I impregnanted this girl but I don't want to marry her. I am interested in the child. She is yet to deliver. I talked to the family that I need my child, but they refused and said I won't have him as I didn't pay her bride price.

Now I want to go to court. Am thinking if I will win the case. I don't want to spend my money and after every thing I won't win the case.

You don't plan to marry her but you slept with her without condom and put her in a family way

There is God oo

LawBreaker:
I impregnanted this girl but I don't want to marry her. I am interested in the child. She is yet to deliver. I talked to the family that I need my child, but they refused and said I won't have him as I didn't pay her bride price.

Now I want to go to court. Am thinking if I will win the case. I don't want to spend my money and after every thing I won't win the case.

You don't have any legal ground to claim the child. Just forget it and move on.

NyenwePHC:


You don't have any legal ground to claim the child. Just forget it and move on.

Are you sure about that?

Is DNA result not tenable in the court of law?

LawBreaker:
I impregnanted this girl but I don't want to marry her. I am interested in the child. She is yet to deliver. I talked to the family that I need my child, but they refused and said I won't have him as I didn't pay her bride price.

Now I want to go to court. Am thinking if I will win the case. I don't want to spend my money and after every thing I won't win the case.

You are taking things too too far.

You shouldn't take such step of going to court.

If you don't have a sister, just imagine you got one and such is happening to her, how would you feel?

What I will say is... Love the lady, if not for anything, but for the fact that she is a mother to your child.

Also love and care for the child when born. If you do so, you wouldn't need intervention of a court.

Your blood will find you.

U r really lawbreaker!


Go to court!

You will be shamed on court verdict that you will not have erection in the next one year!

NyenwePHC:


You don't have any legal ground to claim the child. Just forget it and move on.

Thanks, I will do just this.

LawBreaker:


Thanks, I will do just this.

Better

hehehehe, OP, you are very funny and ignorant, its like the girl and her family are ignorant too, if not the girl's parents are suppose to take you to court or a customary court, first of all you will pay damages (you have damaged her by impregnating her out of wedlock) you deprived the parents of full bride price and traditional marriage rites. you hurt their pride by societal stigma of bearing a bastard child.
After that, you will be fully responsible for the girl's antenatal, child birth and attendant hospital bill, in some cases you will be full responsible for the kid until he is 18, meanwhile the child will be in the custody of his mother.
So instead of going to court, just load a gun and shot yourself in the leg, cos that's what will happen. so you think you can just impregnate a woman and walk away with the baby? you dey joke big time.

LawBreaker:
I impregnanted this girl but I don't want to marry her. I am interested in the child. She is yet to deliver. I talked to the family that I need my child, but they refused and said I won't have him as I didn't pay her bride price.

Now I want to go to court. Am thinking if I will win the case. I don't want to spend my money and after every thing I won't win the case.

Not sure you will but you could file for some visitation rights in the least.

LawBreaker:
I impregnanted this girl but I don't want to marry her. I am interested in the child. She is yet to deliver. I talked to the family that I need my child, but they refused and said I won't have him as I didn't pay her bride price.

Now I want to go to court. Am thinking if I will win the case. I don't want to spend my money and after every thing I won't win the case.

No court will grant you that kind of custody of the child. Just have good relationship with your baby mama and her family then take care of your parental responsibilities.

I wonder how heartless ppl can become. You impregnated her, the pain, the trauma, stigma and temporary terminating her career, instead of finding way to make peace, you are threatening to go to court.
Let me go and invite Cyriakus Uzuekwe cos he specializes in such stories.

My advise is that even if you dont want to marry her, provide for her and the baby. Pay for antenatal and other fees ( if the parents allow you), just be friendly. Continue doing that, with time, she will change her mind if you ask again.

Men that are scared of marriage pay between N1m to N2m for women to have their baby and hand over to them here in PH. This is asides the feeding , housing and occasional treats

So you slept with her without protection not thinking about the possibility of a pregnancy.

