A Nigerian man who allegedly told his wife that he was traveling to Borno State has been accused of lying to his wife so he could go to Warri in Delta State to have a traditional marriage with another woman.

A Facebook user identified as Awele Ejiofor shared the story on her page and claimed she has been a friend of the family for over a decade.

Awele said Toby Onyekweli, has been her friend long before August 2011 when he got married to Ify, who is also her friend.

She accused Toby of betraying the loyalty and trust of his wife and paying her back cruelly.

Awele shared a video purportedly showing the man’s traditional marriage to his new beau with a long caption narrating how she has been a friend of the family.

She wrote:

“The circle is small, we share mutual friends, didn’t we all grow up together? You and me. I remember when you called to fix a date, I was at her’s. I had just returned from Enugu and stopped by her’s to see her. She told me you were coming. You wanted to go out with her. I was thrilled. Legit excited! Then you got married in August of 2011, I remember that day. I remember Ify came from Sweden, I watched your kids grow. Wasn’t I at your place last time I was home? Dude, we all smiled at the camera not knowing you were planning a marriage while still married.

“9 years Tobe. If she was a bad person, we would know but she wasn’t. She took all the shit from you and your mother, who controlled all you did. You got up from your bed, kissed her goodbye, told a story about going back to Borno, while you went to Warri same day for your traditional marriage.

“We are not Muslims! We are not Urhobos! We are Christians and Ndi Anioma and this it is all shades of wrong! You are first my friend before my friend’s husband. And I owe it to you to tell you the truth as your friend. I am disappointed in you!

“I have no words for the Grandma you married. She didn’t drag you down this lane. YOU BROKE YOUR VOWS. It’s you I have a bone to pick with. The people on your timeline cheering you will not be there when you meet your Waterloo.

“People date married men. Sadly the norm has come to stay but you cannot be mean to a woman who has done NOTHING to you. This girl gave you her youth. She left her life to live yours. You paid her back with STDs, ill-treatment and Abuse! Yet she endured. 9 years meant nothing to you? Keep sharing photos of you and your new bride. I am going to keep reposting on my page. I mean, if I don’t take care of you, who will?




“They said we should pray for you Pray for you when I am not mad? As far as I am concerned, nobody jazzed this man, let’s stop making excuses for him. He only missed the memo on how to cheat smoothly. Never go for someone beneath your present. 2. Don’t get caught. The universe will judge you, Toby Tboss Onyekweli.

“Well before it does, happy married life…… Biko, somebody should please beg him to unblock me. I come in peace.”


http://community.thenationonlineng.net/forum/video-man-tells-wife-he-s-travelling-to-borno-only-to-be-spotted-

warri no dey carry last

Some men and wickedness.

Jealousy... leave the man alone. He knows his reason why he chose to marry a second wife..Dont be a slowpoke..

This is really bad but only God knows what is really happening in their marriage.... Lets not jump to conclusions

What's my business.
Everything started and ended in same Delta state

This your statement just confirmed that you're still feeding by your parents.

DonFreshmoney:
Jealousy... leave the man alone. He knows his reason why he chose to marry a second wife..Dont be a slowpoke..

Reichel99:
Some men and wickedness.

Just like women tooo

When in hear of issues like this, I just wish they do not happen , at all.

But, wishes and different from reality.

Free world!
If the wife is so traumatized, she can leave.
Is this a WONDER to behold?


People take this “marriage” of a thing too seriously, especially when unserious people are involved.

Sheeeeeeeesh!

Why do people especially women think getting and staying married to an irresponsible man without demanding better is a virtue?

And how did husbandman successfully court another woman interstate?

Did he travel often?