tosynbaba:
more than 90% of marriages make no sense at all.


We live in a world where a comfortable man will decide to make hself uncomfortable by bringing a stranger to live with him.



He slaves all his life to make the woman comfortable and their kids also. Only to realise the woman has been raising the kids to hate him.


God forbid he goes broke, the hatred and disrespect will multiply by 100.....



Tuk tuk.......the children might not even be his

kelvindj98:

So the father probably did the same to his parents. Stupid thinking.

delishpot:
The point might not be that he ate some of the food. The koko of the story might be that he doesn't support the family when he has even little but is quick to finish the one they hussle to prepare and then threaten to beat the wife. He Don dey do am since but now the kids are big enough to put him in his place. Thus is what awaits all you men who think that having big blokys gives you the right to treat your family anyhow. Na so dem go gather una beat.

yomi007k:
A man without money is dead.

When he was providing food ,clothing ,shelter and school fees the kids and wife never remembered that time.

Now that the hungry man ate, he is publicly shamed.

Lesson to men, no love for you without money.

explosiveskull:

All these single mums.

UnknownQueen:


I hope ULL say the same 60 years from that's if ure still alive anyway, when u have no wife or children to call your own....

UnknownQueen:


If ure not an advocate for marriage, WHT are u an advocate of please be specific

donstan18:
A man without money and common sense is almost useless to the society and everybody except the family that birthed him.

explosiveskull:

All these evening newspapers that are single parents from dysfunctional family devoid of any kind of love.
This is all their brain can give them.
Noting on Earth can ever give any child any audacity to touch any of his or her parents, that was what I was thought and been living by it

skyblueking:
Im kizz Daniel's voice "what alife....what amess up"...

Upon say na im be the the breadwinner....
Buhari regime sef....

oloriLFC:
breadwinner ke! According to the report, the man is a bread-eater not breadwinner o

Emaprince:
Women....marriage is like a trophy to una. Anybody that speak against marriage is hated by women. But looking at the way you guys pray nd hope to get married everyday, one would think you will get married and be good and supportive, but 90% of the time, a mans life become hell after getting married.

He loses friends, families, his financial responsibilty sky rockets.....But when he goes broke, the woman will never remember those days the man was labouring to feed her, then his case will be the same as the man being posted in this thread

If not for Gods rules ,you think any man would want to spend the rest of his life with a woman?

victorian:








Lol


Some men are so shameless!

That's why I don't bother myself getting depressed about marrying a man.

One look at some.men out there and just shake head.

My pastor said women that are rushing to go and marry! He said you as a woman u are dancing all kinds of dance on wedding day, beaming with smiles, dancing with all your strength thinking the man uv married will solve your problems and make life better for u, but lo and behold, Na the man sef need your help in the marriage. His own case is 3 times worse than yours! But in courtship people lie and don't say the truth to one another.
Immediately u enter, u then realise your own wey be two problems, now married a man with 3 or 5 problems , No be wahala u go enter so?

As in disaster In the making.


No wonder divorces here And there.Aint you better off alone while u upgrade yourself and solve the problems around u with God's grace and favour? Before caging another man's child with problems times 10!

Hmmmm! It's well o!

Mizwisdom:
Any man that can't provide for his family is worst than an infidel

donstan18:
A man without money and common sense is almost useless to the society and everybody except the family that birthed him.

Mizwisdom:
Any man that can't provide for his family is worst than an infidel

Sunnyobums:

I disagree to an extent with your comment, you are so quick to condemn men who find it hard to provide for their families forgetting that all fingers are not equal, aside the ones that choose to do anything or spends the little they have on women and booze, there are still some married men who are struggling so hard to make ends meet but record no success each time, and about a woman marrying a poor man and adding to her miseries, that's the African woman's mentality and its a shame, even the bible made specific mentions about the wife being a helpmate to her husband but you are so quick to think its only the husband that should carry all the burdens of the family, that's why oyibo marriage is better than what we have here, both parties have something doing to help the family grow, I don't know which category of struggling broke men this man falls in, but I tell you that no husband and father deserves this kind of treatment from his so called family, its wrong on all levels.