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Re: What Every Christian Youth Should Know About Sex by itzdeejay: 12:00pm On Jun 07, 2020
Everything is wrong with this post!
It contains all sorts of misinformations, lies, fallacies, generalizations and irrational veiws on sexual discussion and argument.

Therefore i don't know what this 'THING' is doing on the FRONT PAGE misleading ignorant/confuse innocent people.

I guess making click is better than the lives this post will ruin from the number of veiws it get.
You are all to be blamed in advance, either consciously or sub.

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Re: What Every Christian Youth Should Know About Sex by Nobody: 12:04pm On Jun 07, 2020
PRE4:


A girl and boy dating and having sex is a great offence to God.
The Bible contradicts fornication saying it is a sin against your body[the temple of God].1 Corinthians 6:15-19.
what if I don't give a damn about what GOD thinks?
Re: What Every Christian Youth Should Know About Sex by Nobody: 12:05pm On Jun 07, 2020
mrkings84:
SEX EDUCATION

Let's consider 2 verses of the scripture.
1: 1cor.6;18
2: 2Tim.2;22

1 Corinthians 6:18
Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a person commits are outside the body, but whoever sins sexually, sins against their own body.

2 Timothy 2:22 Flee also youthful lusts: but follow righteousness, faith, charity, peace, with them that call on the Lord out of a pure heart.

Introduction:
We live in a world where sex is celebrated in many ways; On bill boards, advertorials, vulgar language, dressing, etc. The perpetrators are mostly young people.

Sex was created by God for the main purpose of procreation and mutual pleasure and satisfaction.

The sex hormones in males is called TESTOSTERONE. While that in females are called OESTROGEN AND PROGESTERONE.

WHAT IS SEX EDUCATION?

Sex Education can be defined as the introduction of sexual topics within an educational context.

Sex Education is very large.
Some topics that can be taught in this are;

* PSYCHOSEXUAL DEVELOPMENT
* SEX ORGANS, SEX CRIMES
* SEXOLOGY
* SEXUAL ORIENTATION
* SEXUALLY TRANSMITTED DISEASES
* PARAPHILIA
* PAEDOPHILE, ETC

Listen up everyone,
That your body will not itch for sex because you're born again, is a fat lie.

Boys have an erection especially early in the morning for no reason sometimes.
Don't be ashamed, it means you're active and virile..

Girls have ovulation within which period their body will be doing them Paulina Paulina.
Don't worry yourself girl, you're normal.

However, between the various itches and sweet body we get, lies your DESTINY....
If you misfire at this time, there are very dangerous and regrettable mistakes you'll make..

So, ZIP UP and do it with all your soul...

Note this,
Sex is not running.
You'll soon be tired of seeing a naked penis or vagina.
Sometimes in marriage, it will stair at you and you'll have no desire especially when you get caught up with the issues of life...

Note again,
God will not wear you an Angelic bra, so that guys won't behold your boobs.
Big lie.
God won't wear you an Angelic garment so that girls won't crush on you.
Big lie.

The more they crush on you, the more you're being prepared for the slaughter...
Someone is preying on your DESTINY

Note;
THERE'S NOTHING LIKE CHRISTIAN HORMONES OR BORN AGAIN HORMONES..

Note also, that Pastors think about sex just as you the floor member. Otherwise, our Pastors wives wouldn't get pregnant.

There are certain facts you need to know about sex;
1) sex is permitted by God ONLY within the confines of the marriage institution.

If you're doing otherwise, you're a SEX THIEF..

2) Every act of sex goes with a consequence.
Sex is always tied with some kind of responsibility.

3) sex and Love are two different thing.
Sex is a desire or appetite, while Love is a decision and commitment.

4) sex does not make people to love each other.
Otherwise the world would have been a very lovely place.

5) If you marry because you have problems with sexual control, you'll still commit adultery.

Sex is much more than putting an erect penis in to a willing vagina. Premarital sex is the major cause of the incessant and frequent cases of divorce we now have in society.

