EmmyDJourno:
Some ladies are like that, never considerate when it comes to money

You should have known her attitude towards spending her money on your relationship by now

You should have had this discussion long before now

My guy, your fiancee doesn't want to spend her money on anything or maybe not 50%

So cut down the budget, share it 70/30% and if she wants anything extra, let her get it herself


End time girls everywhere

Until a women gets desperate, they are stupidly opinionated

A chic who earns 130k once told me she would contribute nothing to house rent and school fees. From that moment she started dating herself, till I dumped her sorry ass

Mobree:


..then she moved on to date a man who earns 500k monthly, and believes a man should sort out the major bills, and leave the minor ones (food, toiletries, provisions etc) to the woman. Amazingly, he does home chores too when he's available.
He married her. They now have two kids...

THE END!!!

You so pained, you had to console your mind

I don't mind if she finds such a man, so she can stop bashing me on her WhatsApp Status

We all deserve to find what we all seek

EmmyDJourno:


You so pained, you had to console your mind

I don't mind if she finds such a man, so she can stop bashing me on her WhatsApp Status

We all deserve to find what we all seek

Mobree:


Me? Consoling myself? Anyone who can read would know it's you consoling your mind looool. You lost 130k monthly, I didn't

And yeah, may we all find what we seek...

I didn't lose nothing, she was not willing to assist in meeting our targets as a couple and I simply made a decision in June last year

In 1November, I met a lady who manages the affairs of a foreign company who are a start up in Lagos

I earn 289k, have 2cars, her car got stolen in December 2018, so I gave her one of my cars to run around. She has 2plots at Ibeju Lekki and has set us the target of building our home there

My dear, I defined what I wanted in a woman(one who would assist me achieve my dreams)

I left the other lady cause she was interested in simply making demands of what I had and giving nothing back

It hurt when I did cause I had feelings for her, but my choice of marriage goes beyond just love

I took a stand and Cupid backed me with someone better

You should be happy for me at least nahh

EmmyDJourno:


I didn't lose nothing, she was not willing to assist in meeting our targets as a couple and I simply made a decision in June last year

In 1November, I met a lady who manages the affairs of a foreign company who are a start up in Lagos

I earn 289k, have 2cars, her car got stolen in December 2018, so I gave her one of my cars to run around. She has 2plots at Ibeju Lekki and has set us the target of building our home there

My dear, I defined what I wanted in a woman(one who would assist me achieve my dreams)

I left the other lady cause she was interested in simply making demands of what I had and giving nothing back

It hurt when I did cause I had feelings for her, but my choice of marriage goes beyond just love

I took a stand and Cupid backed me with someone better

You should be happy for me at least nahh

Mobree:


I am happy for you oooooo

But really, there are cases where a lady's upbringing has programmed into her that a man MUST meet all the needs.. Anyway, you found your choice...good for you!

I wish you all the best bruh!

pocohantas:
You did nothing wrong. She should contribute, but I don't think people just spell out percentages like that.

Anyway, I will like to hear her side of the story. I believe there are other things you both discussed that is not captured here. Men play victim a lot.

MedicH:


Happy valentine's day charismatic, enigmatic, magnetic, mesmerizing, captivating, bewitching, beguiling, attractive, appealing, alluring, hypnotic, magical, glamorous poco.

GoodBoi1:
What about women that find it offensive to share bills after marriage?

sylvestersamuel:
Good morning my fellow Nairalanders, I will try to make my story brief and precise.... I have a fiancée whom I am already engaged to. As a matter of fact I have already done all our traditional marriage and rites the only thing left is our white wedding which will be coming up in the next 3 weeks.

Yesterday, my fiancée came to visit me in my house so as to discuss our wedding plans. But before she left, we had a slight misunderstanding and the reason for our misunderstanding was because I allocated 50% of our wedding expenses to her i.e (she would be the one to sew her wedding gown, pay for the catering service amongst others) while I take care of other expenses...

On hearing this, she didn't even utter a word but left with annoyance, since then I have been trying to call her but she hasn't been picking my calls neither have she replied any of my messages....

Please I need your advice, did I do or say anything wrong, because I know how much I spent during our traditional marriage rite and mind you, she earns close to 200k per month.... Insult in form of advice is allowed all I need is just your advice.

efficiencie:

Are you married to her already? Tell us we want to learn.