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Re: People Who Dont Show Their Anger More Dangerous Than Those Who Do, True/False? by Nobody: 10:58pm On Sep 24, 2019
pocohantas:


I am actually cold, very cold. Just don't give me a reason to get to that point. If I say stop something, by all means - stop it. Don't keep doing things and when I react, you act like I am petty. Don't try to turn me into an emotional wreck- I will set the gadamn relationship on fire and walk away...

Why do they do that shii? Annoy you and try to make it seem like you are just being you- a WOMAN. Gosh! grin
I feel they all read the same book, or we would have to ask them. grin Imagine someone giving you reasons to assume and will later tell you your assumptions are too much. Like he doesn't know his actions and inaction are the reasons you draw up assumptions. At times I am like, am I mad? Too much headaches and worries over one relationship.
Re: People Who Dont Show Their Anger More Dangerous Than Those Who Do, True/False? by tayooluwole: 11:04pm On Sep 24, 2019
Offpoint:
Yeah, I'm that kinda person.

Rarely get angry, but once I do I hate myself.

Once threw a married woman down a 2 storey building and beat up the husband.

What really happened?

lived in a 3 storey building then, this Monday morning I was late to work. Went to the only tap in the compound to get a bucket of water to take my bath, this woman who countless had stepped on my toe but I've always avoid her troubles cuz she's well known for that, trouble is her full time job and her husband the pay master.
She was the one I met fetching water, with a big rubber she stationed at the tap and was refilling other kegs. She takes up and returned to refilled while the big rubber is still on the tap.
Was running late, I begged her to let me fetch the little Bucket with me cuz I was running late to work....

her replied was: "No just disturb me, people dey fetch water here since morning na now you no sey you go fetch water? I must fetch my water finish before you fetch"

I was like: "madam nobi fight, if you no wan let me just say No, which one you dey talk story.... na public tap be this"

She's was like: "Ehn ehn? public tap bah? come fetch ma see, if I no fetch finish you no fetch..... Do your worst"

I keep shut without saying anything, when she left I removed her rubber and fetch my water.

Could you believe this woman came up and poured my water and threw my bucket down?

I was so angry and pissed, I came with full blown annoyance towards her, lift her and fammm... straight down, the same way you threw my rubber.

Hospital was her last bus stop, her husband heard the news and ran home without asking what transpired between us... he came to beat me straight....
I gave him serious knock out on his eyes and rush him with unlimited blow like Glo data....


na station we end am, she spend 2 weeks in hospital.
Las Las I pay bills, but was satisfied.

The news was shocking to everyone:
hey this boy wey no dey talk? quiet people too wicked and bla bla...

many congratulated me secretly.

Bro ah pray make ah no vex somebody like u in my life
Re: People Who Dont Show Their Anger More Dangerous Than Those Who Do, True/False? by choblak(m): 11:24pm On Sep 24, 2019
Offpoint:

Funny part, I became her favorite neighbour after the incident.

She know her boundaries, being quiet doesn't me the evil part is dead... I just don't unleash un-necessarily.

I can relate to dis. I dealt with my neighbor de same way i told her am a quite guy oo but she shud not push me and now I greet her she reply me unlike bfore i fought her

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Re: People Who Dont Show Their Anger More Dangerous Than Those Who Do, True/False? by nlPoster: 11:47pm On Sep 24, 2019
Offpoint:
violence violence violence violence

I didn't read your post but that's what I assume it's about.

It seems South Africans know us better than we know ourselves?

Are you Nigerian?
Re: People Who Dont Show Their Anger More Dangerous Than Those Who Do, True/False? by passionberry(f): 12:11am On Sep 25, 2019
Offpoint:
Yeah, I'm that kinda person.

Rarely get angry, but once I do I hate myself.

Once threw a married woman down a 2 storey building and beat up the husband.

