ademidedavid:

Its not bro but a lecturing job.....I have been trying all means to do so but she just doesn't like the job. ..

travelland:



You're already getting worked up sir please deal with your anger issues

LegitGirl:


You’re not a serious person. You’re not the talking type... what are you then, the beating type?

Nonsense and ingredients! Coward!

Poorboy:
ok I see, lecturing job is stressful, look for another Federal Government job for her.

If you want her to do business there will still be some issues.

Or you look for a state government job for her, if you live in your state.

But don't kill yourself and don't get emotionally stressed.

God will make a way....

I told you I wanted to marry with that my salary but when I was given the marriage list nobody told me to look for investment and combine with my salary before I marry.

As stated earlier I am building 5 self-contained rooms in Abuja here for rent.

ademidedavid:

I swear, I am really finding a way to just make myself happy and I am avoiding the thoughts of having a side chick

Ybaby:



Now you are talking ..... Investment!!

Owo la fin sho ko obinrin

Poorboy:

Ybaby:


Change this your monika to richboy.... there is no good in being poor

Ybaby:


Ah!!

side chics are even more expensive....

Baba mi double your hustle!

You are footing bills I commend you but your wife wants to travel to Dubai.... How far when will this be possible

Poorboy:
ok I see, lecturing job is stressful, look for another Federal Government job for her.

If you want her to do business there will still be some issues.

Or you look for a state government job for her, if you live in your state.

But don't kill yourself and don't get emotionally stressed.

God will make a way....

I told you I wanted to marry with that my salary but when I was given the marriage list nobody told me to look for investment and combine with my salary before I marry.

As stated earlier I am building 5 self-contained rooms in Abuja here for rent.

ademidedavid:

Even if I triple it and she travels to Dubai today, tomorrow she will want to travel to US and another time she will prefer Canada

Ybaby:


Very true!

That is the true nature of life. We are meant to increase to go higher.... she is calling you to increase. Will you answer her?

If she goes to the USA tomorrow it is because your income is much better and you can provide it. So na prayer.

Pray to God. HE hears!

Mariangeles:


She should kuku kill her husband niyen.
Iyawo Oloju kokoro!
Travel to do what by the way? For business or pleasure?

What is the use of a wife that cannot support her husband in the way she can no matter how little?

Ybaby:


Very true!

That is the true nature of life. We are meant to increase to go higher.... she is calling you to increase. Will you answer her?

If she goes to the USA tomorrow it is because your income is much better and you can provide it. So na prayer.

Pray to God. HE hears!

seanwilliam:
imagine somebody you dey feed, cloth, house, sponsor and practically responsible to every of her demands..and yet she still get the audacity to follow you talk anyhow... as I dey read the op post, I just dey put myself in such position, and dey imagine what I'll do to her that she will forever and ever and ever regret in her life.. imagine spending the largest part of the salary you toiled 30 days for on a woman and she is indirectly telling you " what have you done for me"... 30 days of insult you get from your boss, co worker, you denying yourself some life luxuries etc and person still get mouth to tell you say you no try Hahahahahah

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I trust the almighty God, he no go give me that kind wife. Cos I dont even want to think of what I'll do for her. ..

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This is the solution if I were you ...
1. Start taking overdose of red pills
2. Start reverse psychology on her
3. Spend more on your kiddo
4. Start investing
5. Comot mind for her matter ( if you dont, you go get hypertension)
6. Whenever she picks argument with you, walk out and go lodge outside.

7. Do like you dont care
8. Ignore her antics
9. Never make the mistake of having heart to heart talk with her.cos when a lady starts misbehaving, den no dey hear word..
10. Let her realise her mistakes and come to apologise herself.
11. Make she go out go find work by herself.. cos if you establish her, she no go appreciate..





Most painful words to me this life is make person tell me " what have you done for me " ( saying it directly or indirectly)after I hussle day and night for me and you..and you have the guts to tell me that word?? Even my mama no fit tell me that kind word make I gree

ademidedavid:

Alright, thanks so much...unreserved gratitude

Ybaby:


You are welcome sir.

You are going higher beyond your imagination this year.

All your wife wants will be chicken change to you and guess what you will not compromise your morality

Because you are alive men will be able to feed thier family through companies you have created.

Your divine Angels will help you. You are already the provider in your household and that will never stop. I appreciate you for providing for your household. God Almighty who made you the head of that home will uphold you.

I see you healthy and wealthy. God bless you bro.

I am sending you kind thoughts my bro.

Mariangeles:


She should kuku kill her husband niyen.
Iyawo Oloju kokoro!
Travel to do what by the way? For business or pleasure?

What is the use of a wife that cannot support her husband in the way she can no matter how little?

Ybaby:


A good woman supports by showing her husband what he can be and should be.

Some men are not self motivated, they need a push

Traveling for pleasure of course. Let us do away with the mindset of scarcity and welcome abundance.