A vagina that is always ready to receive an erect penis will soon become as wide as river Niger and as deep a borehole.

Also,
An unguarded and uncontrolled erect penis is one of the key reasons why society is full of bastards, idiots and criminals.

Men actually go by what they see.
That's why JOB prayed in JOB 31;1, It says:
"I made a covenant with mine eyes; why then should I think upon a maid?"

While Women go by what they hear..
That's why ordinary simple I love you, you are beautiful etc, a girl is already falling in love.

Anyone you have sex with automatically transfers to you every spirit he or she has.
That's why Joseph had an understanding and fled when his master's wife wanted to cut short his destiny.

Conclusion:
Sex is sweet.
After Jesus Christ, it is the next sweetest thing on Earth.
However, in between the sweetness, we have a five minutes pleasure that has destroyed Nations...
Let's be careful..

Now, all fornicators are sex thieves like I said earlier.
Why?
1) There is guilt after sex.
2) There is fear of pregnancy.
3) If they're in church they have daily confessions and secret fears. Etc

Just so much to talk about sex education but I have to end it here for now before it becomes boring to read....

Stay blessed, stay safe!

Credit: My mentor, pastor, teacher, coach PST DADDIE JOEL PhD.
What if I don't give a damn what God thinks?

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Re: What Every Christian Youth Should Know About Sex by psyco: 12:05pm On Jun 07, 2020
PrecisionFx:


""1 Corinthians 6:18
Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a person commits are outside the body, but whoever sins sexually, sins against their own body""

Sexual immorality isn't same as sex
What's sexual immorality?

Re: What Every Christian Youth Should Know About Sex by mrkings84(m): 12:08pm On Jun 07, 2020
Aderewah:


Did abraham marry his wife's maid before he had sex with her?

Oga o..... Oya let's leave the Bible out of this now, is it ok for a married man to lie with his maid?

Maybe it's ok in the society you find yourself, but it's ok in mine.
Re: What Every Christian Youth Should Know About Sex by psyco: 12:08pm On Jun 07, 2020
Ogadeeper:

The Songs of Solomon is symbolic book, it depicts the "love of Christ for His bride", the Church.
shocked
Re: What Every Christian Youth Should Know About Sex by GeneralPula: 12:08pm On Jun 07, 2020
But the greatest people that have ever liveth were a product of sex before marriage. Infact, some of them didn't know either their mother or father. Many great grand parent didn't get married in the very olden days. How would you explain that
Re: What Every Christian Youth Should Know About Sex by gowonmaharajah(m): 12:09pm On Jun 07, 2020
Don't allow any thing to taint your white apparel.


guide your mind against sexual perversion!
as Christians,
once we have power over sin,Satan is conquered.



anything that you do buh your conscience gets pricked afterwards... it's simply a SIN.


MAY GOD STRENGTHEN US MORE.

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Re: What Every Christian Youth Should Know About Sex by Aderewah: 12:11pm On Jun 07, 2020
mrkings84:


Oga o..... Oya let's leave the Bible out of this now, is it ok for a married man to lie with his maid?

Maybe it's ok in the society you find yourself, but it's ok in mine.

But Abraham did it
Re: What Every Christian Youth Should Know About Sex by mrkings84(m): 12:18pm On Jun 07, 2020
Heartlessbanker:
What if I don't give a damn what God thinks?

It will make no difference to God cos he made you and left u with the choice.
Even at that He expects you to choose wisely!

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Re: What Every Christian Youth Should Know About Sex by Bahddo(m): 12:18pm On Jun 07, 2020
Ogadeeper:

The Songs of Solomon is symbolic book, it depicts the "love of Christ for His bride", the Church.
no it doesn't depict any such thing. Someone came up with that explanation because y'all have demonized sex and romance.

