAIMI DUCK CRUISE' COMING UP! The joys of H-Opin marriages are numerous and joyous! |
Re: An Open Marriage by Sinachee: 10:19pm On Feb 02, 2013 |
Almond De Joy: Valentine's day is coming up. Beautiful. . . . H-ALL EXPENSES PAID!!! |
Re: An Open Marriage by Sinachee: 10:29pm On Feb 02, 2013 |
NOTHING LIKE EXPERIENCING A ROMANTIC GETAWAY IN A NICE HOTEL ROOM. I LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOVE THIS PLACE!!!!! |
Re: An Open Marriage by Jellitah: 8:29am On Feb 03, 2013 |
FORGOT TO H-ADD THE MIAMI DUCK TOUR FOR MY OPEN MARRIAGE GET AWAY FOR VALENTINE'S WEEK! This my new married hunk ehn? His pocket is bottomless. . .Too bad, I can't marry him. Never say never. It took 25 years of his persistence to get me to his bed. . . NEVER SAY NEVER. . . as the saying goes. Make we dey look! I am loving it so far!!!! My brothers are mortified!!!! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GIsJW7eO_vo |
Re: An Open Marriage by Jellitah: 8:45am On Feb 03, 2013 |
Don't ask me why I am booking a 'romantic air tour' over Miami with a Nigerian dude who is almost 60! I just hope he does not shyte all over the damn 'copter! Naaaaaaaaaaaaah. . . the way he moves on the bed. . . NOT A CHANCE! Too physically-fit and agile for such an occurence. PRICE TAG. . . .$400 |
Re: An Open Marriage by Jellitah: 8:52am On Feb 03, 2013 |
"OPEN" Married life is sweeeeeeeeeeeet I tellya! This is the time I live my life without HUSBAND AND CHILDREN WAHALA. I dey h-enjoy my life gaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaan!!!!! |
Re: An Open Marriage by Nobody: 8:53am On Feb 03, 2013 |
An open mariage is adultery,simple! I am sure your sister did not sign up for that and in my opinion she should not accept that idea because it always ends in destruction, believe it or not! !. |
Re: An Open Marriage by Nobody: 8:55am On Feb 03, 2013 |
Jellitah: "OPEN" Married life is sweeeeeeeeeeeet I tellya! Is your boyfriend married? |
Re: An Open Marriage by Jellitah: 8:55am On Feb 03, 2013 |
Dear OP. . . I am a perfect example of a very HAPPY OPEN MARRIAGE. . . . E badu belle and e jolosi. . .NOR QUENCH O! Tell her to trust him. . . he knows what he is doing. These are my rules. . .and they are working fine!!! To have a successfully open marriage, YOU NEED TO THINK LIKE A MAN AND ACT LIKE A MAN. . . don't let STEVE HARVEY fool ya. DO NOT ACT LIKE A LADY! I stated it here: https://www.nairaland.com/1181754/what-manner-husband Jellitah: |
Re: An Open Marriage by Jellitah: 9:07am On Feb 03, 2013 |
She may find it hard to reason with him. . .but she needs to listen. chelsea4su: hi nairaland my younger sister called yesterday and told me that his husband said they should start an open marriage,she later ask him why he wanted them to start ,[size=20pt]and that she hasn,t done anything wrong[/size] ,but the guy said [size=20pt]she shouldn,t worry that she still love her ,so he made examples of those who have started it ,and still love themselves like will smith & jada[/size] etc. she a bit confuse pls Nairaland help her out No, she hasn't done anything wrong and needs to quit being insecure. Marriage is one of the MOST BORING EMOTIONAL AND MENTAL INSTITUTES created by MAN AND WOMAN. . . . If you do NOT find means of coping. . .YOU WILL RUN MAAAAAAAAAAAAAAD!!! Do not be fooled by novices and 'SINGLES' typing hia and dia about what their JESUS OF NAZARETH NEVER EXPERIENCED OR COULD NOT ACCOMPLISH . . . .IN LIFE OR IN DEATH! 1 Like |
Re: An Open Marriage by Jellitah: 9:18am On Feb 03, 2013 |
Arrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrgh. . . .THE BOYFRIEND CALLETH! Nothing do discuss with the HUSBAND. . . .ONLY FILING TAXES AND WHAT WE GONNA DO WITH THE 'RETURNS'! Thank my H-AGNOSTIC GAAAAAAAAAAD I only worked ONE JOB LAST YEAR. . . and I still reached 6 figures! No more 2 jobs. Obama will need to find another way to make his money to feed all the 'baby mommas' and 'unproductive illegal ALIENS' in this my great USA. Ahem! OP. . . you dey for dia? |
Re: An Open Marriage by Jellitah: 9:22am On Feb 03, 2013 |
NnekaGirl: Yes he is. . .he has 7 children from 4 different women. A STAUNCH CATHOLIC WHO FREQUENTLY VISITS BABALAWOS TOO! HE IS AN AFRICAN MAN. . .A NIGERIAN MAN. . . So, what do you expect? Any further questions? |
Re: An Open Marriage by Jellitah: 9:33am On Feb 03, 2013 |
As I was saying OP. . . Marriage is what you make out of it. . . and there must BE A MEETING OF THE MINDS. Valentine's season is up again. Some choose to spend it with their spouses. . .others like moi. . . HELL NO! It has nothing to do with love or committment. . . I could think of a million other places I could possible be. . .just like he thinks. . . BUT WE TALK EVERY BLESSED DAY AND WE STILL HAVE GREAAAAAAAAAAAT SEX ONLY ONCE IN A BLUE MOON WITH LOTS OF ALCOHOL, when ever we PHOCK! So here is how I plan to spend my VALENTINE'S WEEK. . . Having fun. . . with the BOYFRIEND INSTEAD! |
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