What really happened?

lived in a 3 storey building then, this Monday morning I was late to work. Went to the only tap in the compound to get a bucket of water to take my bath, this woman who countless had stepped on my toe but I've always avoid her troubles cuz she's well known for that, trouble is her full time job and her husband the pay master.
She was the one I met fetching water, with a big rubber she stationed at the tap and was refilling other kegs. She takes up and returned to refilled while the big rubber is still on the tap.
Was running late, I begged her to let me fetch the little Bucket with me cuz I was running late to work....

her replied was: "No just disturb me, people dey fetch water here since morning na now you no sey you go fetch water? I must fetch my water finish before you fetch"

I was like: "madam nobi fight, if you no wan let me just say No, which one you dey talk story.... na public tap be this"

She's was like: "Ehn ehn? public tap bah? come fetch ma see, if I no fetch finish you no fetch..... Do your worst"

I keep shut without saying anything, when she left I removed her rubber and fetch my water.

Could you believe this woman came up and poured my water and threw my bucket down?

I was so angry and pissed, I came with full blown annoyance towards her, lift her and fammm... straight down, the same way you threw my rubber.

Hospital was her last bus stop, her husband heard the news and ran home without asking what transpired between us... he came to beat me straight....
I gave him serious knock out on his eyes and rush him with unlimited blow like Glo data....


na station we end am, she spend 2 weeks in hospital.
Las Las I pay bills, but was satisfied.

The news was shocking to everyone:
hey this boy wey no dey talk? quiet people too wicked and bla bla...

many congratulated me secretly.
;Dsame here me I no like talkng too much oh...or person step on my toes.I go just dey go my own jay jay.

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Re: People Who Dont Show Their Anger More Dangerous Than Those Who Do, True/False? by Nobody: 12:38am On Sep 25, 2019
Re: People Who Dont Show Their Anger More Dangerous Than Those Who Do, True/False? by Burgcudi(m): 1:16am On Sep 25, 2019
missjo:

Sure you're right,but in that silence there must not be anger. That's my point.
A peaceful silence is a million times better than an angry silence, the latter will eat you up slowly from the inside out.


Do you know as man grows his anger grows with him; how true does this sounds to your hearing ?. But you should know that there are two types of anger: quick to action and slow to action. Quick to action is what most man practices. Slow to action, has a thoughtful mind of what or might play during an event beyond quarrel ..., they are most time soft minded and good hearted as people will say. Slow to action will always keep away from his offender to avoid been hurt again. This one reason they don’t keep friends or take it too serious

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Re: People Who Dont Show Their Anger More Dangerous Than Those Who Do, True/False? by 1Sharon(f): 2:25am On Sep 25, 2019
passionberry:
;Dsame here me I no like talkng too much oh...or person step on my toes.I go just dey go my own jay jay.

Until you reach breaking point lol
Re: People Who Dont Show Their Anger More Dangerous Than Those Who Do, True/False? by sweetilicious(f): 4:29am On Sep 25, 2019
Aonkuuse:
I think you are wrong, they are tagged dangerous because when they eventually gets angry it is brutal. And most people so much get on their toes because they don't get angry easily, so pushing them so hard. They are mostly very soft and people take that as a weakness
Exactly
Re: People Who Dont Show Their Anger More Dangerous Than Those Who Do, True/False? by ekmike(m): 6:35am On Sep 25, 2019
People are always afraid of what they dont understand. So when you act calm when they feel you should be upset it messes up their mind.
Re: People Who Dont Show Their Anger More Dangerous Than Those Who Do, True/False? by LordPherule(m): 6:54am On Sep 25, 2019
marvelous000:

very correct. I think I embody the innards of both. when i was in school, I had one recalcitrant fuckwit who was trying to coerce me into cultism, but i resisted, and he employed various provocative tactics to get me to capitulate; I mean the kind of provocation that make life a living misery, but I seethed my outburst with incredible restraint, because by proclivity, i seldom register an opinion in a case of crying need, not to talk of permitting my emotion the respite of expression.
He crossed the line of tolerance, when he assaulted my family and the only thing i hold dear-my mom.

