Mindfulness:


He is still a liar. If you think it is ok to leave your wife with three children and not tell her where you are going something is fundamentally wrong with you.

there is nothing bad in a white lie

srclark:
If the relocation is so important to her she can as well use her finances to relocate herself and the children very simple matter

She could if he was open and honest. But what do you know about honest communication?

srclark:
there is nothing bad in a white lie

May your wife lie to you every day of her life because there is nothing wrong with it.

Mindfulness:


May your wife lie to you every day of her life because there is nothing wrong with it.

if she decides to do that then good for her and that is her headache

Mindfulness:


She could if he was open and honest. But what do you know about honest communication?

If she could she wont come and start ranting on nairaland .She should accept the fact the man might not be too financially buoyant this period .This is the problem with many women they know the truth but they would decide to turn a blind eye to it . Only God knows what that man must have gone through before he resulted to this decision

I would have loved to say many things but in the absence of the other side of the tale,it is a bit difficult.
However,from the little that i can pick from your highlights -narratives - i honestly doubt if you guys are truly in a relationship.
Too many communication gaps here and there. There were signs which you practically ignored. Nevertheless, you need to move on, as fast as you can!
Get your acts together and start a new life. You have a whole lot of beautiful years ahead of you,let no man determine that for you. Live your life now onward like an orphan while you focus is on God to help you out in this scam of a guy you've found yourself.
Start all over again if that is what it means or you need for the sake of your kids. It is never too late.

Peace be unto you.

fafaafrica:
My dear, let the truth be said, he scammed you, my case is quite similar to yours. I was living with him in Australia, was tricked in coming to Nigeria for the holidays that was in 2014, now I am divorced, my visa cancelled. So my dear if you still have your UK visa leave o! Before depression set in, talking from experience. Cheers!

How can she leave when she has 3 kids to tske of?

U see that man forget him first and try to quench the fire on your own body, hit me up on WhatsApp, is your ielts still valid ?you can write bcs exam to boost your CRS point for express entry and relocate to Canada without him.....zero seven zero six nine five nine two two two five .please be prayerful too .May Got be with you.

Ogegod87:



God bless you for this comment. You took words from me.

Madam don't sit down and wait for him. Hopefully they will grant you and your kids visa. Forget about that man for now. And while you are at it, don't allow him or anyone get wind of your plans. Do it with God and relocate to Canada.

I hate rubbish!

Exactly.

tammie24:
can a woman with kids get a Canadian immigrant visa without the husband input?

Of course. She can give it a try.