If he sets his mind of providing USA trip for her, you will be surprised how the universe will agree with him and doors and opportunity will open.

It is not good to see a man as lacking - see him as abundance - see him prosperous and once buys into the idea. Prosperous he will be

The men sending thier wives to USA donot have two heads neither are they more intelligent that OP. They bought into the idea and with faith achieved it.

For OP to pay his wife's ticket imagine how proud of himself he will be and his confidence will increase.

He is a provider man he just need to have faith by welcoming the idea. Always tell your wife ok I will do it - give me some time.

Kneel down both of you and pray to God for the provision of it, write it down, imagine you have it and it will happen.

I promise you! You need just a mustard seed of faith.

Donot be like those who could not enter the promise land due to fear of giants forgetting that they have the bigger giant in them.

OP your wife is calling you to be a mighty man of valor, will you heed her call?

Or you want to continue managing your present condition.

All seeds increase. Increase is not greed. Greed is taking what does not belong to you.
Increase is turning 5 loaves to multitude.

I encourage you to work with your wife to greatness. She is doing her job. Supporting you to the potential she sees in you.

Heed her call.

ademidedavid

klenton:


you are just an empty vessel, na coconut water full that your head

what is it with Africans and religious belief, kneel down pray, have faith like a mustard seed!!! must everything be about religion the woman's request is stupid and that is what it is, which one is pray for God to give you the money, what happens to the woman praying on her own for God to give her the money.

do you know how many families that are looking for money just to eat, money to buy drugs, do you know how many families that does not have a decent shelter over there heads, families that cant afford a hospital, what happens to thanking God and been grateful, must it be pray for one luxury or the other.

and let's say u prayed ur way to a dubia trip, what if the woman needs a gwagon tomorrow or even cravings to fly private jet or a cruise trip round the world and you couldn't pray yourself out of it....i dont know why some women have failed to be reasonable as a people, is it that there processing brain is limited from birth, honestly it differs logic.

Mariangeles:


She should kuku kill her husband niyen.
Iyawo Oloju kokoro!
Travel to do what by the way? For business or pleasure?

What is the use of a wife that cannot support her husband in the way she can no matter how little?

Omar09:


Looking at the way people churn out their stupidity on here makes me hail you guys that put out the time to reply them. Just imagine the person you quoted just now. Just imagine. Smh

emmaodet:

A neighbour of mine who isn't doing bad, working at Lafarge cement/Wapco in sagamu, driving a nice 2006 toyota camry and apartment averagely furnished was shocked when his wife whom he has 3 kids with abandoned him and the kids to follow her friend to Oman last year.
I was shocked that how will a woman have the heart to leave hubby with 3 BOYS to go to Oman, to do what? hustle? runs?

O'BOY! THE ANGEL YOU MARRY TODAY CAN TURN THE HIGHEST DEMON TOMORROW.
ALL THE WEDDINGS, ALL THE MARITAL BLESSINGS AND VOWS, STILL YET THE WORST THINGS HAPPEN IN MARRIAGES BETWEEN GOD-FEARING PEOPLE.
THEM NOGO SEE MY BRAKE LIGHT.
BY THE WAY PERSON LIKE ME NOGO WASTE TIME TO DIVORCE AND MARRY MONTHLY.

LegitGirl:


You’re not a serious person. You’re not the talking type... what are you then, the beating type?

Nonsense and ingredients! Coward!

Prymestrr:

Hmmmmm... I really hope the person behind this moniker is speaking from a place of experience and not still a mummy's boy like I suspect.
Please for all teenagers and the uninitiated on NL kindly stay off marriage topics please and please.
No be boyfriend and girlfriend matter them deh discuss for that kind threads abeg. Na ppl life so try make you no comment on wetin you never fit understand.

galadima77:


Many of them will just open their mouths to spill what's supposed to be in the laterine without any idea of marital experience. Boyfriend /girlfriend relationship is different from marriage and once there's no respect and understanding then you both become strangers.

One even said he degraded himself.... I seriously doubt that one is married.

Oga OP, if and when you finally apologise to her and she doesn't return same, then know she didnt deserve the apology in the first place! I hate selfish people.

CAPSLOCKED:


O'BOY! THE ANGEL YOU MARRY TODAY CAN TURN THE HIGHEST DEMON TOMORROW.
ALL THE WEDDINGS, ALL THE MARITAL BLESSINGS AND VOWS, STILL YET THE WORST THINGS HAPPEN IN MARRIAGES BETWEEN GOD-FEARING PEOPLE.
THEM NOGO SEE MY BRAKE LIGHT.
BY THE WAY PERSON LIKE ME NOGO WASTE TIME TO DIVORCE AND MARRY MONTHLY.

galadima77:


You're the mouth running type. Insulting another woman's husband on a faceless forum. Who's the coward?

Are you even married?

LegitGirl:



Woman beater spotted! Get out of my mentions!