LilMissFavvy:
[s]You are 100percent wrong. Vict*orian is totally correct, I never knew much about the couple, but from the few comments I am able to read, the husband is to be blamed. The husband was a dream killer, he successfully killed her dreams and murdered her acting career. He frustrated her in the marriage and tried to turn her into someone else, his family must have also made life miserable for her, how can a mother inlaw be unnecessarily involved in her son's marital affairs? Maybe the son is a mummys boy, even at that age. Since he killed her dreams and career, then he should have been man enough to provide all her needs. He definitely was cheating, is he not a Nigerian man? So we should stop blaming the lady if she has found happiness with another man. I can recall she used to be a very talented actress, she is in the category of Victoria Inyama, Regina Askia, etc. I am a Christian, but I do not believe in men oppressing women in the name of marriage, so next time, don't make the mistake of thinking I can agree with you.[/s]

franchasng:
Olumide is not at loss, he can still marry a hotter, younger chick if he so wishes....as for Dakore, it was expected long time ago, in fact she tried lol










Meanwhile, Goodluck empowered and enriched so many Yorubas but because of their sworn hatred for Igbos and Igbo progress, they allowed Tinubu to mislead them just because Goodluck refused to make Wale Tinubu Petroleum Minister to enable Tinubu allocate free oil blocks to himself and family members like he is allocating lands to himself in Lagos.


Now look at how the former Yoruba billionaires are crumbling like packs of a joker card, from Olumide's billionaire father to GLO Adenuga to Kola Aluko and so many others I cannot list here.


What goes around comes around, you say you will continue to fight and betray your closest brothers from the east in order to serve your known enemy from the north, e concern me, 2023 will teach una more lesson about Nigeria

unbitchable:

A disclaimer against what ? your own opinion?
go back to school and stop crawling around.. dumb much.

kunleweb:
Modern Nigerian woman and her inability to stay put in a marriage. Tueh

safarigirl:


He is not his parents. Anyone who depends on others for their financial needs will always be at thee mercy of their benefactor. At some point in life, everyone will have to fend for themselves.

Even Prince Harry has gotten the drift, but this old man decided to sit down and do nothing, sacrificing his sense of self. Who is Olumide Akande without Harry Akande? Can he answer that? Dakota made a gaffe, she had a career and settled for a man with none, that is subject to his parent's whims and caprices. Such people are not prime marriage material.

izospindle:

All na formatt brother

sharone21:
Dakore, gold digger ke? Her dad too wasn't poor or average....she attended Corona school....I pray this lovely couple work out their marriage and avoid external family pressures even when he is the only son.

victorian:






What do u expect from a billionaire family, who wants to look good in the eyes of the public!
And it's not like she comes from a wealthy aristocratic home anyways.
They will always say, what will make them look good in the eyes of people.
This Akande family live in the eyes of the public. Everything they do, must align with what's acceptable in their circle of clicks and in the eyes of the public.
They are like the royal family of England. Too many rules and regulationsto abide to, as a wife.

If a wife coming in, is not used to such rules and regulations in her own quaters, she will eventually Run and leave the husband, not even divorce sef! Because they won't grant her one

Money is not the issue here.

The Akande are not broke!

Her lifestyle was simply over controlled and that's where cracks will form and start growing until everything collapse.

poseidon12:


So you have automatically decided that the woman is to blame for the split?

franchasng:
Olumide is not at loss, he can still marry a hotter, younger chick if he so wishes....as for Dakore, it was expected long time ago, in fact she tried lol










Meanwhile, Goodluck empowered and enriched so many Yorubas but because of their sworn hatred for Igbos and Igbo progress, they allowed Tinubu to mislead them just because Goodluck refused to make Wale Tinubu Petroleum Minister to enable Tinubu allocate free oil blocks to himself and family members like he is allocating lands to himself in Lagos.


Now look at how the former Yoruba billionaires are crumbling like packs of a joker card, from Olumide's billionaire father to GLO Adenuga to Kola Aluko and so many others I cannot list here.


What goes around comes around, you say you will continue to fight and betray your closest brothers from the east in order to serve your known enemy from the north, e concern me, 2023 will teach una more lesson about Nigeria

wristbangle:


You have a point. It's good to have holistic view about an issue before judging. I think I will agree to an extent because her career went oblivion when she married. Omotola is married and that never stopped her acting career, though she selects the unromantic acting scenes which shows respect for her spouse.

victorian:







Lol you are very funny.