Grammar sef, I no comprehend anything...
I was murderously mad with blood in my eyes.
I went alone for him, and found him and his fellow cultist in a bar. I launched and dealt him a blow with my swod(the hausa type of swod) and had his arm dislodged with only flesh holding it. raised it the second time to slice his head off for the good of the world, but him and his ilk scampered for safety.
I went to school and pasted a note on the school wall; that I'm going to kill all of them whenever I find them. that was their end in that school, because I'm somewhat of an indigene and the indigenes were also crying for blood and ready to invade school if not for my diplomacy.

looking retrospectively, I'm more matured and manage my anger with stoicism, while approaching everything with stolidity. I very seldom register displeasure and never harbour acrimony. because i make excuse for people in advance. It makes me impervious to provocation. I only vent a little online; and it's strictly for sportgrin







Re: People Who Dont Show Their Anger More Dangerous Than Those Who Do, True/False? by ThatFairGuy: 6:55am On Sep 25, 2019
May God bless you, I was about posting something related to this before I saw your post... I'm just like the former, just too quiet and simple but people normally sees it as foolishness... Once I gets angry, I NEVER takes what I've been taking before


GrabHisBalls:
I think there are two set of personalities you lumped into one here.

1. There are those who are quiet and when offended don't react in the conventional manner expected of angry people and don't nurse evil in their heart towards their offenders. They just avoid you. That's their own way of handling misunderstandings.

2. There are those quiet and deadly ones that the second you offend, they're plotting the best revenge to get back at you. The former can't hurt a fly, the latter could kill.

The assumption that all quiet people are wicked is erroneous. Evil is personal. I've checked on 'the temperaments' before and though, dominant traits were outlined, didn't see where it's said 'evil' is dominant in a particular personality.
Re: People Who Dont Show Their Anger More Dangerous Than Those Who Do, True/False? by Simplecity(m): 7:52am On Sep 25, 2019
Offpoint:
Yeah, I'm that kinda person.

Rarely get angry, but once I do I hate myself.

Once threw a married woman down a 2 storey building and beat up the husband.

What really happened?

lived in a 3 storey building then, this Monday morning I was late to work. Went to the only tap in the compound to get a bucket of water to take my bath, this woman who countless had stepped on my toe but I've always avoid her troubles cuz she's well known for that, trouble is her full time job and her husband the pay master.
She was the one I met fetching water, with a big rubber she stationed at the tap and was refilling other kegs. She takes up and returned to refilled while the big rubber is still on the tap.
Was running late, I begged her to let me fetch the little Bucket with me cuz I was running late to work....

her replied was: "No just disturb me, people dey fetch water here since morning na now you no sey you go fetch water? I must fetch my water finish before you fetch"

I was like: "madam nobi fight, if you no wan let me just say No, which one you dey talk story.... na public tap be this"

She's was like: "Ehn ehn? public tap bah? come fetch ma see, if I no fetch finish you no fetch..... Do your worst"

I keep shut without saying anything, when she left I removed her rubber and fetch my water.

Could you believe this woman came up and poured my water and threw my bucket down?

I was so angry and pissed, I came with full blown annoyance towards her, lift her and fammm... straight down, the same way you threw my rubber.

Hospital was her last bus stop, her husband heard the news and ran home without asking what transpired between us... he came to beat me straight....
I gave him serious knock out on his eyes and rush him with unlimited blow like Glo data....


na station we end am, she spend 2 weeks in hospital.
Las Las I pay bills, but was satisfied.

The news was shocking to everyone:
hey this boy wey no dey talk? quiet people too wicked and bla bla...

many congratulated me secretly.
chop knuckle joor....very stupid and annoying neighbors....Next time dem go start to dey greet you good morning sir
Re: People Who Dont Show Their Anger More Dangerous Than Those Who Do, True/False? by princetg: 8:19am On Sep 25, 2019
True
Re: People Who Dont Show Their Anger More Dangerous Than Those Who Do, True/False? by BarrElChapo(m): 8:23am On Sep 25, 2019
samuelonyewueny:


I perfectly understand you.. what you described is not anger but rage..been there.. your body will also be hot..

grin
Re: People Who Dont Show Their Anger More Dangerous Than Those Who Do, True/False? by BarrElChapo(m): 8:30am On Sep 25, 2019
1Sharon:


This story is so satisfying cool


The little kid tho grin

Pls translate the kid's statement for us.. Google translate was speaking gibberish
Re: People Who Dont Show Their Anger More Dangerous Than Those Who Do, True/False? by 1Sharon(f): 8:32am On Sep 25, 2019
BarrElChapo:


