Have been asking this girl out on WhatsApp for close to a week now...all she has been telling me is that she will think about it, sometimes she will say she is speechless,she doesn't know what to say

NB:we work in same place...

I confronted her one on one one time,she was shy she said she doesn't say this kind of thing face to face...unless I messaged her on WhatsApp...


She actually declined a day after she said I should give her time...she said she can't date someone at her place of work...I still continue...

This girl keep saying she is speechless or doesn't know what to do...


Guys what can I do,cos I love her...

I cannot comment now, I am sad

MJBOLT:

it's only a matter of time before that girl starts collecting salary from 2 different sources

you sure

Too many under age on Nairaland this days....

fidelmarshal199:
Too many under age on Nairaland this days....

who is underage ?

Bro, I congratulate you! She is yours in ADVANCE! Congratulations.

When you ask a girl out, there is only 3 possible replies,

1. The Almighty "YES"
2. Unbelievable "NO"
3. "Give me Time" "I will think about it" or " I will give you reply tomorrow"

This replies above are really different, Number 2 and 3 are closely related but they are not the same.

When a girl says "YES" then she is "IN" automatically yours. Even though some guys will still share the honey pot with you.

When she says "NO" and "NO", multiple times, Nna give up! Its finished! You cant have her, but sometimes some guys gets lucky, the girl will finally say "YES" after lots of pressure.

But....

When a girl say "GIVE ME TIME" "I WILL GIVE YOU REPLY NEXT WEEK" " I DONT KNOW WHAT TO SAY", bro your goodluck CHARM already worked. At that moment, she wants to say yes, but some circumstances is making her not to give 100% consent, maybe she is SHY, TRYING TO BE EXPENSIVE and not CHEAP, TRYING TO MAKE YOU WORK FOR WHAT YOU WANT, but the end result is that she is partially YOURS. Its like you asked a girl, "can you date me?" And she replies "maybe". If she says "I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO SAY" or "GIVE ME TIME" that answer is partially YES. Just give it time and a little PRESSURE.

Do not give up! A little strategy, will make her swing into you arms

Bro you have 80% Chances that she is your already.

Better still, hang out with her, maybe offer her a dinner, not lunch, dinner is more romantic.

Make your time with her doing the hangout romantic, be sweet! Besides, during the hangout, DO NOT TALK ABOUT THE RELATIONSHIP... just be plain, talk about something else, like what she likes, her hobbies and others.

Then once you are home, beep her about your request again, and behold, trust me, she will say that YES boldly.

marttol:
who is underage ?

The only thing you should do on WhatsApp when it regards to a woman, is to set up a date with her and not ask her to be your girlfriend. Stop acting underaged. Do guys still asks girls out on WhatsApp?

It's pardoned and slightly understandable if you live thousands of miles or km apart, perhaps you're in S.A while she's here, in Nigeria.

LOGOBELT:
Bro, I congratulate you! She is yours in ADVANCE! Congratulations.

When you ask a girl out, there is only 3 possible replies,

1. The Almighty "YES"
2. Unbelievable "NO"
3. "Give me Time" "I will think about it" or " I will give you reply tomorrow"

This replies above are really different, Number 2 and 3 are closely related but they are not the same.

When a girl says "YES" then she is "IN" automatically yours. Even though some guys will still share the honey pot with you.

When she says "NO" and "NO", multiple times, Nna give up! Its finished! You cant have her, but sometimes some guys gets lucky, the girl will finally say "YES" after lots of pressure.

But....

When a girl say "GIVE ME TIME" "I WILL GIVE YOU REPLY NEXT WEEK" " I DONT KNOW WHAT TO SAY", bro your goodluck CHARM already worked. At that moment, she wants to say yes, but some circumstances is making her not to give 100% consent, maybe she is SHY, TRYING TO BE EXPENSIVE and not CHEAP, TRYING TO MAKE YOU WORK FOR WHAT YOU WANT, but the end result is that she is partially YOURS. Its like you asked a girl, "can you date me?" And she replies "maybe". If she says "I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO SAY" or "GIVE ME TIME" that answer is partially YES. Just give it time and a little PRESSURE.

Do not give up! A little strategy, will make her swing into you arms

Bro you have 80% Chances that she is your already.

Better still, hang out with her, maybe offer her a dinner, not lunch, dinner is more romantic.

Make your time with her doing the hangout romantic, be sweet! Besides, during the hangout, DO NOT TALK ABOUT THE RELATIONSHIP... just be plain, talk about something else, like what she likes, her hobbies and others.

Then once you are home, beep her about your request again, and behold, trust me, she will say that YES boldly.

lol...that's what someone told me...

Thanks