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Simple. Save yourself the stress. Tell him how you feel. If he really does not love the other girl, he will end up hurting her. He might be waiting all this while for a signal from you. Let him make a choice based on love.

Tell him how you are feeling and define your friendship. It has happened to me before. I had to go and meet him and told him how i felt. It wasn't easy for me because I am the shy type. Immediately I told him,I left his room and I felt relieved.I knew if he loves me,he would come for me and if he is trying to please me,I will know. I avoided him for a while. He came back later to solve the issue.I ended up not dating him but there is nobody i can be more free with except him,even if i will date anybody,I think he will be the first to know and now am afraid I will be closer to him compare to my will-be boyfriend.

good advice.

There is notin bad in telin the guy. U just cal him and let him know how u feel abt his luv. It has hapen 2 me b4, i let him know how i felt 4 him, actualy his is maried but i stil luv the guy. He undastand my feeling and cared 4 me too. My advise 4 u is to let him undastand u and stop kiling urself.

@jontoyin He is married nd yet u r still tellin him hw u fil, so he wil abandon his wife 4 u abi? Pls liv married men alone. Get ur own.

This is why it's not possible for a boy and a girl to remain just freinds for a long time.

I don't think telling a married man how you feel is a good thing to do. That is 'crossing the line'. But if he is not married why not? Go ahead and se will present him with options.
People get married to the wrong person for so many reasons because they miss out on the genuine people that they love. However marriage is supposed to be built on the foundation of true love. Except that these days, there is a confusion between sex and love. Girls generally think they love a guy because they have had sex.
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Also there is nothing wrong in a girl telling a guy how she feels but it has to be done wisely or else she will become vulnerable and open herself up for abuse.
Basically a girl she try to give positive signals that are clear and hope for the guy to pick these up. (though some guys are basically 'dunce')

Give him greenlight! But be prepare for the consequences!

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talk with me, maybe i can help.

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