I'm not dada o

DMerciful:
But why did she accept to marry into the family? To change their lifestyle or isolate their son?

Amberon:
Nice description of your mother.

victorian:
I'm not surprised.
I was expecting it anyways

I'm surprised they lasted this long!

.when a carefree woman is overly controlled in an aristocrat marriage, just to please everyone in the marriage especially the parents of the man. Just give her some few years, all hell will let loose if the parents of the guy, do not wear off their hold in the son's marriage.

Red flag I saw : She cut off her dada, that one alone ehn? It's finished in that marriage. Even though she agreed to cut it off. One huge part of her died already on that spot but the husband will not know the damage he has done to her inner being, just to please family and make her look the ideal wife in the eyes of the public.

Then making her a full time housewife? When she's a busy bee? So someonelse will not snatch her from him? I laugh in Chinese!

So tell me, Was she not snatched in the end? She couldn't even wait to be divorced properly before dating another guy, whom I believe will be a free spirited guy.

Guys what you fear most in marriage and try everything possible to make sure it doesnt happen, will eventually happen. It's life. Don't allow your fears over take the running of your once loving and smooth relationship before u guys get married.

All I see here is a free spirited woman who has set herself free from bondage called marriage. She thought she will be free like when she was single. She didn't know she will tied to all sorts of rules and regulations by the family. What a shock for her!

She's not going back to that family again she's gone for good.

Everything is not all about money.

edoairways:

But you said celebrity marriages don't last. Did Chioma Akpotha or Omoni Oboli had issues?

victorian:






The reasons are not baseless o.

Yes alot of ladies will pray to be in her shoes but not every lady would want to be in her shoes.
For example : all through last year, suitors were coming but they all. Wanted me to close down my company and be a full time house wife.

Why? They were scared men will keep wooing me even after marriage and it's best to lock me up and not work. Just eat, fucvk, drink and breed babies.

Sighs
I was virtually crying to one old man who's my friend at my office building. I told him why are men like this?

Why should I close up what makes me happy, give me joy and keeps my brain working. And Just stay at home and be watching telemundo day in day out! But why are men this selfish!
Why must I shut down this part of my life, just because I want to marry!

It's not fair! I rather remain single ,keep running my company, meet people everyday than marry and just seat at home and keep getting fatter everyday with kids running around. Why cant I have both!

Guess what the old man said?

kunleweb:
Modern Nigerian woman and her inability to stay put in a marriage. Tueh

etrange:


Women have suffered. You don't care to know what really transpired, who did what or what she might have suffered in there. Your first action is to attack the woman. Your type will still ask "why didn't she leave" if something terrible had happened to her in that marriage.

Y'all have thrown your consciences away in the name of toxic masculinity.

Tufia!

BiggyB242:


Most celebrities marriages don't last not all.

kunleweb:




Look at this foool trying to sound intelligent and paint me in bad light. Marriage belongs more to a woman foool. And the home and marriage heavily lies more upon the woman than on a man. Oote. You better work on the lens through which you view people.. If a marriage fails its over 80% a woman's decision and desire. Oode.you better have sense. You're stupeed enough not to read many passages on men being advised on women to and not to marry abi. Why is this of not the deeper understanding that a marriage and family nurturing heavily belongs to a. Woman. You full. Na me you wan use take shine abi. Oode. You low life clout chaser. Don't ever mentioning me in your entire existence here

victorian:






The reasons are not baseless o.

Yes alot of ladies will pray to be in her shoes but not every lady would want to be in her shoes.
For example : all through last year, suitors were coming but they all. Wanted me to close down my company and be a full time house wife.

Why? They were scared men will keep wooing me even after marriage and it's best to lock me up and not work. Just eat, fucvk, drink and breed babies.

Sighs
I was virtually crying to one old man who's my friend at my office building. I told him why are men like this?

Why should I close up what makes me happy, give me joy and keeps my brain working. And Just stay at home and be watching telemundo day in day out! But why are men this selfish!
Why must I shut down this part of my life, just because I want to marry!

It's not fair! I rather remain single ,keep running my company, meet people everyday than marry and just seat at home and keep getting fatter everyday with kids running around. Why cant I have both!

Guess what the old man said?

Nooil:


Because he begged and begged like men in love so and she accepted like the natural woman she is