Pls translate the kid's statement for us.. Google translate was speaking gibberish

The kid was saying, this igbo man gave my dad a dirty slap cheesy

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Re: People Who Dont Show Their Anger More Dangerous Than Those Who Do, True/False? by Nobody: 9:26am On Sep 25, 2019
Yup that used to be me, very toxic behaviour. In my case I couldn't speak up because I was very timid and well, lacking a bit in the self esteem department.
Used to serve revenge very cold too kai grin

Its noh good abeg, now I speak up as e dey be me.. It helps me to ease the annoyance and also helps the other party to know my red flags and avoid future defaults. Win-win cool
Re: People Who Dont Show Their Anger More Dangerous Than Those Who Do, True/False? by johnad3(m): 10:16am On Sep 25, 2019
Abeg where you deh live, make i send you this my neighbour called Iya Ebuka ooh my God, you go fear fear, na you go tire. con help me beg am ooooo na wetin you go deh talk be that. Nah every morning weh you deh rush go work, She go deh pour you water. seh you no get sense ni

Offpoint:
Yeah, I'm that kinda person.

Rarely get angry, but once I do I hate myself.

Once threw a married woman down a 2 storey building and beat up the husband.

What really happened?

lived in a 3 storey building then, this Monday morning I was late to work. Went to the only tap in the compound to get a bucket of water to take my bath, this woman who countless had stepped on my toe but I've always avoid her troubles cuz she's well known for that, trouble is her full time job and her husband the pay master.
She was the one I met fetching water, with a big rubber she stationed at the tap and was refilling other kegs. She takes up and returned to refilled while the big rubber is still on the tap.
Was running late, I begged her to let me fetch the little Bucket with me cuz I was running late to work....

her replied was: "No just disturb me, people dey fetch water here since morning na now you no sey you go fetch water? I must fetch my water finish before you fetch"

I was like: "madam nobi fight, if you no wan let me just say No, which one you dey talk story.... na public tap be this"

She's was like: "Ehn ehn? public tap bah? come fetch ma see, if I no fetch finish you no fetch..... Do your worst"

I keep shut without saying anything, when she left I removed her rubber and fetch my water.

Could you believe this woman came up and poured my water and threw my bucket down?

I was so angry and pissed, I came with full blown annoyance towards her, lift her and fammm... straight down, the same way you threw my rubber.

Hospital was her last bus stop, her husband heard the news and ran home without asking what transpired between us... he came to beat me straight....
I gave him serious knock out on his eyes and rush him with unlimited blow like Glo data....


na station we end am, she spend 2 weeks in hospital.
Las Las I pay bills, but was satisfied.

The news was shocking to everyone:
hey this boy wey no dey talk? quiet people too wicked and bla bla...

many congratulated me secretly.
Re: People Who Dont Show Their Anger More Dangerous Than Those Who Do, True/False? by Collins87: 12:11pm On Sep 25, 2019
Seen
Re: People Who Dont Show Their Anger More Dangerous Than Those Who Do, True/False? by nuelyoyo(m): 2:09pm On Sep 25, 2019
pocohantas:
Not dangerous, just unpredictable or less predictable.

If I am pissed, I will let you know.

What I hate is when people act like my concerns are not valid. Guys are fond of doing this in relationships- acting like you are being petty or a nag. That is when I become silent...

I just ignore you, you can't turn me into a mad woman. Maybe I will get dangerous, but not enough to hurt you...physically.

will it be enough to hurt him spiritually?
Re: People Who Dont Show Their Anger More Dangerous Than Those Who Do, True/False? by Timberly(f): 5:02pm On Sep 25, 2019
Yes, those who keep quiet are more dangerous bcoz they don't forget and they look for every means to retaliate
Re: People Who Dont Show Their Anger More Dangerous Than Those Who Do, True/False? by nlPoster: 5:11pm On Sep 25, 2019
I'm not referring to a quiet nature per se, but people who don't show (when) they are angry.
Re: People Who Dont Show Their Anger More Dangerous Than Those Who Do, True/False? by tck2000(m): 12:19pm On Oct 30, 2019
False

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