sanesta:
Imagine you bearing different surname from your husband and child(ren)

Not cool.

fulaniHERDSman:
Then it's not Marriage as we know it. Anyway marriage is not by force. You can be a baby mama and still retain your maiden name. Only a lazy, hungry and greedy man will agree to such setup.

uboma:



Keeping her maiden name does not mean that she will not bear her husband's name.

For instance;


Cindy Olurotimi Buhari


The Olurotimi is her maiden name while Buhari is her husband's name.

LIVINGICON:
The kind of knock i would give her will make her brain to undergo factory reset. She will tell me if she is married to her father or me.

WHAT KIND OF NONSENSE??

funmisticqueen2:
what benefits will your surname offer her?

Will it take her to high places or open doors for her.

A woman's husband's name must be better than her father's name for her to change it to his.

If his surname has no legacy, then maybe she should not adopt it. It is only poor men that take this matter seriously.

You cannot see Ned NWOKO or ELUMELU, UBAH, or dangote arguing about things like this.

Kekereekun123:
ogbeni rich men do worse. Nwoko initiated the babe into a delta traditional society if she dares cheat she don die be that o. Meanwhile nwoko can still be fucking other women. If 2 women divorced dangote despite his wealth. Its a pointer to his kind of person. If a woman cannot change her name. Baby mama option dey after all d man paid bride price

funmisticqueen2:
those are just two examples.

It's worse off if a poor man mistreats his wife and still expects her to carry his name. What legacy does he have?

lilmax:
As long as your weak husband is okay with it

LIVINGICON:
The kind of knock i would give her will make her brain to undergo factory reset. She will tell me if she is married to her father or me.

WHAT KIND OF NONSENSE??

uboma:



A man, who agrees to have his wife retain her maiden name, is not a weakling.

How does retaining her maiden name affect the marriage?

Omar09:
I'm thinking, if a lady is about to tie the knot with let's say, Timipere Silva's son, will she wanna keep her own maiden name?

lilmax:
he's a hero to you


he's a WEAK soul to me

Perspectives, respect it

Mizwisdom:




Why are you a violent person? what if she stabs you in the process all because of a disagreement? if you're not flexible abs open minded you're not ready for marriage


When a woman is ready to marry, she should be ready to drop her maiden name as well. She has become mine and i have also become hers. No third party. And what makes you feel i am not married already.

funmisticqueen2:
what benefits will your surname offer her?

Will it take her to high places or open doors for her.

A woman's husband's name must be better than her father's name for her to change it to his.

If his surname has no legacy, then maybe she should not adopt it. It is only poor men that take this matter seriously.

You cannot see Ned NWOKO or ELUMELU, UBAH, or dangote arguing about things like this.

genq:
Look at these hags acting like their doing their husband a favour by adopting his name

Keep your father's name na abi what value does it add to your husband's life By bearing your father's name, is it not a man's name you are still bearing? So much for matriarchy!

In fact, I insist that you keep your father's name, then your children must bear your father's name alongside your husband's - you must also encourage your offspring to do the same - so that 4 generations down the line, your great grand daughter's name would be Atinuke Adebola-Olagoke-Ariyibi-Ayinfele-Matthews

Nonsense.

Gaggi:
If a woman insist on keeping her husband's name by all means do. As long as the kids bear my name that's fine. It will make it easier for men who marry liabilities to distance themselves from her without much stain to their name.

funmisticqueen2:
what benefits will your surname offer her?

Will it take her to high places or open doors for her.

A woman's husband's name must be better than her father's name for her to change it to his.

If his surname has no legacy, then maybe she should not adopt it. It is only poor men that take this matter seriously

You cannot see Ned NWOKO or ELUMELU, UBAH, or dangote arguing about things like this.