It's just poetic stuff about a shulammite girl who was loyal to her beloved shepherd boy and refused to be enticed by the king. It's not even a story of chastity as some others claim, as she wasn't shy to PHYSICALLY express her love for her beloved. It's all about loyal romantic love.

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Re: What Every Christian Youth Should Know About Sex by Nobody: 12:19pm On Jun 07, 2020
Heartlessbanker:
what if I don't give a damn about what GOD thinks?


It is your life not mine.Whosoever invites bees to his house should get ready to be stinged by it.
Re: What Every Christian Youth Should Know About Sex by mrkings84(m): 12:21pm On Jun 07, 2020
Aderewah:


But Abraham did it
Yes he did it, and it was counted to him as a sin. And result of that (Ishmael) is what the Christians are going through today in the hands of our Moslem brethren all over the world....
Re: What Every Christian Youth Should Know About Sex by Freeeanijor: 12:24pm On Jun 07, 2020
mrkings84:


Your thoughts are conflicting to each other.
You said fornication is not sin I guess, but agreed sexual immorality is sin.
Habbba bro!!

Anyway, consensual or not, fornication and adultery are all sexual sins and if not repent and flee from it, damnation will be the end result.
Does God answer the prayers of those that have consensual sex?
men having sex with each other just like a man should with a woman.
woman having sex with woman.
man having sex with his Aunt from either of the maternal or paternal side.
father that have sex with his daughter, daughter in-law and marrying siblings, sisters from the same parent.
man that have sex with mother and daughter.
man that forcefully sleep with a slave girl
man that sleep with an animal.
man that sleep with his neighbors wife
man that sleep with his brother's wife while he's still alive
man that sleep with his sister
woman that sleep with animal
woman that sleep with her father
A woman that uses her body to make money (prostitute). This is disgusting to the eyes and abominable to the ears.

Consensual sex is never condemned, the Bible is silent on consensual sex.

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Re: What Every Christian Youth Should Know About Sex by Nobody: 12:25pm On Jun 07, 2020
pitamah901:

Why must you want to blame others for your misfortune and leave yourselves out of it, you are just looking for people to hitch your blame on for things not going well with you. Billionaires have sex and continue to be billionaires cause of good decisions they make and not blame people when things go wrong. Sir pls change ur mindset. When things go wrong with u look deeply, u are mostly at fault
Your various posts on ashawo and sexuality fora have said it all about your position in this regard. Case closed
Re: What Every Christian Youth Should Know About Sex by aaking(m): 12:28pm On Jun 07, 2020
THUNDER4real:
Good write up with good scriptural backing. However, I will contribute to the write up....If per adventure, anyone has been engaged in fornication/ sex outside marriage. God is still here to accept you back, confess your sins to him and accept Jesus Christ as your Lord and personal saviour. Also determine within yourself not to go back...Jesus loves you.

You just nail the conclusion in a wonderful way. God Bless
Re: What Every Christian Youth Should Know About Sex by futasu(m): 12:28pm On Jun 07, 2020
mrkings84:


Waiting for their questions.....
a boy and a girl dating without kiss and sex is it also a sin or not
Re: What Every Christian Youth Should Know About Sex by mrkings84(m): 12:32pm On Jun 07, 2020
Freeeanijor:

Does God answer the prayers of those that have consensual sex?

Yes/ No
If the prayer is for mercy God will answer, but no if otherwise. As Isaiah 59:1-2 puts it

Isaiah 59:1-2 Behold, the LORD'S hand is not shortened, that it cannot save; neither his ear heavy, that it cannot hear:
But your iniquities have separated between you and your God, and your sins have hid his face from you, that he will not hear.
Re: What Every Christian Youth Should Know About Sex by Nobody: 12:33pm On Jun 07, 2020
Olabenjamen22:


I don't exchange word with trolls.

So your own self acclaim definition is the right one.