You don't want to marry her. So she's going to have the baby on her own.

Then on top of that, you want to take her to court to claim the baby.

Ok

LawBreaker:
I impregnanted this girl but I don't want to marry her. I am interested in the child. She is yet to deliver. I talked to the family that I need my child, but they refused and said I won't have him as I didn't pay her bride price.

Now I want to go to court. Am thinking if I will win the case. I don't want to spend my money and after every thing I won't win the case.

Pls get the fvck off... Look at this animal ooo! U want ur child ki u there. Her body baby factory na. Anumpama

LawBreaker:


Thanks, I will do just this.

irresponsible loafer... Your forefathers must b proud.

They are gradually turning naive n desperate girls to baby factories.

She is good to Bleep with not to marry.

Igbo si"mete onye di nma enyi Maka olulu.
Why isn't she good to marry?

Pray tell me

LawBreaker:
I impregnanted this girl but I don't want to marry her. I am interested in the child. She is yet to deliver. I talked to the family that I need my child, but they refused and said I won't have him as I didn't pay her bride price.

Now I want to go to court. Am thinking if I will win the case. I don't want to spend my money and after every thing I won't win the case.

You can co-parent with your baby mama.
Pay her antenatal and delivery bills. Pay for your baby's food, clothes and give the mother some money for miscellaneous expenses on the baby.
Marriage no be by force. You both made this baby together, and you should both try and raise the child. You don't have to be married to co-parent.

skentelelady:
You don't plan to marry her but you slept with her without condom and put her in a family way

There is God oo

Why must people marry because of pregnancy ?
Did they talk of marriage before they got pregnant? It's a different thing if he promised her marriage, and she got pregnant but if he didn't, he hasn't done any wrong o.
That's how people will be forced into miserable unions, that will still end in violence and tears

LawBreaker:
I impregnanted this girl but I don't want to marry her. I am interested in the child. She is yet to deliver. I talked to the family that I need my child, but they refused and said I won't have him as I didn't pay her bride price.

Now I want to go to court. Am thinking if I will win the case. I don't want to spend my money and after every thing I won't win the case.

fool, if someone do your sister like that will you be happy.

jaymichael:
No court will grant you that kind of custody of the child. Just have good relationship with your baby mama and her family then take care of your parental responsibilities.

They said they don't need me to do expenses.

LawBreaker:
I impregnanted this girl but I don't want to marry her. I am interested in the child. She is yet to deliver. I talked to the family that I need my child, but they refused and said I won't have him as I didn't pay her bride price.

Now I want to go to court. Am thinking if I will win the case. I don't want to spend my money and after every thing I won't win the case.

You can't eat your cake and have it

If she is sweat for friendship then she is good for marriage

Look, just leave her alone pls because she will never ever give that child to you

It's either you marry her or she becomes your baby mama with no intentions of marriage

No woman will drop her child an infant for any man that pregnants her, its very difficult to do

Just take it cool and train your child while in her custody

If you take it to court, you won't get the child for whatever reason you may want to tender

LawBreaker:
I impregnanted this girl but I don't want to marry her. I am interested in the child. She is yet to deliver. I talked to the family that I need my child, but they refused and said I won't have him as I didn't pay her bride price.

Now I want to go to court. Am thinking if I will win the case. I don't want to spend my money and after every thing I won't win the case.

You need to be flogged mercilessly, but the question is why do we have irresponsible guys everywhere gaaaan naa


You don't intend marrying her and you f¿cked her?

Na the girl I go blame for opening her two tiny legs for you to cream her bread without making sure you have her in your picture.

Imagine you are the lady in question and a guy tell you this, how would you feel?

You better marry her

LawBreaker:


Thanks, I will do just this.

Believe me, you'll live to regret giving up on your child.
You have to settle things amicably with the girl's people so that they can allow you be in your child's life from day one.
You don't have to marry her for now...maybe in the future, you both might consider it.
What matters most now is the child involved.
Do not take the easy cowardly route!