My people, I greet you all.

I am a married man with a child. We did our child's dedication few days ago online and my wife is angry that I should have spent more to entertain our neighbors after giving them soft drinks.

I have considered my pocket and sincerely with the present situation if I don't cut down my expenses it will be hard on us.

For almost two months now no salary. I have explained to her but she is not pleased with me.

How should I go about this matter please?

This one strng "bros no go do pass yourself"

Tell her to use her own money too, why is she angry if she couldn't provide to celebrate her own baby Just be watching her

She has a crush on one of your neighbours who might have been eating her work behind your back and probably the real father of the child. and she is mad at you cos you didn't appreciate him enough for a job well done. Use your brain; if your neighbours are all women, her reaction wouldn't be the same.
Better run a DNA test on that child ASAP.

Modified: To the angry and inconsequential homo sapiens quoting me, have you all eaten today?

My brother, at this moment the naming is over and you have spent what you can afford and nothing can change it..it is only natural for some women to want to show off and I won't blame her for that but here is the thing..sit her down and apologize not because you did wrong but because you want peace..promise her you'll celebrate the child's birthday better and she will draw the plan and you'll give her whatever will be needed to make it her taste after all the baby is yours also and if not for the period we're in you would have loved to do more...just say this for peace to reign and make her feel she is right..a happy good woman makes a happy home my brother...

...modify...
For everyone quoting and insulting me calling me a weak man because I asked OP to be subtle and make peace, I'll ignore you!!!

Don't do any tin oh, just be petting her dat the next one will be better......

Always try to make peace she will move over it

My wife is angry that I should have spent more to entertain our neighbors after giving them soft drinks...

This is funny.



Perhaps it could be she bragged or promised first class treat to your neighbors for the event?

Just ask her to sponsor a post event with her money if she cares so much... That'll shut her.

Another egungun walking to the express way

My chairman no do pass yourself oh the same neighbors might deny you when you're in need.
Spend according to your pocket

Bros, stick by your guns. You done nothing wrong, and you are trying to manage scarce resources for your family. It is the one who wears the shoe, that knows where it pinches. I am sorry to say your Mrs sounds unreasonable with her request. You on the other hand are a forward thinking person. You need to outline the pros and cons of your decision to her, rather than being critical, she should support your decisions.

bros do wetin ur hand go reach o!

Oga Ade be the man and stop whining. You have made your point, please move on.

Naming ceremony is not like wedding. She should pay for it, if she wants it to be a big event

Nobody, has the monopoly of getting angry. If she is angry, get angry too.

rhymesu28:
My people ,I greet you all.I am a married man with a child.We did our child's dedication few days ago online and my wife is angry that I should have spent more to entertain our neighbors after giving them soft drinks. I have considered my pocket and sincerely with the present situation if I don't cut down my expenses it will be hard on us.For almost two months now no salary.i have explained to her but she is not pleased with me,how should I go about this matter please?

Na this kind wife go dey insult her husband for not buying the kind expensive Ankara her neighbour bought for his wife.

Run for your dear life before you become a church rat in the quest of trying to impress

lalasticlala

Randy100:
Nobody, has the monopoly of getting angry. If she is angry, get angry too.

Menh , I love this. Just go with this advice then come back to thank him

gamapoy539:
She has a crush on one of your neighbours who might have been eating her work behind your back and probably the real father of the child. and she is mad at you cos you didn't appreciate him enough for a job well done. Use your brain; if your neighbours are all women, her reaction wouldn't be the same.
Better run a DNA test on that child ASAP.

Wisdom!

Inferno001:
My brother, at this moment the naming is over and you have spent what you can afford and nothing can change it..it is only natural for some women to want to show off and I won't blame her for that but here is the thing..sit her down and apologize not because you did wrong but because you want peace..promise her you'll celebrate the child's birthday better and she will draw the plan and you'll give her whatever will be needed to make it her taste after all the baby is yours also and if not for the period we're in you would have loved to do more...just say this for peace to reign and make her feel she is right..a happy good woman makes a happy home my brother...

brilliant
kudos to u

funny

Guy you married an inconsiderate creature . She is even suppose to advise you not to hold any birthday party to avoid any expenses because of the condition of this period. I'm really tired of this creature called women . If you watch closely you will find out she wanted to use the birthday party to show off.

pls make una tamper justice with mercy o...pls oga make peace with your wife o because if you wan do now and madam refuse nko...haaa...all dis vex they're advising you to vex...walahi you won't smile o

[quote author=rhymesu28 post=89400499]My people ,I greet you all.I am a married man with a child.We did our child's dedication few days ago online and my wife is angry that I should have spent more to entertain our neighbors after giving them soft drinks. I have considered my pocket and sincerely with the present situation if I don't cut down my expenses it will be hard on us.For almost two months now no salary.i have explained to her but she is not pleased with me,how should I go about this matter please?[/quote
I don't know why after reading this your trash I got
Very angry why can't some people be a man for once

You can't kill yourself Boss. Don't over think. Ladies are like that sometimes.

Lol! �. This life is funny, how can she not understand the situation? Make she use her money redo the child dedication na.

Well, someone women don't think and are self centered!

Na wah o. Which kind woman this one come be like this? She prefer they waste their money feeding neighbors instead of themselves.