Well I will still help you with the dictionary definition.
https://www.vocabulary.com/dictionary/sexual%20immorality


https://www.google.com/search?client=ucweb-lite-b&channel=sb&sxsrf=ALeKk025ukrTTeQNePjnMdBgirAc8kI7iw%3A1591521786797&ei=-rHcXoaMMJOBjLsP7sGIsAU&q=sexual+immorality+dictionary+definition&oq=sexual+immorality+dictionary+definition&gs_lcp=ChNtb2JpbGUtZ3dzLXdpei1zZXJwEAwyBggAEAgQHjIGCAAQCBAeMgYIABAIEB4yBQgAEM0COgQIABBHOgQIHhAKOgcIIxCwAhAnOgQIABANOgcIABANEIsDOggIABAIEAcQHjoGCAAQDRAeUMEsWPxUYJpdaAJwAXgAgAGKBIgBkyiSAQczLTcuNS4xmAEAoAEBuAEC&sclient=mobile-gws-wiz-serp



Stop writing meaningless things.

Pornei.
Re: What Every Christian Youth Should Know About Sex by Nobody: 12:33pm On Jun 07, 2020
psyco:
What's sexual immorality?




Sexual immorality is deviant sex like Necrophilia, Beastility, sleeping with prostitutes, Anal sex, homosexualism, etc.

Read up what Pornei means
Re: What Every Christian Youth Should Know About Sex by Dangrace01: 12:35pm On Jun 07, 2020
fairfora:
Good one. Even sex between husband and wife should have a limit. Anyone who has attended men's vigil, gathering and programmes where the issue of sex was being dissected would understand better how powerful the word sex is. The married ones in the forum, have you ever experienced this...whenever you are going or planning to go for a job interview, a meeting where a major contract is going to be discussed or even awarded, or preparing to attend visa appointment etc, your wife would suddenly develop an urge for sex? She might not even know which events are coming up. This is a great tempting period. Someone who did not even look at your face days earlier now suddenly romancing you? You have to be careful at this point. It's not that you dont love her if you decline. Always think as a man by standing your ground and let her understand you love her but not just ready for it. We as Christians ought to be more spiritually sensitive in such periods when we're trying to achieve something great by avoiding sex.
A few years back my friend was going for his Visa interview. A few days to the appointment, ladies whom he had not seen for years since he graduated began to throng his place. He was suddenly overwhelmed by fleshy lust and began touching them one after the other. His visa interview wasn't successful while that of his colleagues were approved. They were going for a major programme abroad. It cost him one good year to achieve this. He was single at that time.

We need to be sensitive always. I had missed my international flight before due to this. My wife suddenly pulled me and said oya, when I was fully dressed and about to set out to the airport. I had to obey her, just to make her happy. A journey of 30 minutes became 2 hours before getting to the airport so I missed my flight. I had to leave 2 days later.

On a couple of occasions, I had had visa issues some years back because of this. Since I noticed all these, I no dey do anything my phone would be switched off throughout sef. This is my personal experience,both when single and married.


With all due respect sir from what you wrote you are demonizing sex. You sound as if something is strange about sex whether married or unmarried. If I sleep with my wife and I didn't get Visa to America it might be a minds thing. Sex takes away naturally so you need time to replenish it's natural nothing spiritual to me

NB I never marry Sha I just think your thoughts are strange. Everything living thing have sex

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Re: What Every Christian Youth Should Know About Sex by Nobody: 12:36pm On Jun 07, 2020
PrecisionFx:


""1 Corinthians 6:18
Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a person commits are outside the body, but whoever sins sexually, sins against their own body""

Sexual immorality isn't same as sex
mad hooo shocked shocked shocked.. pls can you tell me what sexual immorality means.. please.. and also can u help me diff btw sexual immorality and sex..
Re: What Every Christian Youth Should Know About Sex by mrkings84(m): 12:40pm On Jun 07, 2020
paxonel:
non of these scriptures you quote suggest that sex between dating couples offends God or it is bad.
Rather, all these scriptures are pointing towards different things.
Heb 13: 4 says marriage is honorable, but fornicators and adulters (people who cheat in relationship) God will purnish.

