harakiri:

@Topic

This is why i am focused on not only being extremely wealthy but also to live my life to the fullest before considering that over glorified bondage called marriage.

@Poster

The way and manner you asked the question shows you are completely biased and one sided about this issue (not the kind of character i'd expect a man to exhibit). Perhaps you should have asked the woman the real reason why he wants to leave her. It's always easy for a woman to say "we suffered together and now that he is rich, he wants to leave me". She will NEVER tell you of the sleepless nights she gave him with endless nagging all because she wants one trifle or the other.She will NEVER tell you how she used to call him "incompetent failure" and "not man enough" during his trying years.She will NEVER tell you of the lengthy periods of time she denied him sExXx all because she wants to manipulate him into doing one useless thing or the other. She will NEVER tell you about the time when their marriage nearly crashed all because she had started flirting with men,having "male friends" and the husband somehow got to know but didn't over react on the issue.

One thing you need to realize (especially as a man) is that things like these just don't "happen" the way you presented it. This is an issue that has been building and budding over a long period of time.How are you sure the man hasn't been enduring all kinds of crap from the woman over the years? I'm pretty sure your myopic mind didn't bother to see opposite sides of the coin. Women bring up all kinds of crap after marriage. The "babe" you met years ago turns into the "evil witch" over the years. Mind you, if this woman was in the one in position of money, she would have dumped the man long ago.Women have this in-built "greener pasture complex" that they have no control over.They are forever doomed to chase after the best guy,the best house,the best car,the best boyfriend,the best husband,the best wedding gown, the best,the best, the best (It's all about them, them, them and them only). Are you so myopically blind that you don't see how women treat their men when they have more money? Any little thing, they'll remind you how they "delivered" you from the gutter and how they sponsored the wedding and how they did this and that to improve your life (always in your face).

Nuff said!

harakiri:

@Topic

This is why i am focused on not only being extremely wealthy but also to live my life to the fullest before considering that over glorified bondage called marriage.

@Poster

The way and manner you asked the question shows you are completely biased and one sided about this issue (not the kind of character i'd expect a man to exhibit). Perhaps you should have asked the woman the real reason why he wants to leave her. It's always easy for a woman to say "we suffered together and now that he is rich, he wants to leave me". She will NEVER tell you of the sleepless nights she gave him with endless nagging all because she wants one trifle or the other.She will NEVER tell you how she used to call him "incompetent failure" and "not man enough" during his trying years.She will NEVER tell you of the lengthy periods of time she denied him sExXx all because she wants to manipulate him into doing one useless thing or the other. She will NEVER tell you about the time when their marriage nearly crashed all because she had started flirting with men,having "male friends" and the husband somehow got to know but didn't over react on the issue.

One thing you need to realize (especially as a man) is that things like these just don't "happen" the way you presented it. This is an issue that has been building and budding over a long period of time.How are you sure the man hasn't been enduring all kinds of crap from the woman over the years? I'm pretty sure your myopic mind didn't bother to see opposite sides of the coin. Women bring up all kinds of crap after marriage. The "babe" you met years ago turns into the "evil witch" over the years. Mind you, if this woman was in the one in position of money, she would have dumped the man long ago.Women have this in-built "greener pasture complex" that they have no control over.They are forever doomed to chase after the best guy,the best house,the best car,the best boyfriend,the best husband,the best wedding gown, the best,the best, the best (It's all about them, them, them and them only). Are you so myopically blind that you don't see how women treat their men when they have more money? Any little thing, they'll remind you how they "delivered" you from the gutter and how they sponsored the wedding and how they did this and that to improve your life (always in your face).

Nuff said!

~duchess~:

And what if the wife had been the faithful and supporting type?

Plutarch:

@duchess,
Ideally a wife must b faithful n supportive. I am never an advocate of a man dropping his wife as a result of newly found fame or wealth. However, i fink a man should get it right from day one,his future plan/ambition should b taken care of when choosing a wife
Personally, i will never marry a woman who is not a univ graduate,good looking n wiv a respectable personality.

Good to know you already know what you want in a woman. Some men go into marriage blinded by love, lust or infatuation and begin to complain

when these emotions have kinda faded off when reality and real life expectations set in. That is when all those attitudes they used to loff so much

become a problem!

omo~fat:

Then God will punish the man for such a wicked and callous attitude.

But if the woman was as described by Harakiri, then she deserves all she got and more

~duchess~:

But while waiting for God`s punishment on such a fellow, what is the woman supposed to be doing?

omo~fat:

"Eat, Pray, Love".

"Love, Live, Laugh".

She will continue to live her life in the best way possible - whatever that means to her.

~duchess~:

And what if the wife had been the faithful and supporting type?

tEsLim:

I have a friend who is just waiting to be ok and then leave is troublesome wife that have nick-named him mugu. He's just staying in the marriage pending when things will be fine.  I'll be glad when he leaves her too. She insults him even when his friends are around. Obviously because he's broke.

~duchess~:

But while waiting for God`s punishment on such a fellow, what is the woman supposed to be doing?

omo~fat:

There is an old african saying that goes "the things you cannot accept when you are rich, you should start rejecting them while you are still poor". Your friend is still doing e go better, e go better? poor man prayer. What will he do if he never quite becomes rich?

harakiri:

@Topic

This is why i am focused on not only being extremely wealthy but also to live my life to the fullest before considering that over glorified bondage called marriage.

@Poster

The way and manner you asked the question shows you are completely biased and one sided about this issue (not the kind of character i'd expect a man to exhibit). Perhaps you should have asked the woman the real reason why he wants to leave her. It's always easy for a woman to say "we suffered together and now that he is rich, he wants to leave me". She will NEVER tell you of the sleepless nights she gave him with endless nagging all because she wants one trifle or the other.She will NEVER tell you how she used to call him "incompetent failure" and "not man enough" during his trying years.She will NEVER tell you of the lengthy periods of time she denied him sExXx all because she wants to manipulate him into doing one useless thing or the other. She will NEVER tell you about the time when their marriage nearly crashed all because she had started flirting with men,having "male friends" and the husband somehow got to know but didn't over react on the issue.

One thing you need to realize (especially as a man) is that things like these just don't "happen" the way you presented it. This is an issue that has been building and budding over a long period of time.How are you sure the man hasn't been enduring all kinds of crap from the woman over the years? I'm pretty sure your myopic mind didn't bother to see opposite sides of the coin. Women bring up all kinds of crap after marriage. The "babe" you met years ago turns into the "evil witch" over the years. Mind you, if this woman was in the one in position of money, she would have dumped the man long ago.Women have this in-built "greener pasture complex" that they have no control over.They are forever doomed to chase after the best guy,the best house,the best car,the best boyfriend,the best husband,the best wedding gown, the best,the best, the best (It's all about them, them, them and them only). Are you so myopically blind that you don't see how women treat their men when they have more money? Any little thing, they'll remind you how they "delivered" you from the gutter and how they sponsored the wedding and how they did this and that to improve your life (always in your face).

Nuff said!