I was referring to couples dating who don't cheat and enjoyed sex.
There are no scriptures indicating that it is bad.

The op, mrkings84 saw it and ran away from the question grin

Not so man, I'm just returning from the church now, will take time and go through all the mentions/ questions and react to them accordingly.... thanks!
Re: What Every Christian Youth Should Know About Sex by ORLAHOLUWA(m): 12:41pm On Jun 07, 2020
But wetin man go du wen money never dother y to fit marry konji na bastard e better mak I du am than to rape person pikin
Re: What Every Christian Youth Should Know About Sex by Irore: 12:44pm On Jun 07, 2020
mrkings84:
SEX EDUCATION

Let's consider 2 verses of the scripture.
1: 1cor.6;18
2: 2Tim.2;22
1 Corinthians 6:18
Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a person commits are outside the body, but whoever sins sexually, sins against their own body.
2 Timothy 2:22 Flee also youthful lusts: but follow righteousness, faith, charity, peace, with them that call on the Lord out of a pure heart.
....

Stay blessed, stay safe!
Wonderful down to earth piece. Father we ask for grace to be obedient in Jesus name,amen.

Credit: My mentor, pastor, teacher, coach PST DADDIE JOEL PhD.
Re: What Every Christian Youth Should Know About Sex by SweetCunt97(f): 12:56pm On Jun 07, 2020
This Op head no just correct. Pervert

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Re: What Every Christian Youth Should Know About Sex by mrkings84(m): 12:57pm On Jun 07, 2020
paxonel:
a guy and a girl dating and having sex, does it offend God?

Secondly, what is fornication according to scriptures?


Yes it does offend God a great deal. Fornication and adultery was one of the reasons God destroyed Sorom.
And because he detest those who indulge in such sins, He has no place for them in his paradise (Heaven)
(1 Cor. 6:9-10; Revelation 21:cool

Fornication is simply what is known as premarital sex today.
Re: What Every Christian Youth Should Know About Sex by Mekas2016(m): 12:59pm On Jun 07, 2020
So true.. GOD BLESS YOU
Re: What Every Christian Youth Should Know About Sex by mrkings84(m): 12:59pm On Jun 07, 2020
PrecisionFx:


""1 Corinthians 6:18
Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a person commits are outside the body, but whoever sins sexually, sins against their own body""

Sexual immorality isn't same as sex

So let's have what your definitions are for sex and sexual immorality and then disassociate the both of them from this context
Re: What Every Christian Youth Should Know About Sex by MrNipplesLover(m): 12:59pm On Jun 07, 2020
Until you people profer a solution to this scenario;


when konji holds a matured guy for neck, he's not married ooh, what should he do?


pls, na solution make u provide for my question. practical solution, since masturbation and premarital sex is a sin.

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Re: What Every Christian Youth Should Know About Sex by Freeeanijor: 1:00pm On Jun 07, 2020
mrkings84:


Yes/ No
If the prayer is for mercy God will answer, but no if otherwise. As Isaiah 59:1-2 puts it

Isaiah 59:1-2 Behold, the LORD'S hand is not shortened, that it cannot save; neither his ear heavy, that it cannot hear:
But your iniquities have separated between you and your God, and your sins have hid his face from you, that he will not hear.

The world was never destroyed because men had sex with women or children from such affairs condemned. But the world was destroyed because people abandoned the natural use of there sex organs Romans 1: 16,17 . That is why God gave them over to disgraceful sexual passion, for their females changed the natural use of themselves into one contrary to nature; 27 likewise also the males left the natural use of the female and became violently inflamed in their lust toward one another, males with males, working what is obscene and receiving in themselves the full penalty, which was due for their error.
Concubine (side chick) was never condemned neither was betrothal arrangements which permitted sex between the male and female involved condemned, infact an angel appeared to Joseph warning him not have sex with virgin Mary or send her away thinking that she had sex with anyone else.

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